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They say you never forget your first — and tonight, we’re proving it. 😏 From our very first swap and the awkward beginnings to the unforgettable chaos that came after, Drew & Erika rewind time to share how it really started, how it went down, and what we learned along the way.

It’s a wild, hilarious, and totally unfiltered episode packed with embarrassing firsts, unexpected moments, and the stories that built the Swingz legacy. Whether you’re a lifestyle veteran or brand new to the scene, you’ll laugh, cringe, and maybe even blush your way through this one.

💬 Drop a comment: What’s your most memorable “first” (keep it TOS-friendly 😉)?

🔥 In This Episode:

Our very first swap (and how Craigslist was involved 😅)

First orgy, first FFM, first MFM — what went right, what didn’t

The power of learning from your “first fails”

“F*ck-et List” talk — the ultimate bucket list of experiences

Why every first, no matter how awkward, builds confidence

Erika’s “Comment of the Week” (you don’t want to miss this one)

Words of Wisdom: “Confidence isn’t built on smooth experiences — it’s built on surviving the train wrecks with a grin.”

🧠 Tip of the Week:

Your journey is your own. Don’t compare your “firsts” to anyone else’s — just enjoy the ride and laugh through the awkward.

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In the lifestyle, sex gets the spotlight—but friendship is the real glue that keeps everything together. 💬 In this episode, Drew & Erika Swingz dive into the laughter, boundaries, and chaos that come with lifestyle friendships—the ones that stay platonic, the ones that cross the line, and the ones that crash and burn in spectacular fashion.

What’s Inside:
🎯 Defining lifestyle friendships — when it’s just friends, and when it’s more
💬 Mixing lifestyle & family — where to draw the line
🔥 Long-term lifestyle friends vs. short-term fun
😂 The “Hot or Not” list for the week
🏡 Manta Home Service shoutout (use 636-232-4390 for your next home project!)
💡 Tip of the Week — Don’t “dangle the carrot”: be upfront about your intentions
❤️ Words of Wisdom — Why real friends last, and fake ones fade

💬 Join the conversation:
What’s the wildest or most meaningful friendship story you’ve had in the lifestyle? Drop it in the comments—we’ll read a few next episode!

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We’re celebrating ONE YEAR of Swingz with a full house and fan-favorite clips! Joining us:  SunflowerDiva & DJ, and LolaWilld. We’re swapping best memories from the podcast, LifeInStyleSTL events, and the creator grind—plus we’ll roll in short clips from past guests throughout the show.

Watching live? If we hit 10 super chats (any amount) tonight, we’ll host an online movie watch party for everyone who chipped in. 🙌

What’s inside (highlights)

1-year memories with returning guests

LifeInStyleSTL’s 10-Year Anniversary & Halloween weekend recap

Community moments that stuck with us

“Real talk” about growing a respectful, fun, adults-only scene

Surprise clips from fan-favorite guests

Sponsors & Links

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Private bar takeover, themed drinks, great bites, dress to impress (lederhosen welcome). Pre-approved guests only. No door sales.
This week only: Use code SwingzEm for 10% off tickets to any LifeInStyleSTL event you book this week.
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⭐ Join our YouTube Memberships

Swingz Squad ($2.99): badges, emojis, live shoutouts, early access, poll voting

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👉 Click Join on our channel: YouTube.com/@Swingzpodcast

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We moderate r/gwstlouis for local connections, event chatter, and creator collabs.
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❤️ Support the Show on Patreon
We’ve launched Patreon so listeners can support the show for $5/month. All funds go back into content, equipment, and editing (with some fun member sprinkles).
👉 patreon.com/swingzpodcast

Listen & Follow

🎧 Replay on Apple Podcasts & Spotify (next day)
📺 Watch live + archives: YouTube.com/@Swingzpodcast

Erika: linktr.ee/erikaswingz

Drew: linktr.ee/drewswingz

Podcast socials: @SwingzPodcast
📩 Email: [email protected]

👍 If you enjoy the show, like, comment, subscribe, and share it with a friend who’d love this community.

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Tonight we’re handing fans a practical playbook for supporting creators the right way. Green flags, red flags, tipping strategy, platform TOS traps, punctuality, and how to be the person creators remember—in a good way. Long-time friend/fan Dale joins Drew & Erika with real-life wins and “don’t do this” stories.

What’s inside

Green flags vs. red flags in DMs & comments

How to get noticed without being thirsty

TOS traps (OnlyFans, SextPanther, etc.) and safer wording

Scheduling & second chances (punctuality matters)

Hot or Not: tip notes & surprise gifts

Lifestyle Lingo: “Tribute” (tip-first message)

Tip of the Week: Clarity / Cleverness

Sponsor

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👉 Use promo code swingzgb to save this week. (Link in description.)

Join the channel

YouTube Memberships

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Tap Join or see the link below.

Call to action

If you learned something, like the video, subscribe, and comment your best opener (or biggest DM ick).
Live chat: if we hit 10 super chats of any amount tonight, we’ll host an online movie watch party for everyone who chipped in.

Links

Drew: linktr.ee/drewswingz

Erika: linktr.ee/erikaswingz

Podcast hub: YouTube.com/@Swingzpodcast

Email stories/questions: [email protected]

STL community: r/gwstlouis on Reddit

Member thanks

Huge love to: Isaiah Roy IV, BluesCoupleSTL, Brandon Scott, and Daddy D (Dale!)
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We’re live at 7:00 PM CT with a high-signal convo for creators and the curious. Special guest AugustHeat joins Drew & Erika to unpack her first professional shoots, how sets actually run, and the simple systems that make content better (and sell more) without burning out.

What we’ll cover

Pro shoot 101: booking, testing/paperwork, choosing partners, day-of workflow

Amateur → Pro: what to keep, what to level up, advocating for yourself on set

Planning content that sells: PPV vs. free, trends that consistently perform, handling flops

Collabs: green flags, red flags, and when to pass

Long-term growth: niche, reputation, avoiding burnout

Lifestyle Lingo: “Pro Shoot” (clear, practical checklist)

Tip of the Week: Choose your lane—on your terms

💬 Join the chat: Drop your weekly win and any creator questions for August—we’ll pull some live.

Support the show

Join YouTube Memberships (tap “Join” on our channel):

Swingz Squad ($2.99): badges, custom emojis, live shoutouts, early access, poll power

Swingz Society ($6.99): + priority replies, members-only shorts, guaranteed email responses

VIP Backroom ($14.99): + social follows, monthly Discord cam hangouts, invites to select live events, exclusive game-show videos

Friend of the show

LifeInStyleSTL Halloween — Oct 17–18
Two nights, hotel takeover vibes, DJs, contests, and more. Use code SWINGZPODCAST for a limited discount. (Details in stream.)

Local hub: Join the STL community on Reddit → r/gwstlouis

Connect with us

Podcast:    / @swingzpodcast  & socials @SwingzPodcast

Erika: linktr.ee/erikaswingz

Drew: linktr.ee/drewswingz

Email: [email protected]
(stories, questions, collab ideas)

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Content creation is more than turning on a camera—it’s about strategy, consistency, and knowing what actually makes fans stick around (and spend). Tonight, Erika and Drew break down their tips for OnlyFans, Fansly, ManyVids, SextPanther, and more. From rookie mistakes to long-term growth strategies, we’re pulling back the curtain on what works, what doesn’t, and how to last in this game.

🔥 Topics we cover this week:

Planning content that actually sells

Rookie mistakes new creators make

Collaborations with strangers—hot or not?

PPV strategies and balance

Long-term brand growth without burning out

Weekly Words of Wisdom: Why consistency beats gimmicks every time

🎟️ LifeInStyleSTL Halloween Party
October 17–18 at a premiere hotel – one of the top 3 lifestyle events of the year! Use promo code SWINGZCHERRY for 10% off tickets this week only: https://lifeinstylestl.com

🌟 Join our YouTube Memberships!

Swingz Squad ($2.99) – badges, emojis, shoutouts, polls, early access

Swingz Society ($6.99) – + priority replies, members-only shorts, guaranteed Q&A responses

VIP Backroom ($14.99) – + social follows, monthly Discord cam hangs, select live invites, and members-only sexy game show vids

Hit the Join button on our channel: YouTube.com/@Swingzpodcast

📲 Connect Locally on Reddit:
We moderate r/gwstlouis – the hub for swingers, hotwives, creators, and lifestyle friends in St. Louis and surrounding areas. Post yourself, find play, and stay updated: reddit.com/r/gwstlouis

👉 Watch live: YouTube.com/@Swingzpodcast

🎧 Replay tomorrow: Apple Podcasts & Spotify

📲 Follow us everywhere:
Erika: linktr.ee/erikaswingz

Drew: linktr.ee/drewswingz

Podcast: @SwingzPodcast

📩 Email: [email protected]

⚡ Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe—it keeps the show going and helps us bring you more stories and tips every week!

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Your reputation in the lifestyle is everything. It decides who wants to party with you, play with you, and whether you get invited back—or blacklisted. In this episode, Drew and Erika break down how to build and protect your reputation, how to handle rejection without wrecking friendships, and how to keep your name clean for the long haul.

🔥 Topics we cover this week:

Why positivity keeps doors open and negativity shuts them fast

How to say “no” gracefully and still be friends

What to do when people talk about you behind your back

Blacklist behavior—what earns it and can you bounce back?

Tips for newbies on avoiding reputation-killing mistakes

Weekly “Hot or Not”: Couple profiles with face pics

Lifestyle Lingo: “Blacklist” explained

Words of Wisdom on why your rep matters more than your looks

💬 Join the conversation live! Drop your thoughts in the chat, share your reputation stories, and let us know how you handle lifestyle drama.

🎟️ LifeInStyleSTL Halloween Party
October 17–18 at a premiere hotel – one of the biggest lifestyle events of the year! Use promo code SWINGZDREW before September 30 to save 10% on tickets. Don’t miss it.

👉 Watch live:    / @swingzpodcast 

🎧 Catch the replay: Apple Podcasts & Spotify (links below)

📲 Follow us everywhere:
Erika: linktr.ee/erikaswingz

Drew: linktr.ee/drewswingz

Podcast: @SwingzPodcast

📩 Got a story or question? Email us at [email protected]

⚡ Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe—it keeps the show going and helps us bring you more wild stories every week!

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Vote for us in the AVN Pre-Nominations! 🏆
👉 avn.com/awards/pre-nomination

📌 Categories to support:

• Best Adult Podcast – Swingz Podcast
• Most Amazing Ass – Erika Swingz
• Favorite Creator Couple
• Favorite Independent Female Creator
• Favorite Independent Male Creator
• Favorite MILF Star

Every nomination counts, so take a second and drop those votes before September 20!

🎙 Episode 47: "Misconceptions, OnlyFans & Setting the Record Straight"

This week we’re joined by PurpleTemptress & PurpleTempHubs for a raw and unfiltered conversation about misconceptions in the lifestyle, creators being misrepresented online, and the truth behind events like the recent Hotwife Party where single men were allowed for the very first time.

We also dive into TMZ’s new documentary The War on OnlyFans—is it a fair take, or just more clickbait? Plus, we break down how to handle misconceptions in the community, what “Bi for the Guy” really means, and why reputation is everything if you want to last in this space.

💬 Join the Live Chat Tonight at 7PM CT! Share your thoughts, stories, and hot takes—we’ll be reading and reacting live.

🔥 This Episode Covers:

• Hotwife Party recap & wild moments
• Misconceptions about lifestyle creators
• The War on OnlyFans (TMZ documentary)
• Lifestyle Lingo: “Bi for the Guy”
• Hot or Not: TikTok Lifestyle Callouts
• Tip of the Week & Words of Wisdom

✨ Support the Show & Upcoming Events:

• 🎉 LifeInStyleSTL Halloween Party – Oct 17 & 18 (Promo Code: SWINGZFRIENDZ for 10% off)
• 🍑 Vote for us in the AVN pre-nominations: avn.com/awards/pre-nomination
  
  
• 💌 Email your questions & stories: [email protected]
  
  

🔗 Follow & Subscribe:
YouTube: YouTube.com/@SwingzPodcast

Spotify: Swingz Podcast on Spotify

Apple Podcasts: Swingz Podcast on Apple

Socials: @SwingzPodcast | Drew: linktr.ee/drewswingz
| Erika: linktr.ee/erikaswingz

✍️ Sign-Off:
Keep it filthy. Keep it bold. And keep your name on their lips.

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This week, we flip the script—Drew takes the hot seat as our producer interviews him about what it’s really like being the male half of a swinging couple and a content creator. From wild party stories to unexpected challenges, golf course antics, and the craziest things he’s seen behind the scenes, nothing is off-limits in this tell-all episode.

🎙 Expect:
✅ The truth about being a male creator in a female-driven space
✅ Stories that went way off the rails (and why Drew survived to tell them)
✅ How to thrive as a guy in the lifestyle—what works, what doesn’t
✅ A fresh perspective from the other side of the camera

If you’ve ever wondered how men really navigate this world, this one’s for you.

👉 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe to catch new episodes every Tuesday at 7PM CT. Share your thoughts in the comments—we might read them in next week’s show!

📌 Listen to full episodes:
YouTube: YouTube.com/@Swingzpodcast

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5hCJaKWklGcQwgFeJnbtjH?si=6e6db708598c4976

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/swingz-life-as-a-xxx-content-creator/id1775345579

💥 Support & Sponsors:
LifeInStyleSTL Events – LifeInStyleSTL.com
 (use our weekly promo code!)
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➡️ Follow us for more:
Drew: linktr.ee/drewswingz

Erika: linktr.ee/erikaswingz

📩 Questions, stories, or ideas? Email us: [email protected]

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 Episode 44: Golf Gone Wild: Afterparty Chaos & Hotwife Dreams

The golf carts are flipped, the whipped cream has melted, and the raffle tickets are gone—but the stories? Oh, they’re just getting started. ⛳🍹

In this week’s episode of SWINGZ: Life as a XXX Content Creator, Drew & Erika break down the wild aftermath of their very first Golf With Erika & Friends tournament—from beer cart dares and Jello shots to an afterparty that went completely off the rails.

Plus:
🏌️ Drew’s best golf score ever (and a car disaster to match)
🎉 Afterparty chaos: lapdances, raffles, and whipped cream in unexpected places
🔥 Hotwife Party Preview – why this LifeInStyleSTL event is history-making
🎨 Hot or Not: Lifestyle Tattoos—sexy or cringe?
📖 Lifestyle Lingo: JOI (Jerk Off Instruction)—can Erika handle a live demo?
💡 Tip of the Week: Don’t peak too early at events (but don’t hold out forever either)
🎤 Words of Wisdom: Why golf scores fade, but crazy stories last forever

👉 Watch LIVE every Tuesday at 7pm CT: YouTube.com/@SwingzPodcast

👉 Got questions, wild stories, or confessions? Email us: [email protected]

✨ Follow & Connect:
🔗 Drew’s Links: linktr.ee/drewswingz

🔗 Erika’s Links: linktr.ee/erikaswingz

🎮 Twitch: Twitch.tv/DrewSwingz

🐦 X (Twitter): X.com/DrewSwingz
 | X.com/ErikaSwingz

📸 Instagram: Instagram.com/STLDrewSwingz
 | Instagram.com/STLErikaSwingz

🎧 Spotify: Listen on Spotify

🍏 Apple Podcasts: Listen on Apple

🔥 Sponsors & Promos:

LifeInStyleSTL Hotwife Party (Sept. 13) – Promo code SWINGZERIKA for discounted couple’s tickets.

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