By Dr. Diane Mueller
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What do you do when you and your partner aren’t on the same page about intimacy?
In today’s episode, I sit down with relationship experts Tara and EJ Kerwin to tackle one of the most common challenges couples face—desire discrepancy. We’ll explore why couples often struggle with mismatched sex drives and how to rebuild connection through better communication and emotional safety.
Whether you're just beginning to notice changes or have been dealing with this issue for years, Tara and EJ offer practical steps to reignite your relationship and reconnect with your partner. If you’re looking for more support, check out their in-office or online services at AZ residents, visit relationshiprenovation.com, and for national or international services, go to relationshiprenovation.com/online-program. You can also explore their podcast and YouTube channel at https://linktr.ee/relationshiprenovation.
Key Topics Discussed:
Desire Discrepancy in Relationships – How to navigate situations where one partner has a higher or lower sex drive than the other.
Communication Breakdown – Why couples often struggle to talk about their intimate lives and how to improve communication.
Emotional Safety – Building emotional safety as a foundation for rebuilding intimacy is essential.
Practical Steps for Reconnecting – Strategies to reignite the connection in long-term relationships.
Common Relationship Challenges – External stressors like kids, aging, and hormonal changes affect intimacy.
How to Address Intimacy Issues – A step-by-step approach for couples to address and resolve desire discrepancies.
About the Guest:
Tarah and EJ Kerwin are licensed relationship therapists, a married couple, and proud parents of a blended family of four. At their Tucson-based counseling center, Relationship Renovation, they’ve made it their mission to help couples rebuild and strengthen their relationships, one step at a time. Their work provides a safe, supportive space where individuals and couples can tackle life’s challenges, develop essential relationship skills, and foster deeper connections.
With a strong belief that everyone has the potential to grow and thrive in their relationships, Tarah and EJ offer personalized support tailored to each couple's unique needs. Whether you’re looking to resolve relationship struggles or simply want to enhance your bond, Relationship Renovation offers in-office services, an online couples program, and a podcast with insights to guide you toward healing, growth, and renewal.
Discover how they can help you navigate the complexities of modern relationships today.
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Have you ever wondered why you keep stuck in the same negative relationship patterns?
In today’s episode, I sit down with Dr. Ray Doktor, a life and relationship coach, to discuss how past trauma, big or small, can hijack your ability to feel safe, loved, and connected. We dive deep into the science of how our brains, particularly the amygdala, trigger stress responses that sabotage intimacy and trust.
Dr. Ray shares actionable steps to heal emotional wounds, break free from self-sabotage, and empower yourself in love. Plus, we talk about practical ways to rewire your beliefs about relationships so you can finally attract the love and connection you deserve.
Whether you’re struggling with trust or trauma or simply want a better understanding of relationship dynamics, this episode is for you. Dr. Ray also shares exercises from his book All It Takes Is One and a free masterclass designed to help you transform your love life.
Key Questions Discussed:
How does the amygdala affect trust and safety in relationships, especially in terms of libido and intimacy?
What role does trauma, both large and small, play in self-sabotage and relationship dynamics?
What are the signs that someone is self-sabotaging in relationships, and how can they identify these patterns?
How can people break out of negative patterns, heal from trauma, and improve their relationships?
How can one differentiate between legitimate relationship concerns and self-sabotage?
About the Guest:
Dr. Ray Doktor, a renowned life and relationship coach and bestselling author, has empowered over 6,000 clients since 1995 to break through limiting beliefs and overcome life's challenges, significantly enhancing their confidence, self-trust, and happiness. Holding a doctorate in clinical psychology, a master's in counseling psychology, and a bachelor's in human behavior, Dr. Ray combines his extensive expertise with advanced techniques like hypnotherapy, EMDR, NLP, and ancient practices such as qigong and meditation to offer a holistic approach to mental well-being.??A sought-after speaker, Dr. Ray has shared stages with luminaries like Marianne Williamson, Bruce Lipton, John Gray, and Eckhart Tolle. His influential voice has reached audiences worldwide through appearances on E!, HBO, KCAL 9 Los Angeles, LA Talk Radio, and Talk America Radio. His insights have been featured in Psychology Today, Men’s Health, and the Los Angeles Times.
Learn more about Dr. Ray Doktor:
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"We only live once... and I would hate for someone to leave this world without engaging in their fantasies." — Dr. Toni Bear.
In this eye-opening episode of The Libido Lounge, Dr. Diane Mueller sits down with certified sexologist Dr. Toni Bear to tackle the taboos around sexual fantasies. Why do so many of us feel shame around our desires, and how can we break free from these stigmas? Dr. Bear shares her journey, from helping LGBTQ youth come out healthy to becoming a global advocate for sexual empowerment.
Dr. Bear explains how exploring your fantasies can reignite passion in relationships and improve overall well-being. Whether you're struggling to communicate your desires with your partner or curious about the role of fantasy in your sex life, Dr. Bear’s insights will guide you through the process of embracing your true self. She also offers practical advice on navigating taboo topics, breaking through cultural and religious barriers, and safely exploring fantasies with consent.
Get ready to rethink everything you know about sexual fantasies as Dr. Bear sheds light on the top desires women have—some of which might surprise you!
💖 Take the quiz to determine your most significant obstacle to building a robust relationship. Dr. Toni offers immediate advice on your main challenge and suggests a positive next step toward sexual satisfaction and joy! Quiz Link: https://www.tonibearedd.com/video-quiz
Key Questions Discussed:
How can sexual fantasies benefit and reignite passion in relationships?
Why do people feel shame around their sexual fantasies, and how can they overcome it?
What are the most common sexual fantasies, and how can they be explored safely?
How can someone start a conversation about their fantasies with their partner?
What role do societal and religious beliefs play in creating shame around sexuality?
About the Guest:
As a certified sexologist and life coach, Dr. Toni Bear is committed to empowering women to embrace their true selves, unlock their inner potential, and reignite passion in every aspect of life. With over 25 years of experience in research, mentorship, and personal growth, Dr. Bear has inspired and guided thousands on their journeys toward self-discovery and sexual empowerment. Known for her contagious enthusiasm and compassionate approach, she ensures that sexual expression takes center stage, helping individuals break free from societal stigmas. Her expertise in sexuality and personal development allows her to create a space where listeners feel valued, heard, and motivated to take control of their authentic selves.
Visit Dr. Toni Bear’'s website: https://www.tonibearedd.com
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Do you wonder why many women struggle with body shame, especially around their most sacred area?
In this episode, Dr. Diane talks with Pussyology expert Sierra Sullivan about healing through body acceptance and feminine empowerment.
Sierra shares her journey from overworking in masculine energy to discovering a sacred ritual transforming her relationship with her body. They explore the origins of Pussyology, reclaiming the word "pussy," and how this work helps women break free from shame.
Whether you're comfortable with your body or feeling unsure, this conversation will open your mind and heart. Sierra also introduces her "Love Your Yoni" mini-course, a great starting point for this empowering journey.
Stay classy and empowered. Take a deep breath, grab your favorite drink, and dive into the Love Your Yoni mini-course to begin your self-love and feminine transformation journey. 🌸💖 https://PortalPriestess.com/loveyouryoni
Key Questions Discussed:
What is the art of Pussyology, and how can it help women heal from shame?
How did Sierra discover this powerful methodology?
What role does sisterhood play in the healing journey?
How can women who feel hesitant get started with this work?
About the Guest:
Sierra Sullivan is an Empowerment Mentor, Ritualist, and Pussy Oracle with nearly 20 years of experience helping women reconnect with their feminine power through ritual, pleasure, and play. She is also the co-founder of Eden World, a private membership club for evolutionary couples committed to building deeper, more loving relationships.
Visit Sierra's website: PortalPriestess.com
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Are you curious if your breast implants might be causing health issues?
In this episode, Dr. Robert Whitfield, a leading holistic plastic surgeon, joins Dr. Diane to explore Breast Implant Illness (BII), affecting around 30% of women with implants. They discuss how bacterial contaminants, hormonal shifts, toxins, and critical symptoms like fatigue, low libido, and thyroid problems can trigger BII. Dr. Rob explains his 'SHARP' process for optimal recovery after explant surgery and the role of detoxification in healing. If you're considering explant surgery or want to learn more about BII, this episode offers expert insights and practical advice.
Key Takeaways:
Discover why some women experience chronic fatigue, hormonal disruptions, and inflammatory symptoms from breast implants.
Learn about the role of detoxification in treating breast implant illness.
Understand the importance of personalized treatment plans and functional medicine in recovery.
✨For more information about Dr. Whitfield's practice, you can visit https://www.drrobertwhitfield.com/ ✨
✨ For more details about Dr. Robert Whitfield’s Surgery Prep and Recovery Program, SHARP, you can visit https://www.drrobertwhitfield.com/bii-recovery/ ✨
About the Guest:
Dr. Robert Whitfield is a top plastic surgeon with a holistic approach. He specializes in helping women with Breast Implant Illness, using advanced techniques like the "No-Cut" Facelift to help them recover faster. Dr. Whitfield focuses on the whole person, not just the symptoms, ensuring his patients get the best care possible. He’s based in Austin, Texas, and is known for his patient-centered, innovative treatments that blend surgical skills with holistic healing.
More about Dr. Robert Whitfield:
✨Instagram: @breastimplantillnessexpert
✨YouTube: @breastimplantillnessexpert
✨ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-robert-whitfield-md-50775b10/
✨ TikTok: @drrobertwhitfield
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✨Podcast - Holistic + Scientific https://open.spotify.com/show/1Yrw0P14YsyZ9fa4jX8ahF?si=f020fe1dca754369
✨ Book - SHARP, Strategic Holistic Accelerated Recovery Program - A book by Dr. Robert Whitfield: https://drrobssolutions.com/products/sharp-strategic-holistic-accelerated-recovery-program-by-dr-robert-whitfield
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Are you ready to feel more confident, joyful, and connected?
In this episode, Dr. Diane Mueller talks with Jennifer Joy Jimenez, the creator of TranscenDance™, about how dancing can help you reconnect with your body and bring more pleasure into your life. Jennifer shares her journey from a professional dancer to creating a unique movement practice that helps people feel more alive and happy.
Learn how letting your body lead—both in dance and in your relationships—can help you break free from routines and discover new levels of joy. Whether you want to boost your confidence, improve your relationships, or just find more fun in moving, this episode is full of simple tips and inspiring stories to get you started.
Plus, Jennifer is offering a special gift—a free dance class that will help you start your journey to feeling more alive today!
Register here for the FREE dance class: https://www.bravethinkinginstitute.com/health-wellbeing/offer/vhw/register/v
Don’t Forget: Download, share, and review the episode to help bring Jennifer back for a deeper chat on the health benefits of dance! Plus, enter our raffle for a chance to win cool prizes!
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Why is climax sometimes hard to reach? In this episode of The Libido Lounge, Dr. Diane Mueller helps us understand the female orgasm. She explains how nerves, blood flow, and mental focus play a role. Dr. Diane also shares tips on how to enjoy sex more and reduce stress about performing.
You'll learn about different types of orgasms and how to find what works best for you. Plus, discover a special kind of orgasm that can even help improve your mental health. This episode contains simple, practical advice to improve your intimate life.
And don’t forget, it’s sexy season! Rate and review our podcast for a chance to win great prizes, including a spot in our 21-day Libido Jumpstart course. Listen in, stay classy, and keep it sexy!
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Are you struggling to reach orgasm or want to discover new ways to enhance your pleasure? In this episode, we sit down with Susan Bratton, an intimacy expert who shares her journey from orgasm challenges to mastering over 20 different kinds. Susan explains the concept of "orgasmic cross-training" and how using the right tools and techniques can open up new pathways to pleasure.
Learn how to overcome performance anxiety, explore the power of sex toys, and embrace your body’s full orgasmic potential. Whether you're a beginner or looking to take your intimate life to the next level, this episode offers practical advice and hope. Plus, discover why communication is key to a fulfilling and relaxed sexual experience.
And don’t forget—it’s sexy season! Rate and review our podcast for a chance to win amazing giveaways, including Susan’s top programs and pleasure tools. Tune in, stay classy, and keep it sexy!
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About the Guest:
Susan Bratton is a champion for those seeking intimacy and passion throughout their lives. As the co-founder and CEO of Personal Life Media, Inc. and The20, LLC., Susan is at the forefront of heart-connected lovemaking techniques and vitality-enhancing supplements like FLOW and DESIRE. She’s also a spokesperson for cutting-edge therapies like GAINSWave® and FemiWave®, and has authored 44 books on intimacy and sexual health. Susan’s expertise has made her a sought-after speaker, frequently appearing on major networks and podcasts.
Explore more about Susan’s work and products that can enhance your intimate life:
Visit her website for more resources.http://susanbratton.com/
Follow Susan on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter for daily insights.
https://www.facebook.com/trustedhotsexadvisortomillions/
https://www.instagram.com/susanbratton/
https://twitter.com/susanbratton
Check out her YouTube channel for video content on sexual wellness. https://www.youtube.com/c/BetterLover
Learn more about GAINSWave® and its benefits. https://gainswave.com/
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Are you ignoring your body's signals and wondering why your intimate connections are lacking?
In today’s episode, we explore womb healing with Caitlin, a holistic womb healer, coach, and somatic psychotherapist. Caitlin shares her journey of learning to listen to her body and unlock her desires, and how ignoring these signals affected her intimacy.
Discover simple steps to connect with your body, understand the energy stored in your womb, and release past traumas. Caitlin explains how even small traumas can impact our well-being and what we can do to heal.
Join us for a powerful discussion that will help you find your “yes” by listening to your body’s “no.” Don’t miss Caitlin’s tips for deep healing and improving your intimate relationships.
Questions Explored:
How can women get better at listening to their bodies?
Why does it matter if we override what our body is saying?
How would "finding my no" make me feel more open to my "yes"?
How do we carry energy in our bodies and how do we release it?
Unlock deep healing with Caitlin's exclusive womb-clearing meditation, available now at a special offer!
✨Explore Your Inner Womb: https://www.embodythetemple.me/meditations/p/the-exploration-of-the-womb ✨
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About the Guest:
Caitlin is a holistic womb healer, embodiment coach, and somatic psychotherapist. She supports women in finding their full, embodied "yes" in life, by listening to their bodies and grounding into their womb spaces. Caitlin specializes in teaching women how to release emotions for deep healing and transformation through all areas of their lives.
Get to know more about Caitlin, visit her website at www.hundredleaf.com
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Are you struggling to keep the spark alive in your relationship?
In this episode, Dr. Diane Mueller sits down with Heather Shannon, a certified sex therapist, to explore the deep connection between our emotions and sexual energy. Discover how compartmentalizing emotions can dim your libido and learn practical strategies to reignite your passion.
Heather shares insights on internal family systems therapy and how understanding our internal parts can lead to better sexual health. From creating a safe space for open communication to recognizing and addressing negative self-talk, this conversation is packed with actionable advice to enhance your intimacy.
Tune in to learn:
The surprising ways emotional avoidance affects your libido
How to communicate your sexual needs without fear or judgment
Practical tips for managing stress and boosting your sexual energy
✨Don’t miss Heather’s Intimacy Audit, a powerful tool to help you identify and overcome the blocks in your sex life. Visit Get the Intimacy Audit to get started!✨
About the Guest:
Heather Shannon is a Certified Sex Therapist and host of the chart-topping “Ask A Sex Therapist” podcast. With over 13 years in private practice, Heather helps people in committed relationships who have lost their sexy spark to feel close and passionate again. Heather has been featured in publications such as Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, Glamour, and Self Magazine, as well as on podcasts including Shameless Sex and The Horny Housewife. She is a sex and relationship expert for the Peanut app, which serves 2.5M women throughout all stages of life.
Learn more about Heather Shannon:
Heather Shannon’s Website: HeatherShannon.co
Ask A Sex Therapist Podcast: podfollow.com/AskASexTherapist
Heather Shannon on Instagram: instagram.com/AskASexTherapist
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