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🎙️ Swingz Podcast – Live Every Week

Ten years.

Ten years of hotel takeovers.
Ten years of unforgettable nights.
Ten years of friendships that started with, “So… what are you into?”

This episode isn’t just a recap — it’s a celebration.

We’re breaking down what LifeInStyleSTL has meant to us over the last decade, hearing directly from ambassadors, newcomers, and the founders themselves, and talking about what keeps this community growing after 10 years.

From record-breaking moments to unexpected friendships… from meet & greets to full weekend takeovers… this one hits different.

If you’ve ever wondered what actually makes a lifestyle community last — this episode explains it.

🎥 Watch Live (Every Week)

👉 YouTube:    / @swingzpodcast 

🎧 Listen on Audio (Next Day)

• Apple Podcasts
• Spotify
• All major podcast platforms

🔗 Important Links

🌐 Erika’s Official Hub:
https://ErikaSwingz.com

💎 Support the Show (Members Only Perks):
YouTube Memberships & Patreon

🔥 LifeInStyleSTL – Newbie Meet & Greet
Curious but not sure where to start?
Relaxed, no-pressure introduction events at Chapter 3 in Soulard.
Dress sharp. Verified guests only.

What We Cover (Without Spoiling It All)

• The 10-Year Valentine’s Anniversary Weekend
• Playing chess at a swinger party
• Two Day 2 orgies
• Ambassador perspective
• First-time attendee reactions
• What makes a lifestyle group actually last
• Why leadership and culture matter more than chaos
• Meet & Greet — why skipping this step causes problems

Plus:
Hot or Not, Erika’s Comment of the Week, and a Words of Wisdom segment that might set you free.

If this episode reminds you why community matters:

👍 Like the video
💬 Drop your first LifeInStyle memory in the comments
🔔 Subscribe and turn notifications on
📤 Share it with someone who needs to hear it

Ten years down.
Plenty more to go.

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These People Have INSANE Sex Stories… We’re Not Okay After This | Reddit Reactions

Some Reddit stories sound fake.
These don’t.

In this episode of the Swingz Podcast, Drew and Erika read and react to some of the most unhinged, unbelievable, and question-your-life-choices stories Reddit has ever produced. Dorm showers. Catwalk sex. Fire alarms at fetish conventions. Public chaos. Zero shame. Somehow all real.

This is a live, no-guest episode where we break down what makes these stories hit so hard — fear, authority, taboo, confidence, poor decisions, and the psychology behind why people do absolutely wild things when opportunity meets impulse.

Fair warning: this one will make you feel much better about your own life choices.

❤️ SUPPORT & COMMUNITY UPDATE

Before we jump into chaos, we also take a moment to acknowledge FeralJesse and TanaNicole, who recently lost their home in a house fire. Everyone is safe, but they’re facing a long rebuild.
👉 Links to help and share are below — even spreading the word helps.

🎉 LIFEINSTYLESTL – VALENTINE’S X (10-YEAR ANNIVERSARY)

📅 February 13–14, 2026
🏨 Two-day hotel takeover | St. Louis metro

Neon Night pool party. Valentine’s dinner. DJs. Room crawl. Strip-tease contest. Live music. Late nights.
We also gave away tickets live during this episode.

🎟️ Use code SWINGZPARTY for 10% off tickets

👉 Event info & tickets: https://lifeinstylestl.com

🔗 LINKS & WHERE TO FIND US

🎥 Watch Live / Replay:
   / swingzpodcast 

🎧 Audio (next day):
Apple Podcasts | Spotify | All major platforms

💬 Join the Discord:
  / discord 

💎 Support the Show:
YouTube Memberships
Patreon:   / swingzpodcast 

🎩 Swingz Podcast Hat Giveaway:
Paid members who like, comment, and share this episode are entered to win.

👀 More from Erika:
https://ErikaSwingz.com

If this episode made you laugh, cringe, or rethink every decision you’ve ever made:
👉 Like the video
👉 Subscribe (we go live weekly)
👉 Share it with someone who definitely has a story they can’t tell at work

And if you’re listening on audio, a 5-star review helps more than you think.

We’re Drew & Erika.
This is the Swingz Podcast.
If your life has zero stories worth tellin

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🔴 LIVE DISCUSSION: Kinks vs Fetishes — Understanding Desire, Boundaries, and Exploration

People hear the word kink and immediately think extremes. Chains. Whips. Taboo. Something only other people are into.

But the truth is far more nuanced.

In this episode of the Swingz Podcast, Drew and Erika break down the real difference between kinks and fetishes, where desire actually comes from, and why navigating curiosity in the lifestyle takes more maturity than most people expect.

This isn’t a shock-value episode. It’s a grounded conversation about psychology, consent, boundaries, and knowing when exploration adds depth — and when it’s time to pause or walk away.

We also dive into:

Why most people have kinks (and why that’s normal)

When preference turns into dependency

Why consent is the starting point — not the finish line

How bad experiences reshape desire

Why lifestyle spaces require higher emotional intelligence

Plus, we’re celebrating 10 years of LifeInStyleSTL with a LIVE Valentine’s X ticket giveaway (rules announced only during the show).

🎟️ LIFEINSTYLESTL VALENTINE’S X — FREE TICKET GIVEAWAY

📅 February 13–14, 2026
🏨 Two-night hotel takeover
🎶 Live music, DJs, pool parties, room crawl, and more

➡️ Giveaway rules are shared live during the episode only.

🔗 LINKS & SUPPORT

🎥 Watch Live / Replay: YouTube.com/@SwingzPodcast
🎧 Audio: Apple Podcasts & Spotify (next day)

💬 Join the Discord: https://discord.gg/DHYCmqKQmH

💎 Support the Show:
• YouTube Memberships
• Patreon: https://patreon.com/swingzpodcast

• Super Chats during live shows

🎩 Swingz Podcast Hat Giveaway:
Paid members who like, comment, and share this episode are entered to win.

🧠 SOURCES REFERENCED

• Lehmiller, J. (2018). Tell Me What You Want
• YouGov America Sexual Attitudes Survey (2015)
• DSM-5-TR (APA)
• Wright et al. (2020). Archives of Sexual Behavior
• Connolly, P. (2006)

If this episode made you think, drop a comment and tell us what landed.
Like the episode, subscribe if you haven’t, and share it with someone navigating curiosity or boundaries.

Keep it honest. Keep it consensual.
— Drew & Erika Swingz

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🔔 SUPPORT THE SHOW

👍 Like the episode
📌 Subscribe if you’re new
💬 Drop a comment — even a quick “what’s up” helps more than you think

⭐ Listening on audio? Leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.

💬 LIVE CHAT & SUPER CHATS help keep the show independent and growing.

🎩 Swingz Podcast Hat Giveaway:
Paid YouTube Members or Patreon supporters who like, comment, and share this episode are automatically entered. Multiple hats. Real odds.

🧠 WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE
🔄 The January Reset

The mental whiplash of watching stats reset overnight

Why January feels worse for creators than any other month

Comparing yourself to others when everyone is restarting

How resets expose what wasn’t working last year

🔥 Hot or Not

HOT: Facebook Dating
NOT: Flipping off the camera

🗓️ Planning a Year Without Burning Out

Realistic goals vs fantasy goals

Why consistency beats intensity

Planning in quarters instead of months

Leaving room for real life, breaks, and fun

📊 Goals That Actually Matter

Vanity metrics vs meaningful progress

What numbers really move the needle

Personal vs business goals

Why some goals shouldn’t be shared publicly

📚 Lifestyle Lingo

Term: Facial
Why terminology, consent, and communication matter more than people realize — especially when expectations aren’t clearly defined.

🧠 Words of Wisdom

If your plan depends on motivation, it’s a bad plan.
Progress you can repeat beats success you can’t maintain.

🎶 EVENT PLUG — LifeInStyleSTL LouFest 2026

Live music. Sexy bar takeover vibes. No hotel rooms required.

📍 Downtown St. Louis
📅 January 31, 2026
💵 $64 per couple | Ladies FREE
⏰ Doors at 8PM — party goes late

Two-room setup with Plastic Kings playing rock covers all night.
One loud room. One chill lounge. Always packed.

🎟️ Tickets & details below.

🔗 LINKS

🎧 Audio Podcast (Next Day):
Apple Podcasts | Spotify

🎥 Watch Live & Replays:
   / @swingzpodcast 

🎩 Support the Show:
YouTube Memberships | Patreon

📍 Events:
LifeInStyleSTL.com

📲 Follow Us:
Drew: linktr.ee/drewswingz
Erika: linktr.ee/erikaswingz

📩 Email the show:
[email protected]

💬 JOIN THE CONVERSATION

Tell us in the comments:

One goal you’re setting for this year

OR one thing you’re leaving behind from last year

If this episode helped reset your mindset, share it with someone who’s staring at their numbers wondering what comes next.

For Erika Swingz, I’m Drew Swingz — and I’ll see you out there.

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Our friend John, husband to Ashlie Sweetie, is currently in the ICU fighting for his life. He’s in a coma, a father of four, and a hardworking diesel mechanic whose family is now facing overwhelming medical bills while he’s unable to work.

John and Ashlie have both been guests on this podcast and are part of the LifeInStyleSTL community. When someone in this community needs help — we show up. Period.

👉 Please donate or share their GoFundMe if you’re able:
https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-jo...

Even sharing the link helps more than you think. Thank you for supporting them.

🎙️ ABOUT THIS EPISODE

Tonight’s episode is different — and it needed to be.

We’re talking honestly about how the lifestyle changes people over time… and how sometimes the most mature, healthiest decision is admitting that something that once worked no longer does.

This episode covers:

Why opening up isn’t always linear

Closing doors without calling it failure

Burnout, health, finances, kids, and shifting priorities

Changing boundaries without blowing everything up

Taking breaks, leaving the lifestyle, or redefining what it looks like for you

Why conditional consent is still valid

And why outgrowing something doesn’t mean you failed

This is a real, grounded conversation — not clickbait, not fantasy, not pressure.

❤️ SUPPORT THE SHOW

If you value honest conversations like this, the best way to support the podcast is through:

👉 YouTube Memberships – badges, emojis, early access, priority chat
👉 Patreon – help keep the show independent and improving
👉 Super Chats during live shows

Links are below. No pressure — just appreciation.

🎟️ HAT GIVEAWAY

We’re giving away Swingz Podcast hats 🎩

To enter:

Be a paid member on YouTube or Patreon

Like this episode

Comment

Share

That’s it. We’ve got several hats to give away, and winners will be contacted directly.

🎄 UPCOMING EVENT — LifeInStyleSTL XXXmas Lingerie Party

Close out the year the right way with a full hotel takeover featuring:

Meet & Greet

Themed room crawl

Lingerie party after 10PM

Heated indoor pool

Homemade food & spiked cider

Optional on-site rooms with breakfast included

🎟️ Use promo code SWINGZ2026 to save on tickets
Links are below — this is a great entry point if you’re new.

🧠 LIFESTYLE LINGO

Fluffer
Originally a porn-industry term, now used in lifestyle spaces to describe someone who provides sexual, emotional, or ego support behind the scenes.

🔥 HOT OR NOT

HOT: No alarm clocks
NOT: Zyn

🧠 WORDS OF WISDOM

This episode closes with a serious conversation about masculinity, emotional restraint, responsibility, and why actions matter more than feelings — especially for men navigating relationships, families, and leadership roles.

It’s not sugarcoated. It’s not trendy. It’s honest.

📣 FINAL ASK

If this episode resonated with you:

Drop a comment sharing something you’ve outgrown in life or the lifestyle

Like the video to help it reach others

Share it with someone who might need this conversation

And once more — if you can help John and Ashlie, please us

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This week on the Swingz Podcast, Drew & Erika sit down with JustaBarbi and DaddyChev — two creators who look intimidating as hell at first glance… and then completely flip the script once you actually get to know them.

What started as skepticism before a Florida trip turned into one of the most eye-opening weeks we’ve had in the lifestyle. We talk first impressions, content creation, long-term ambition, “Dommy Mommy” energy, traveling for collabs, and why vibes matter more than appearances every single time.

If you’ve ever judged someone too quickly — or been judged yourself — this episode hits home.

🔥 IMPORTANT LINKS & CTAs (Read This First)

👉 Vote for us at the AVN Awards (once per day per account):
https://avn.com/awards/voting/favorite-adult-podcast

Categories:

Favorite Adult Podcast

Favorite Creator Couple

👉 Watch LIVE & Subscribe:
https://YouTube.com/@Swingzpodcast

👉 Support the Show:
YouTube Memberships & Patreon help keep this podcast independent, unfiltered, and growing.
Links are below 👇

🎧 AUDIO VERSIONS (Available the Next Day)

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/swingz-life-as-a-xxx-content-creator/id1775345579

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5hCJaKWklGcQwgFeJnbtjH

👥 GUEST LINKS

JustaBarbi: https://x.com/justa_barbi

DaddyChev: https://x.com/wydchev

Go show them some love — and tell them Swingz sent you.

🧠 What We Cover in This Episode

Why JustaBarbi & DaddyChev are constantly misread

Traveling for collabs and what it reveals about people

How Florida changed everyone’s perspective

“Dommy Mommy” explained (confidence vs control)

Choosing collabs intentionally to avoid burnout

Long-term growth vs chasing short-term hype

AVN prep, ambition, and playing the long game

Why vibes beat looks every damn time

💬 JOIN THE CONVERSATION

Drop a comment with:

Your first impression vs reality moment

A time you misjudged someone (or were misjudged)

Your HOT or NOT for the week

We read comments live on the show.

🌐 FOLLOW & CONNECT

Drew: https://linktr.ee/drewswingz

Erika: https://linktr.ee/erikaswingz

Podcast: @SwingzPodcast on all platforms

Email: [email protected]

If you enjoyed this episode, like it, subscribe, comment, and share it.
If you really want to help us grow — vote daily at AVN and consider becoming a member.

Keep it filthy. Keep it bold. We’ll see you out there. 🖤🔥

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⬇️ READ THIS FIRST – IT HELPS US MORE THAN YOU THINK ⬇️

🔥 WE’RE UP FOR AVN AWARDS — VOTE DAILY 🔥
🗳️ Favorite Adult Podcast
🗳️ Favorite Cam / Creator Couple
👉 Vote once per day, per account:
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👍 Like the video
💬 Drop a comment (even “hell yeah” helps)
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🎧 Missed the live show?
Audio versions drop next day on:
• Apple Podcasts
• Spotify

🥂 EPISODE OVERVIEW

This week, we’re breaking down two chaotic nights at the LifeInStyleSTL New Year’s Eve takeover — glass-walled hotel rooms, wild energy, questionable food decisions, emotional moments, and the kind of stories you only get when you put open-minded people together for 48 straight hours.

From Drew driving four hours for a hookup, to Erika powering through New Year’s Eve while feeling like absolute trash, to dance floors, orgies, masquerade vibes, and everything in between — this episode is a full, unfiltered NYE recap.

If you’ve ever wondered what lifestyle hotel takeovers are really like… this one’s for you.

🕛 WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE

• Two-night swinger hotel takeovers
• LifeInStyleSTL NYE party recap (Night 1 & Night 2)
• Holiday chaos & four Christmas celebrations
• Golf, hookups, and questionable decisions
• Lifestyle lingo: Brat / Bratty explained
• Emotional New Year’s moments
• AVN voting & why it actually matters
• Hot or Not: two-day events vs bad party food
• Drew’s Words of Wisdom on confidence & posture

🎟️ UPCOMING EVENT – LifeInStyleSTL

🖤 Black Party Meet & Greet
📅 January 23, 2026
📍 Soulard, St. Louis
💵 $28.99 per couple | 👠 Single ladies FREE

🎟️ Tickets & info: https://lifeinstylestl.com

💸 Use promo code: SWINGZFEST to save

Meet & Greets are where friendships start — no pressure, no expectations, just real conversations.

❤️ SUPPORT THE SHOW

Want to help keep this podcast independent, uncensored, and growing?

⭐ YouTube Memberships – badges, emojis, priority chat
⭐ Patreon – support the show directly
⭐ Super Chats during live episodes

🎁 HAT GIVEAWAY
Paid members who like, comment, and share this episode are automatically entered to win a Swingz Podcast hat.

🔗 FOLLOW & CONNECT

🎙️ YouTube: https://YouTube.com/@Swingzpodcast

🔗 Drew: https://linktr.ee/drewswingz

🔗 Erika: https://linktr.ee/erikaswingz

🎧 Apple Podcasts & Spotify – search Swingz Podcast

Thanks for watching, listening, voting, commenting, and supporting.
This show doesn’t exist without you.

🖤 Keep it filthy. Keep it bold. We’ll see you out there. 🔥

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🔥 Episode 60: Shark Fishing, Friendship Blowups & Navigating the Lifestyle Together

🗳️ VOTE DAILY AT THE AVN AWARDS
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👉 Favorite Cam / Creator Couple: https://avn.com/awards/voting/favorite-cam-creator-couple

👍 LIKE • SUBSCRIBE • COMMENT • SHARE
💬 Super Chats are OPEN during the live show — they keep the podcast running!

Last week we didn’t miss an episode because we were lazy — we missed it because we were stress-testing friendships in Florida.

In Episode 60, Drew & Erika are joined by TanaNicoleSTL and FeralJesse to break down everything that happens when travel, alcohol, late nights, and real conversations collide. From shark fishing and hot tubs to emotional “crash outs” and honest conflict resolution, this episode dives deep into what real friendships in the lifestyle actually require.

This isn’t a highlight reel — it’s the truth about communication, growth, and why friendships aren’t built on perfection… they’re built on how you handle the messy parts.

🦈 In This Episode:

• Florida shark-fishing chaos (yes, we caught one)
• Trip dynamics that accelerate friendships — for better or worse
• What happens when tension goes unspoken
• Lifestyle Lingo: “Crash Out” — and why emotional spirals kill connections
• Real talk on friendship conflict between Drew & Jesse
• Preparing for AVN as first-timers
• Why silence ends friendships faster than arguments
• How to tell who’s actually happy for your growth
• Why real friends don’t compete — they celebrate

🧠 Words of Wisdom:

Pay attention to who shrinks when you grow.
That information is priceless.

🎧 Listen to the Podcast:

🎥 YouTube (Live & VOD): https://youtube.com/@SwingzPodcast

🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/swingz-life-as-a-xxx-content-creator/id1775345579

🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5hCJaKWklGcQwgFeJnbtjH

🤝 Support the Show:

⭐ YouTube Memberships
⭐ Patreon: https://patreon.com/SwingzPodcast

⭐ Super Chats during live streams

👥 Follow Our Guests:

🔥 TanaNicoleSTL
X (Twitter): https://x.com/TanaNicoleSTL

📲 Follow Us Everywhere:

Drew: https://linktr.ee/drewswingz

Erika: https://linktr.ee/erikaswingz

Podcast: https://youtube.com/@SwingzPodcast

If this episode hit home, drop a comment — we read them on the show.
Thanks for being here, thanks for supporting, and thanks for helping us keep this community real.

Keep it filthy, keep it bold — we’ll see you out there.

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Tonight we're diving into a BIG one — online safety, age-verification laws, predator awareness, protecting kids on the internet, lifestyle misunderstandings, and the chaos of our week… including Erika’s first Jiu-Jitsu class and prep for our Florida shark-fishing collab trip.

This episode blends real-world seriousness with Swingz humor and storytelling, so get comfy — it’s a ride.

📺 Full Video Episodes:
YouTube.com/@SwingzPodcast

🎧 Audio Versions (New Episodes Every Wednesday):
Apple Podcasts ➜ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/swingz-life-as-a-xxx-content-creator/id1775345579
Spotify ➜ https://open.spotify.com/show/5hCJaKWklGcQwgFeJnbtjH

❤️ Become a YouTube Member:
Badges, emojis, early access, VIP perks
https://www.youtube.com/@SwingzPodcast/join

🔥 Join Our Patreon:
Behind-the-scenes, early releases, members-only Discord perks
https://patreon.com/SwingzPodcast

💬 Super Chats:
Read live during every episode and keep the show growing!

⭐ FOLLOW US EVERYWHERE

Drew: linktr.ee/drewswingz
Erika: linktr.ee/erikaswingz
Podcast: linktr.ee/SwingzPodcast

Discord: https://discord.gg/DHYCmqKQmH

Reddit: reddit.com/r/SwingzPodcast

⭐ AFFILIATE & SPONSOR LINKS

📌 SocialRise (Content Scheduling + Analytics)
Manage all your platforms with one tool
https://social-rise.com/?via=erika

📌 LifeInStyleSTL Events:
This week’s promo code: SWINGZXXXmas
https://LifeInStyleSTL.com

📌 Yum-Yum-Time Floggers:
Custom lifestyle toys — use code SWINGZ
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