Libido Lounge

By Dr. Diane Mueller

If your marriage still looks fine from the outside but something has quietly disappeared — this podcast is for you. Dr. Diane Mueller, Board Certified Sexologist, goes deep on what's really happening ... more

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July 16, 2026 The Attachment Style Quietly Running Your Marriage with Dr. Diane
You're lying six inches apart every night, and it still feels like the loneliest room in the house. This episode explains why that distance usually isn't about attraction fading at all — it's a childhood-built nervous system pattern deciding, without asking you, whether closeness is safe. Start there tonight with our free Date Night Checklist — one small, pressure-free way back toward each other: mylibidodoc.com/freebies
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass
💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community
💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products
Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10
To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club
More Libido Lounge
✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/
✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc
✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/
✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/
✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/
✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU
Timestamps:
0:00 Understanding low desire, safety, and attachment theory
1:57 Misconceptions and awareness about low desire and attachment
3:32 Contributions of John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth
4:19 Formation of attachment styles and subconscious behaviors
4:52 Overview of the four attachment styles
5:50 Secure attachment and its impact on relationships
7:10 Anxious attachment and its effects
7:33 Avoidant attachment and its effects
8:42 Disorganized attachment and its effects
9:52 How attachment styles show up in the bedroom
11:18 Differences in arousal and desire between men and women
12:41 Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society
13:17 The pursue-withdraw cycle in relationships
17:42 Responsive vs. spontaneous desire
20:03 Healing through naming and self-awareness
22:15 Exercises for avoidant and anxious attachment
24:21 Addressing multiple root causes for healthy desire
24:59 Sponsor: Libido quiz
25:43 Sponsor: Libido quiz continued
26:18 Upcoming relationship topics
26:48 Social media and contact information
(0:00) Understanding low desire, safety, and attachment theory
(1:57) Misconceptions and awareness about low desire and attachment
(3:32) Contributions of John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth
(4:19) Formation of attachment styles and subconscious behaviors
(4:52) Overview of the four attachment styles
(5:50) Secure attachment and its impact on relationships
(7:10) Anxious attachment and its effects
(7:33) Avoidant attachment and its effects
(8:42) Disorganized attachment and its effects
(9:52) How attachment styles show up in the bedroom
(11:18) Differences in arousal and desire between men and women
(12:41) Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society
(13:17) The pursue-withdraw cycle in relationships
(17:42) Responsive vs. spontaneous desire
(20:03) Healing through naming and self-awareness
(22:15) Exercises for avoidant and anxious attachment
(24:21) Addressing multiple root causes for healthy desire
(24:59) Sponsor: Libido quiz
(25:43) Sponsor: Libido quiz continued
(26:18) Upcoming relationship topics
(26:48) Social media and contact information
...more
28min
July 09, 2026 The Four Horsemen Destroying Your Marriage With Dr. Diane Mueller
If you and your partner stopped fighting but also stopped connecting, you're not in a better place — you're in a more dangerous one. This episode breaks down the four communication patterns silently poisoning your relationship (and why fixing just one of them could shift the entire dynamic in bed and out). Take Dr. Diane's free Yes, No, Maybe Checklist at mylibidodoc.com/yesnomaybe — it's a five-minute conversation starter that opens the door when words have stopped coming naturally.
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass
💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community
💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products
Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10
To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club
More Libido Lounge
✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/
✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc
✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/
✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/
✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/
✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU
Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction, New Year greetings, and the importance of safety for sexual intimacy
1:04 Emotional and mental safety in sexual relationships
2:03 The impact of feeling unsafe on intimacy and energy flow
3:08 Scientific validation of acupuncture meridians and energy flow
4:31 Connection between emotions, energy, safety, and trust
6:15 Breaking trust and unmet promises in relationships
9:09 Introduction to Mystery Vibes products
12:34 Sponsor: Mystery Vibes
12:45 Sponsor: Mature Allure by Sherry O
13:09 Communication and trust in relationships
15:01 Emasculation and its impact on men
19:12 Communication strategies to avoid emasculation
20:52 The neurological impact of stress on libido
23:18 Understanding the connection between trust, safety, and libido
24:39 The importance of communication in relationships
25:17 Libido club and exclusive content
25:49 Closing remarks, gratitude, and where to find Dr. Diane Mueller online
(0:00) Introduction, New Year greetings, and the importance of safety for sexual intimacy
(1:04) Emotional and mental safety in sexual relationships
(2:03) The impact of feeling unsafe on intimacy and energy flow
(3:08) Scientific validation of acupuncture meridians and energy flow
(4:31) Connection between emotions, energy, safety, and trust
(6:15) Breaking trust and unmet promises in relationships
(9:09) Introduction to Mystery Vibes products
(12:34) Sponsor: Mystery Vibes
(12:45) Sponsor: Mature Allure by Sherry O
(13:09) Communication and trust in relationships
(15:01) Emasculation and its impact on men
(19:12) Communication strategies to avoid emasculation
(20:52) The neurological impact of stress on libido
(23:18) Understanding the connection between trust, safety, and libido
(24:39) The importance of communication in relationships
(25:17) Libido club and exclusive content
(25:49) Closing remarks, gratitude, and where to find Dr. Diane Mueller online
...more
27min
July 02, 2026 Is It Low T — Or Is Something Else Wrong? with Arthur L. "Bud" II, MD, MBA, FACS
If you've been quietly wondering whether low testosterone is the reason you've stopped wanting to touch your wife — or stopped wanting to at all — this episode is for you. You'll walk away understanding why a hormone fix alone almost never brings back the connection you've lost, and what actually has to happen first. If you're not sure where to start, take the free "Why Is My Desire Low?" quiz at mylibidodoc.com/libido-quiz — it maps both the physical and emotional roots, and it's completely free.
About the Guest:
*Arthur L. “Bud” Burnett II, MD, MBA, FACS
Expertise: Arthur L. “Bud” Burnett II, MD, MBA, FACS is a globally recognized Johns Hopkins urologist, researcher, and educator whose pioneering work in men’s health and erectile function has transformed care worldwide.
Dr. Burnett's website: https://drarthurburnett.com/
For interviews, commentary, speaking engagements, or professional inquiries, listeners are encouraged to visit Manifest Greatness Media at https://manifestgreatnessmedia.com/contact/ to get in touch or contact Dr. Burnett directly through his website at https://drarthurburnett.com
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass
💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community
💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products
Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10
To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club
More Libido Lounge
✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/
✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc
✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/
✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/
✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/
✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU
Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction and overview of testosterone’s role in libido
0:45 Myths and facts about testosterone
1:48 Testosterone’s impact on sexual desire
3:30 Testosterone replacement therapy: effects and considerations
4:31 When to seek professional help for testosterone issues
5:54 Testosterone and erectile dysfunction
7:16 Recommended tests and evaluation for testosterone
8:12 Criteria and decision-making for testosterone therapy
9:17 Comparing DHEA and testosterone therapy
10:18 Methods of testosterone delivery and patient preferences
13:08 Patient experiences and lifestyle factors in testosterone therapy
16:14 Testosterone therapy for non-symptomatic men
17:54 Root causes of low testosterone and closing remarks
(0:00) Introduction and overview of testosterone’s role in libido
(0:45) Myths and facts about testosterone
(1:48) Testosterone’s impact on sexual desire
(3:30) Testosterone replacement therapy: effects and considerations
(4:31) When to seek professional help for testosterone issues
(5:54) Testosterone and erectile dysfunction
(7:16) Recommended tests and evaluation for testosterone
(8:12) Criteria and decision-making for testosterone therapy
(9:17) Comparing DHEA and testosterone therapy
(10:18) Methods of testosterone delivery and patient preferences
(13:08) Patient experiences and lifestyle factors in testosterone therapy
(16:14) Testosterone therapy for non-symptomatic men
(17:54) Root causes of low testosterone and closing remarks
...more
21min
June 25, 2026Menopause Stole Her Brain — Not Just Her Drive with Andrea Donsky
If your wife has felt like a different person these last few years — foggy, irritable, checked out of the bedroom — and her doctor keeps telling her everything looks fine, this episode is for both of you. You'll walk away understanding that what's happening in her body has a name, 103 of them actually, and that 90% of what menopause does lives in the brain — which means the disconnection you're feeling isn't personal, it's physiological. If you want to understand where her head is right now before your next conversation, start with Dr. Diane's free "Why Is My Desire Low?" quiz at mylibidodoc.com/freebies — it's designed for exactly this moment.
About the Guest:
** Andrea Donsky*
Expertise: Andrea Donsky is a nutritionist (RHN), 7X Published Menopause Researcher & Entrepreneur with 26 years of experience in health and wellness. She is a respected multi-award-winning influencer, media personality, speaker, and author. Andrea hosts the popular podcast “Menopause Reimagined” and she is the co-founder of www.wearemorphus.com, a company that empowers women to feel heard and supported as they go through perimenopause and menopause with nutrition, lifestyle and high-quality, science-backed supplements. Her new book, Nourishing Menopause: Powerful Nutrition and Lifestyle Strategies to Feel Your Best, published by Simon and Schuster, was released on May 5th. Follow her on TikTok, Instagram and LinkedIn @andreadonsky @wearemorphus.
www.nourishingmenopausebook.com?www.wearemorphus.com?TikTok: @andreadonsky
IG: @andreadonsky and @wearemorphus
YouTube: @wearemorphus
Facebook: @wearemorphus
This is a link to our libido survey: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeEDrQyT-aA8J2LYRuhvAdrDEUQf8nYyErbixOkncecwqW9Fg/viewform?usp=send_form
https://wearemorphus.com/pages/symptoms-list : This is a list of the 103+ symptoms women can print off and bring to their doctors or healthcare providers
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass
💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community
💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products
Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10
To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club
More Libido Lounge
✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/
✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc
✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/
✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/
✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/
✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU
Timestamps:
Medical gaslighting is a significant issue affecting forty percent of women during menopause, leading to a lack of support and understanding from healthcare professionals.
Women in perimenopause and menopause experience a wide range of symptoms, with ninety percent being related to cognitive, brain, or mental health, and libido significantly decreasing for ninety-one percent of participants in the survey.
Effective communication and understanding between partners are crucial, as the changes women go through during this stage of life also impact their relationships, causing feelings of walking on eggshells and emotional disconnect.
(0:00) Introduction, Andrea Donsky on menopause, symptoms, and impact on libido
(1:07) Menopause effects on relationships and importance of conversations
(2:29) Medical gaslighting and lack of support from healthcare professionals
(3:28) Andrea Donsky's research and published work on menopause
(4:22) Unfair treatment of women during menopause and personal experiences
(6:08) Overview of menopause symptoms and research findings
(8:27) Recognizing, validating, and discussing menopause symptoms
(9:29) Unique symptoms: phantom smells and cognitive changes
(12:44) Cognitive, mental health, and stress management during menopause
(16:23) Libido, sexual health, and decreased desire in menopause
(18:11) Men’s perspectives and relationship impacts
(18:47) Communicating advice and support for low libido
(19:59) Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society
(22:12) Vaginal dryness and practical tips for relief
(24:05) Understanding blood work, laser rejuvenation, and fatigue
(25:29) Mindset, self-esteem, and sexual health
(27:36) Importance of blood flow and clitoral pumps
(28:06) Andrea Donsky's book and further research
(30:27) Weight gain, self-blame, and perimenopause
(32:10) Relearning sex, lifestyle changes, and essential nutrients
(38:33) Magnesium and high-level dietary advice
(40:24) The balance blueprint for menopause health
(41:43) Bio-individuality and choosing the right diet
(42:41) Understanding your body and supplements
(44:08) Men’s perspectives on partners in menopause
(46:01) Mindset, relationships, and encouragement to get Andrea’s book
(46:49) Importance of taking the survey and downloadable resources
(47:59) Closing remarks, subscription reminder, and outro
...more
49min
June 18, 2026 How One Person Can Fix a Dead Marriage with Dr. Lee Baucom
You've been managing the household, the kids, and the calendar together — but somewhere along the way you stopped actually being together, and now it feels like you're sharing a life with a stranger. In this episode, marriage coach Dr. Lee Baucom explains why the real problem usually isn't communication — and what one person can quietly do to shift the entire dynamic, even when their partner has already checked out. If you're not sure where to start, the Yes, No, Maybe Checklist at mylibidodoc.com/freebies is a simple, low-pressure way to open a door that's been closed for a while.
About the Guest:
*Dr. Lee Baucom
Expertise: Dr. Lee Baucom is a marriage coach who believes something most therapists won’t tell you: you don’t need your spouse on board to start saving your marriage. For over two decades, he’s helped thousands of people in hurting marriages discover that real change begins when one person decides to stop waiting and start acting. Lee doesn’t do endless processing or dwelling on what’s broken. Instead, he teaches people how to shift from “me versus you” thinking to seeing their marriage as a system they can influence, even when they feel completely alone in the effort. His approach is hope-infused and action-oriented, because he knows that the people who find him are tired of feeling stuck and ready for a new direction.
http://UnPauseYourMarriage.com
http://SaveTheMarriage.com
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass
💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community
💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products
Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10
To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club
More Libido Lounge
✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/
✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc
✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/
✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/
✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/
✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU
Timestamps:
0:00 The pause button, subconscious disconnection, and introduction to Libido Lounge
1:31 Different categories of couples in trouble and common scenarios
4:18 The pause button vs. autopilot in relationships
7:02 Report vs. rapport in daily conversations
8:14 Starting points for one-sided efforts to revive a marriage
12:31 Guiding one person to initiate change
13:25 Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society
15:05 The three C's: Connecting, changing, and creating a 'we'
19:18 Mistakes therapists and couples make in the beginning
20:40 Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's pump systems
21:12 Common mistakes in therapy and communication issues
24:39 Lee's methods: Unpause Your Marriage and Save Your Marriage models
25:07 The Unpause Your Marriage app: How it works
25:50 The Save Your Marriage program and crisis action steps
26:18 One-on-one coaching, team support, and resources
27:13 Outro, subscription reminder, and sponsor acknowledgment
(0:00) The pause button, subconscious disconnection, and introduction to Libido Lounge
(1:31) Different categories of couples in trouble and common scenarios
(4:18) The pause button vs. autopilot in relationships
(7:02) Report vs. rapport in daily conversations
(8:14) Starting points for one-sided efforts to revive a marriage
(12:31) Guiding one person to initiate change
(13:25) Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society
(15:05) The three C's: Connecting, changing, and creating a 'we'
(19:18) Mistakes therapists and couples make in the beginning
(20:40) Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's pump systems
(21:12) Common mistakes in therapy and communication issues
(24:39) Lee's methods: Unpause Your Marriage and Save Your Marriage models
(25:07) The Unpause Your Marriage app: How it works
(25:50) The Save Your Marriage program and crisis action steps
(26:18) One-on-one coaching, team support, and resources
(27:13) Outro, subscription reminder, and sponsor acknowledgment
...more
28min
June 11, 2026 Your Marriage Isn't Broken. You're Just Too Close with Dr. Corey Allan
You haven't had a big blowup — you've just quietly become two people sharing a house, and you're not sure when that happened. Dr. Corey Allan explains why the problem isn't that you've grown apart, but that you may have lost yourselves trying to become one — and why you going first is the only move that actually breaks the stalemate. Start the conversation tonight with Dr. Diane's free Yes, No, Maybe Checklist at mylibidodoc.com/yesnomaybe.
About the Guest:
*Dr. Corey Allan
Expertise: Corey Allan (if you want to be formal it’s Dr. Corey Allan, but he's usually pretty casual) is a husband, father, author, speaker, as well as a Marriage and Family Therapist with a Ph.D. in Family Therapy. He and his wife Pam host a weekly podcast, Sexy Marriage Radio, where they help frame conversations and actions that help couples create a marriage fully alive. ??Corey has a private practice and is the founder of SMR, an online resource aimed at helping marriages not just survive, but thrive. Pam is a CPA at a small firm in Frisco TX as well as a cohost with Corey's work. Marriage is more about developing character and wisdom as a human than it is about the two people being happy.??Love is a process, not just a feeling. It produces action. Added to this, life is choice (so is marriage). Therefore we work to help people: Grow deeper Spiritually, Keep it simple, Be passionate, Live in community with others and Enjoy the ride.
https://smr.fm @sexymarriageradion (on all social platforms)
https://smr.fm/gofirst
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass
💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community
💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products
Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10
To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club
More Libido Lounge
✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/
✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc
✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/
✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/
✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/
✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU
Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction and welcome with Dr. Corey Allan
1:27 Dr. Corey Allan's journey into marriage therapy
2:36 The complexity of couple's therapy
4:12 Common mistakes in marriage therapy
8:24 Handling reactions in relationships
12:02 Dealing with infidelity in relationships
17:28 Addressing the feelings of the betrayed partner
20:02 The impact of shame and guilt in relationships
21:27 Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society by Dr. Diane Mueller
23:00 Differentiating between guilt and shame
23:59 Addressing the innate worthiness in people
25:18 Differences between guilt and shame
26:28 Approaching shame and its origins
29:16 Introduction to the book "Go First"
30:37 Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's pumps
32:03 Internal vs. external locus of control
34:45 The importance of renegotiating agreements in relationships
39:02 Concept of "Go First" in creating better intimacy
41:33 Common issues causing connection loss in couples
44:16 Information on Dr. Corey Allan's resources and podcast
(0:00) Introduction and welcome with Dr. Corey Allan
(1:27) Dr. Corey Allan's journey into marriage therapy
(2:36) The complexity of couple's therapy
(4:12) Common mistakes in marriage therapy
(8:24) Handling reactions in relationships
(12:02) Dealing with infidelity in relationships
(17:28) Addressing the feelings of the betrayed partner
(20:02) The impact of shame and guilt in relationships
(21:27) Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society by Dr. Diane Mueller
(23:00) Differentiating between guilt and shame
(23:59) Addressing the innate worthiness in people
(25:18) Differences between guilt and shame
(26:28) Approaching shame and its origins
(29:16) Introduction to the book "Go First"
(30:37) Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's pumps
(32:03) Internal vs. external locus of control
(34:45) The importance of renegotiating agreements in relationships
(39:02) Concept of "Go First" in creating better intimacy
(41:33) Common issues causing connection loss in couples
(44:16) Information on Dr. Corey Allan's resources and podcast
...more
47min
June 03, 2026 Highly Sensitive People: Your Sensitivity Is a Sex Superpower with Rachel Dorneanu
If you've ever pulled away from your partner not because you don't love them, but because the lighting was wrong, the sheets felt scratchy, or the noise in your head wouldn't stop — this episode was made for you. You'll learn why your nervous system has a "window" for feeling safe enough to connect, and what's actually happening when you check out, go cold, or just… can't get there — even when you want to. If you want to go deeper on understanding your own turn-on and turn-off patterns, take Dr. Diane's free Your Sex Code Language quiz at mylibidodoc.com/libido-code.
About the Guest:
*Rachel Dorneanu
Expertise: Rachel Dorneanu (she/her) is a licensed therapist, AASECT- certified sex therapist, and board-certified coach specializing in Anxiety, HSPs, People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Sex Therapy, with a passion for helping people reconnect with their bodies, reduce shame, and find freedom in their wellness journey. She holds a Master's in Counseling and brings over 8 years of experience working with millennial women and moms.?Through her work as a therapist and coach, Rachel integrates evidence-based approaches with compassionate education to normalize topics often left in the dark—like pelvic pain, pleasure, and embodiment. She is known for her relatable, down-to-earth style and her ability to make complex or uncomfortable topics accessible and affirming.??Outside of her professional life, Rachel enjoys practicing yoga, spending time with her husband and 2 children, and traveling.
Learn more at: www.sagecounselingtherapyandwellness.com or www.racheldorneanu.com
https://SageCounselingTherapyAndWellness.com/ www.RachelDorneanu.com https://www.facebook.com/SageCounselingWellness https://www.instagram.com/sage_counseling_wellness/ https://www.tiktok.com/@sagecounselingwellness https://www.pinterest.com/SageCounselingWellness https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachel-butler-dorneanu/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/sage-counseling-wellness https://youtube.com/@sagecounselingandwellness https://www.amazon.com/shop/rachel_butler_counseling
Intro to Sex Therapy Freebie https://sagecounselingtherapyandwellness.com/shop/
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass
💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community
💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products
Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10
To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club
More Libido Lounge
✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/
✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc
✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/
✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/
✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/
✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU
Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction and overview with Rachel Dorneanu
1:22 Orgasm through music and sexy sensitivity
2:11 Medical insights on highly sensitive brains
2:49 Deconstructing negative connotations of sensitivity
4:07 Impact of sensitivity on sexual experiences
5:45 Practical tips for partners and addressing gaslighting
8:05 Advocating for sensitivity needs and communication strategies
10:29 Sound sensitivity in intimacy and curiosity about partner's needs
13:06 Turn ons and turn offs for highly sensitive people
15:03 Hot Monogamy Society and mindfulness in intimacy
18:29 Sensory sensitivities, intimacy, and handling sound issues
21:00 Training partners and nervous system regulation
21:50 Sponsor: Lioness and Lexus
23:51 The window of tolerance and stress responses
25:50 Calming techniques, body awareness, and communication
27:35 Routine, novelty, and downstream effects of high sensitivity
29:00 Rachel Dorneanu's freebie and contact information
30:06 Product links and part two
(0:00) Introduction and overview with Rachel Dorneanu
(1:22) Orgasm through music and sexy sensitivity
(2:11) Medical insights on highly sensitive brains
(2:49) Deconstructing negative connotations of sensitivity
(4:07) Impact of sensitivity on sexual experiences
(5:45) Practical tips for partners and addressing gaslighting
(8:05) Advocating for sensitivity needs and communication strategies
(10:29) Sound sensitivity in intimacy and curiosity about partner's needs
(13:06) Turn ons and turn offs for highly sensitive people
(15:03) Hot Monogamy Society and mindfulness in intimacy
(18:29) Sensory sensitivities, intimacy, and handling sound issues
(21:00) Training partners and nervous system regulation
(21:50) Sponsor: Lioness and Lexus
(23:51) The window of tolerance and stress responses
(25:50) Calming techniques, body awareness, and communication
(27:35) Routine, novelty, and downstream effects of high sensitivity
(29:00) Rachel Dorneanu's freebie and contact information
(30:06) Product links and part two preview
(30:57) Subscribe, share, and closing remarks
...more
32min
May 28, 2026 Feel Sexy Again In Bed and In Your Own Skin with Rebecca Whitman
If you've tried everything and your bedroom is still quiet, this episode is going to feel like someone finally said the thing out loud. You'll walk away understanding why focusing on your partner's behavior is actually what's keeping you stuck and what you can start doing today that's entirely within your own control. If you're ready to stop waiting and start shifting, grab the free "Yes, No, Maybe Checklist" at mylibidodoc.com/yesnomaybe, it's a small, low-pressure step you and your partner can do together tonight.
About the Guest:
*Rebecca Whitman
Expertise: Rebecca Whitman, the Abundance Mentor, an international best-selling author, graduated with honors from Princeton University. She received the awards of Mindset Coach of the Decade and Empowered Woman of the Year by International Association of Top Professionals. “USA Today” rated her in the top 5 entrepreneurs to watch in 2024.? ?Host of the top 1% globally ranked “Balanced, Beautiful, and Abundant” podcast that won the Positive Change Award. Her philosophy divides life into 7 Pillars of Abundance which include: spiritual, physical, emotional, romantic, mental, social, and financial. She coaches people to achieve alignment within these seven areas, so they can experience a life of joy and freedom.
Http://pillar.io/rebeccaewhitman
Balanced Beautiful Bundle: https://link.meetyourva.co/widget/form/MlMHCyc0SlifQJIduDPS
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass
💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community
💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products
Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10
To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club
More Libido Lounge
✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/
✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc
✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/
✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/
✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/
✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU
Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction and Rebecca Whitman’s romantic challenges
3:00 Rebecca’s journey to finding her soulmate
6:20 What it means to be "romantically challenged"
7:11 The four A's of transformation
10:23 Applying the four A's to performance anxiety
11:49 Acceptance and its role in personal growth
14:18 Effective use of affirmations
16:28 Self-interest and improving relationships
19:09 Affirmations vs. limiting beliefs
22:39 Creating personalized affirmations
24:29 Working on multiple pillars of abundance
27:33 Applying success across life pillars
27:42 Scheduling intimacy and social interactions
28:50 Framework for daily, weekly, and interconnected activities
28:57 Sponsor: Balanced Beautiful Bundle
30:13 Rebecca Whitman’s mentorship programs
31:06 Closing strategies and final encouragement
31:27 Subscribe, share, and where to find Dr. Diane Mueller online
(0:00) Introduction and Rebecca Whitman’s romantic challenges
(3:00) Rebecca’s journey to finding her soulmate
(6:20) What it means to be "romantically challenged"
(7:11) The four A's of transformation
(10:23) Applying the four A's to performance anxiety
(11:49) Acceptance and its role in personal growth
(14:18) Effective use of affirmations
(16:28) Self-interest and improving relationships
(19:09) Affirmations vs. limiting beliefs
(22:39) Creating personalized affirmations
(24:29) Working on multiple pillars of abundance
(27:33) Applying success across life pillars
(27:42) Scheduling intimacy and social interactions
(28:50) Framework for daily, weekly, and interconnected activities
(28:57) Sponsor: Balanced Beautiful Bundle
(30:13) Rebecca Whitman’s mentorship programs
(31:06) Closing strategies and final encouragement
(31:27) Subscribe, share, and where to find Dr. Diane Mueller online
...more
33min
May 21, 2026 Why He Can't Stay Hard (And How To Actually Fix This) with Jeff Nuziard
You've been lying there wondering if this is just... what marriage becomes now — and that quiet resignation is the most unfair thing, because this episode makes the case that what's happening in your body has a name, a mechanism, and a 97% fix rate. You'll understand, maybe for the first time, that the slowdown isn't about attraction or effort — it's about collagen, blood flow, and testosterone shifts that started in your 30s without anyone warning you. If you want to understand what's actually going on in your body before your next appointment, take Dr. Diane's free "Why Is My Desire Low?" quiz at mylibidodoc.com/freebies — it covers both the physical and emotional side and points you toward real solutions.
About the Guest:
*Jeff Nuziard
Expertise: Jeff Nuziard is the founder of Sexual Wellness Centers of America and the innovator of REGENmax®, the only patented protocol proven to cure and prevent erectile and vaginal dysfunction. More than 3,000 patients have completed the program, with outcomes that consistently reflect the remarkable 97.2% success rate first demonstrated in his clinical trial.??His work began with personal experience. At 40, Jeff faced erectile dysfunction himself and found that pills eventually stopped working. Instead of accepting decline as inevitable, he approached the problem differently. Free from the confines of traditional medical training, he asked questions others weren’t asking, which led to 15 years of digging into white papers, conducting cadaver studies, and testing ideas with physicians willing to challenge convention. His persistence paid off: Jeff uncovered why dysfunction happens, why standard treatments fail, and how a multi-layered protocol could restore natural function and prevent decline before it begins. In recognition of this work, he was later awarded an honorary PhD.
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeff-nuziard-24930920b/
https://www.instagram.com/regenmax_ed/?igsh=MTRhdHZuZThmYzFwbQ%3D%3D
https://www.facebook.com/people/REGENmax/61557429745690/
https://regenmax.com/
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass
💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community
💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products
Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10
To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club
More Libido Lounge
✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/
✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc
✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/
✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/
✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/
✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU
Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction and Jeff Nuziard’s background with erectile dysfunction
1:31 Age-related sexual dysfunction and common misconceptions
4:39 The role of testosterone, collagen, and discovering root causes
11:12 Development of new protocols and laser treatments
14:49 Addressing root causes of sexual dysfunction
15:02 Introduction of the LUXIS device for sexual wellness
17:22 Importance of pelvic floor health
21:02 Accessing resources and preview of part two
23:58 Understanding "sexual dysfunction" and its impact on men
24:58 Encouraging men to seek help with age-related changes
25:35 Introduction of the Lioness device for tracking female orgasms
26:16 Further resources, part two, and closing remarks
26:48 Connecting with Dr. Diane Mueller
(0:00) Introduction and Jeff Nuziard’s background with erectile dysfunction
(1:31) Age-related sexual dysfunction and common misconceptions
(4:39) The role of testosterone, collagen, and discovering root causes
(11:12) Development of new protocols and laser treatments
(14:49) Addressing root causes of sexual dysfunction
(15:02) Introduction of the LUXIS device for sexual wellness
(17:22) Importance of pelvic floor health
(21:02) Accessing resources and preview of part two
(23:58) Understanding "sexual dysfunction" and its impact on men
(24:58) Encouraging men to seek help with age-related changes
(25:35) Introduction of the Lioness device for tracking female orgasms
(26:16) Further resources, part two, and closing remarks
(26:48) Connecting with Dr. Diane Mueller
...more
27min
May 14, 2026 He Lost His Drive. Is It His Testosterone? with Arthur L. “Bud” Burnett II, MD, MBA, FACS
You've watched him pull away and wondered if something is actually wrong with his body — and you were right to wonder. Dr. Arthur Burnett, Johns Hopkins urologist, breaks down exactly what testosterone does (and doesn't) do for men's drive, erections, and mood — and why a basic blood test isn't the whole picture. If your husband has quietly gone cold and neither of you knows why, take the free "Why Is My Drive Low?" quiz at mylibidodoc.com/libido-quiz — it takes three minutes and points you toward real answers.
About the Guest:
*Arthur L. “Bud” Burnett II, MD, MBA, FACS
Expertise: Arthur L. “Bud” Burnett II, MD, MBA, FACS is a globally recognized Johns Hopkins urologist, researcher, and educator whose pioneering work in men’s health and erectile function has transformed care worldwide.
Dr. Burnett's website: https://drarthurburnett.com/
For interviews, commentary, speaking engagements, or professional inquiries, listeners are encouraged to visit Manifest Greatness Media at https://manifestgreatnessmedia.com/contact/ to get in touch or contact Dr. Burnett directly through his website at https://drarthurburnett.com
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass
💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community
💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products
Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10
To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club
More Libido Lounge
✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/
✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc
✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/
✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/
✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/
✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU
Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction, hormones, and testosterone's link to libido
1:19 Testosterone's effects on libido, cognition, and physical function
3:30 Testosterone replacement therapy: effectiveness and considerations
4:55 When and why to test testosterone levels
5:54 Testosterone and erectile dysfunction
7:16 Lab tests recommended for testosterone evaluation
9:17 Treatment options and delivery methods for testosterone
14:48 Lifestyle factors affecting testosterone therapy
(0:00) Introduction, hormones, and testosterone's link to libido
(1:19) Testosterone's effects on libido, cognition, and physical function
(3:30) Testosterone replacement therapy: effectiveness and considerations
(4:55) When and why to test testosterone levels
(5:54) Testosterone and erectile dysfunction
(7:16) Lab tests recommended for testosterone evaluation
(9:17) Treatment options and delivery methods for testosterone
(14:48) Lifestyle factors affecting testosterone therapy
...more
21min

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