TW: This episode includes discussion of domestic violence. Please take care of yourself, and skip this one if it feels triggering.

Turning 40 can bring up a lot. Reflection, fear, grief, pride, and everything in between.

And sometimes, it asks us to really look at the life we’ve lived so far.

It’s just me here today, reflecting on the last four decades of my life: the relationships I stayed in, the patterns I repeated, and the moments that quietly changed everything.

I share how turning 30 once felt terrifying but became one of the best years of my life, how moving to Australia changed my path in ways I never expected, and how years of unhealthy relationships shaped but did not define who I am today.

This episode is about self-compassion, breaking patterns, learning to sit with yourself, and understanding that healing isn’t linear and it doesn’t have an age limit.

If you’re approaching a milestone birthday, leaving a relationship, questioning old beliefs, or standing at the edge of a life change, this is for you.

In this episode, I chat about:

• Turning 40 and reflecting on who you’ve been and who you’re becoming
• How milestone ages can trigger fear, grief, societal pressure, and deep self-reflection
• Breaking cycles of unhealthy relationships and generational trauma
• Learning self-compassion after years of survival mode
• Choosing to build a life that feels safe, aligned, and true to you
• The power of storytelling, community, and sharing your voice

Thank you for being here, for listening, and for holding space; for me and for each other.

And here’s to the next 40!

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TW: This episode includes discussion of pregnancy loss, grief, and mental health. Please take care of yourself, and skip this one if it feels triggering.

How do you take unimaginable loss and transform it into purpose, advocacy, and lasting change?

This week, I’m joined by Jacqui Maloney, a speaking and communications coach who loves nothing more than helping people tell their story in a way that is heard and remembered.

She works with founders, entrepreneurs, and businesses to uncover their unique story and guide them in sharing it effectively.

Jacqui was actually our very first podcast guest and, today, she’s back to share a different story.

After experiencing multiple pregnancy losses, she faced profound grief, relationship challenges, and societal misunderstanding.

Jacqui chose to transform her pain into meaningful action, not only for herself, but for women across Western Australia. Through her work, she’s building support systems, resources, and safe spaces for parents navigating one of life’s most difficult experiences.

In this episode, we explore:

• Jacqui’s personal journey through pregnancy loss and grief
• How her loss affected her relationships, mental health, and professional life
• The moment she realised so many other women had similar experiences when she spoke out on social media
• The Rose Garden in Western Australia and her role as Chair of the Committee
• The creation and vision of the Macaru Foundation
• How she is building spaces, training programs, and resources to support grieving parents
• Practical advice for anyone experiencing loss or supporting someone through it

If you’ve ever faced loss, felt isolated, or wondered how to turn trauma into action, this episode is a powerful reminder that healing, hope, and meaningful change are possible, even after the darkest experiences.

Connect with Jacqui:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jacquimaloneycoaching/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jacqui-maloney/

Makuru Foundation: https://www.instagram.com/makurufoundation/

Website: www.jacquimaloney.com

KEMH Memorial Rose Garden

Support and resources for pregnancy loss and miscarriage:

Pink Elephants: https://www.pinkelephants.org.au/

Miscarriage Australia: https://miscarriageaustralia.com.au/

Red Nose Australia: https://www.bearsofhope.org.au/

Bears of Hope: https://www.bearsofhope.org.au/

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Trigger warning: This episode includes discussion of domestic violence. Please take care of yourself, and skip this one if it feels triggering.

What does rebuilding look like when leaving was only the first step?

In today’s episode, I’m joined by Adrienne Donnelly, founder of Organised by Adrienne, co-founder of the Newcastle Virtual Assistants Network, owner of Seed Virtual Assistants, and President of Gen Collective.

For the first time publicly, Adrienne shares her story of leaving a domestic violence relationship in her early twenties, and how that moment became the catalyst for a life dedicated to community, connection, and supporting women.

Adrienne speaks candidly about the isolation that often comes with abusive relationships, the quiet clarity of the day she left for good, and the long process of rebuilding confidence, identity, and safety.

Today, Adrienne is known for creating spaces where women feel supported, connected, and less isolated, particularly in small businesses and virtual work.

In this episode, we chat about:

• What it’s like to leave a violent relationship more than once before leaving for good
• The role isolation plays in abusive relationships, and why community is often the missing piece
• Rebuilding friendships, confidence, and identity after leaving
• How trauma can change your body, voice, posture, and sense of self
• The importance of family and support networks when leaving
• Finding and creating the right communities, especially for women in business
• Navigating social anxiety, networking overwhelm, and protecting your energy
• Why real-life connection matters so deeply in a digital world

Adrienne’s story is a reminder that leaving is only the beginning. Healing takes time, support, and space to rebuild confidence, identity, and safety.

If you’ve left an abusive relationship, felt alone in the aftermath, or are searching for connection and community as part of your healing, this episode is for you.

Connect with Adrienne:

Website: www.organisedbyadrienne.com.au

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/organisedbyadrienne

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/organisedbyadrienne

LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/adriennedonnelly

If you are a DV violence survivor or facing a similar situation, I'm here for you. You can connect with me on Instagram ⁠⁠@lifeafterileftpodcast⁠

If you need urgent support, reach out to one of these incredible services:

1800RESPECT – National sexual assault, domestic and family violence counselling service

Phone: 1800 737 732 (24/7)

Text: 0458 737 732

Website: https://www.1800respect.org.au

Safe Steps – Family violence response centre (Victoria)

Phone: 1800 015 188 (24/7)

Website: https://safesteps.org.au

Lifeline – Crisis support and suicide prevention

Phone: 13 11 14 (24/7)

Text: 0477 13 11 14

Website: https://www.lifeline.org.au

Beyond Blue – Mental health support for anxiety and depression

Phone: 1300 22 4636 (24/7)

Website: https://www.beyondblue.org.au

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Can work, travel, and self-care really co-exist without burning out?

This week, I’m joined by Emma Lovell, Bleisure Coach, speaker, and author, who helps people harmonise business, travel, and self-care in what she calls the ‘bleisure lifestyle’.

She shows how a life designed with purpose, joy, and freedom is possible, even while running a thriving business and traveling the world.

Before the books, global audiences, and retreats, Emma experienced a life-changing moment at 22 that set her on a path to building a business around travel, self-care, and purpose.

In this conversation, she openly shares the clarity, grief, and growth that shaped her approach to life, business, and the bleisure lifestyle.

In this episode, we chat about:

• The life-changing skiing accident that became a turning point for rest, reflection, and goal-setting
• Starting a business from zero while recovering from a broken back, and the lessons learned about taking the first step
• How grief, loss, and tragedy shaped her approach to entrepreneurship, self-care, and life design
• The evolution from PR and social media to coaching, personal branding, and bleisure coaching
• Understanding the bleisure lifestyle and how to harmonise work, travel, and self-care without burning out
• How to identify whether you are taking meaningful steps toward your goals or procrastinating
• Lessons from running retreats, traveling with family, and integrating creativity, leisure, and business

This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating grief, burnout, or the challenge of designing a life they truly love.

Emma’s story is a reminder that clarity and growth often come in unexpected ways, and that starting, even imperfectly, is the first step toward a life full of purpose and freedom.

Connect with Emma:

Website: www.emmalovell.au

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emmalovell.au/

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/emmalovelly/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EmmaLovellAU

Podcast: https://emmalovell.au/podcast/

Our live event is back!

Life After I Left - the live event - is back in Melbourne on 12 Feb for our 5th unforgettable event. 5 women, sharing 5 raw, powerful stories you won’t hear anywhere else.

Grab your ticket now:

https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/life-after-i-left-the-big-5-tickets-1811765131279

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This week, I’m joined by Jemma Haythorne, body image coach and host of the Finding Freedom podcast. Jemma helps women ditch body shame, rebuild a healthy relationship with food, and embrace their bodies with compassion, confidence, and self-love.

Before she was helping women heal their relationship with food, Jemma experienced the very struggles so many of her clients face like confusing diet rules, obsessive weight cycles, and the impossible beauty standards pushed by social media and society.

In this conversation, Jemma shares her personal journey through body dissatisfaction, diet culture traps, and self-sabotage, and how she found freedom and empowerment through mindset work, coaching, and self-awareness.

She also opens up about her mission to teach children healthy body image from an early age, because the earlier we start, the bigger the impact.

In this episode, we chat about:

• What diet culture actually is and how it impacts body image and self-esteem
• How diet culture and body obsession shaped her relationship with food from a young age
• The vicious cycle of strict dieting, binge eating, and disordered eating patterns
• The role of parents, partners, and family in shaping children’s body beliefs
• Why starting conversations about body acceptance in primary schools can create lifelong confidence
• Jemma’s thoughts on popular weight loss drugs like Ozempic, and why diet culture is so prevalent
• How stripping back to nutrition basics, like protein and regular meals, can transform energy and rebuild an intuitive relationship with food

This episode is a must-listen for anyone tired of diet culture, struggling with food or body confidence, or for parents wanting to raise children who feel safe, confident, and empowered in their bodies.

Connect with Jemma:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejemmarose/

Website: https://www.inspirewellnessau.com.au/

Podcast: https://www.inspirewellnessau.com.au/podcast

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Life After I Left - the live event - is back in Melbourne on 12 Feb for our 5th unforgettable event. 5 women, sharing 5 raw, powerful stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Grab your ticket now:

https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/life-after-i-left-the-big-5-tickets-1811765131279

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What happens when the very thing you’ve spent decades hiding becomes the source of your freedom?

In today’s episode, I’m joined by Clare Elizabeth Dea, international performance artist, speaker, author, facilitator, and host of Fuckup Nights Melbourne.

Clare shares her deeply personal journey of growing up with Poland Syndrome, the shame she carried around her body for years, and how learning to be seen changed everything.

Born without a left pectoral and developing only one breast, Clare spent much of her life hiding, managing intimacy through fear, and chasing success while feeling deeply disconnected from her true self. Despite being a trained performer who loved the stage, she was terrified of being truly seen.

Through acting training, therapy, intuition-led decisions, and storytelling, Clare slowly reclaimed her voice, transforming shame into beauty, power, and purpose. Today, she helps others feel safe to be seen - whether that’s on stage, in business, or in their personal lives.

In this episode, we chat about:

• What Poland Syndrome is and how it shaped Clare’s relationship with her body, confidence, and identity
• Growing up with shame, hiding parts of yourself, and the cost of staying silent
• Manifesting $15,000 to train in London, and how that overseas experience shaped Clare’s authentic confidence when she returned to Melbourne
• How intuition shows up, and what can happen when you ignore it
• The difference between telling your story before you’re ready vs when it’s truly integrated
• Creating safety before visibility through therapy, community, and baby steps
• Why live events and shared stories help people drop the mask and feel less alone

This conversation is a wild journey. From Clare’s first experience with entrepreneurship, to overseas dance and acting training, to creating her own live speaking events, Clare’s story is a powerful reminder that you don’t need to rush to share everything at once to be worthy of being seen. Safety comes first and, from there, transformation follows.

If you’ve ever struggled with shame, social anxiety, body image, or trusting your intuition, this episode is for you.

Connect with Clare:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/clareelizabeth_dea

Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/clare.e.dea

Website: https://www.clareelizabethdea.com

Our live event is back!

Life After I Left - the live event - is back in Melbourne on 12 Feb for our 5th unforgettable event. 5 women, sharing 5 raw, powerful stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Grab your ticket now:

https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/life-after-i-left-the-big-5-tickets-1811765131279

Support the show:

Got a topic idea or would love to share your story on the podcast? Connect with me on

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New episodes drop every Thursday. Make sure you’re subscribed, so you never miss a story that could change your life (or someone else's).

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❤️ Remember: Don’t be silent. Be unstoppable.

Trigger warning: This episode includes discussions of mental health and suicide ideation. Please take care of yourself and skip this episode if it feels triggering.

What happens when the workplace you once loved becomes the very thing that breaks you?

This week, I’m joined by Sophia Salmon, business mentor and founder of Wise Mind Consulting. Sophia helps women step into confidence, self-trust, and authentic visibility through an integrated, no-fluff approach that supports business growth without sacrificing lifestyle.

But before the thriving business and clients who adore her, there was a version of Sophia left shattered by a workplace that failed her.

Sophia openly shares her journey through burnout, psychiatric care, mental health discrimination, workplace exclusion, a traumatic leave experience, and the devastating realisation that her employer wasn’t going to let her return.

In this conversation, she takes us inside the reality of what it’s like to rebuild your identity after a workplace breaks your spirit, and how a 100km charity walk became the symbol of her mental and physical strength returning.

In this episode, we chat about:

• How years of perfectionism and high self-expectations led her to mask her internal struggles
• The moment COVID ended a job she once loved, and the loneliness and loss of identity that followed
• Navigating psychiatric inpatient and outpatient care, and what a Crisis Assessment Team is
• The emotional toll of workplace exclusion, dismissal, and finding out her employer was stopping her from returning
• How a long and exhausting legal battle reshaped her understanding of mental health at work
• What a 100km fundraising walk for Beyond Blue taught her about resilience and self-belief
• Rebuilding her confidence, voice, and purpose, and how that led her into business

This episode is a powerful listen for anyone who’s experienced burnout or exclusion in the workplace.

It’s a reminder that so many burnout stories start in environments that don’t support their people, and why backing yourself, rather than staying somewhere that doesn’t value you, matters so much.

Connect with Sophia:

Website: https://www.wisemindconsulting.com.au

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wisemind.consulting

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sophia-salmon-abbott

Age Article: https://www.theage.com.au/sport/afl/hawthorn-accused-of-mental-health-hypocrisy-20220814-p5b9nt.html 

Our live event is back!

Life After I Left - the live event - is back in Melbourne on 12 Feb for our 5th unforgettable event. 5 women, sharing 5 raw, powerful stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Grab your ticket now:

https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/life-after-i-left-the-big-5-tickets-1811765131279

Support the show:

Got a topic idea or would love to share your story on the podcast? Connect with me on

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New episodes drop every Thursday. Make sure you’re subscribed, so you never miss a story that could change your life (or someone else's).

And we’d love a 5-star review to help these stories reach the women who need them most.

❤️ Remember: Don’t be silent. Be unstoppable.

Trigger warning: This episode includes discussions of trauma, sexual abuse, sexual assault, rape, and the challenges of leaving unsafe or toxic environments. Please take care of yourself and skip this episode if it feels triggering.

Can the pain of your past become the catalyst for protecting the next generation?

In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Heena Sinha Cheung, a powerful advocate, survivor, and storyteller who has transformed her lived experience into a mission of healing and justice.

After leaving behind years of trauma, discrimination, and silence, she rebuilt her life with courage and purpose, emerging as a voice for women, children, and people with disabilities.

Today, she works at the intersection of advocacy, policy, and community empowerment, championing safer systems and platforms where survivors can be heard and believed.

From surviving abuse in silence to becoming a public advocate, Dr. Cheung has dedicated herself to giving children the vocabulary, tools, and safe spaces they need to express themselves.

She is the author of "My Safe Circle: Learning to Protect Ourselves" and the founder of the political movement "Protect Our Children - Jail, Not Bail," which aims to strengthen laws and hold abusers accountable.

In this episode, we speak about:

• Dr. Cheung’s experiences throughout childhood, reaching out for help, and finding that people didn’t know how to support her
• Being labelled as lazy, disruptive, and rebellious as a child, when really she was in survival mode
• Finding a safe, loving relationship with her husband, growing a family, and realising she was never broken or damaged
• Her journey from trauma to advocacy, and the moment she realised entrepreneurship alone wasn’t enough
• How speaking her truth has empowered others to share their stories
• The creation of My Safe Circle and practical tools to help children protect themselves
• Her bold decision to run as an independent for the Senate, and why politics became part of her advocacy
• The power of community action and how giving one minute of your time can help protect children and drive systemic change

Dr. Cheung's story is a powerful reminder that our past doesn’t define us, but it can inspire change, protect the vulnerable, and create a safer future for children everywhere.

Connect with Dr. Cheung:

Jail Not Bail Website: www.jailnotbail.com.au

Heena Sinha Cheung Website: www.heenascheung.com.au

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heena_sinhacheung/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-heena-sinha/

Our live event is back!

Life After I Left - the live event - is back in Melbourne on 12 Feb for our 5th unforgettable event. 5 women, sharing 5 raw, powerful stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Grab your ticket now:

https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/life-after-i-left-the-big-5-tickets-1811765131279

Support the show:

Got a topic idea or would love to share your story on the podcast? Connect with me on

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The start of a new year can bring up a lot, and it doesn’t all have to look like big goals or fresh starts.

It’s just me here today, in this solo New Year’s episode. I’m sharing a reflection on welcoming 2026 in your own way, without needing to feel your best on day one.

I reflect on the power of celebrating what you’ve already built, the importance of community and storytelling, and the safe spaces created through the Life After I Left podcast and live events. I also share details about our upcoming Melbourne event on 12 February, and why creating spaces where people feel seen, heard, and supported matters now more than ever.

This episode is an invitation to slow down, breathe, and honour yourself for making it here.

In this episode, I chat about:

• Why you don’t need to feel amazing on 1 January for the year to still count
• Letting go of the ‘New Year, new you’ narrative and embracing change in your own time
• Reflecting on 2025 and celebrating what you’ve already achieved
• The impact of storytelling, community, and creating safe spaces
• What’s coming next for Life After I Left, including our February Melbourne event

Thank you for being here, for listening, and for being part of this community.

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Life After I Left - the live event - is back in Melbourne on 12 Feb for our 5th unforgettable event. 5 women, sharing 5 raw, powerful stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Grab your ticket now - and use code LIFE5 to save $5:

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What if the key to your spiritual growth was simply learning to protect your energy, slow down, and trust what feels right in your body?

This week, I’m joined by Elinor Moshe, co-founder of Truth of You and a four-time author. She’s built a remarkable public legacy through awards, books, and a respected podcast. Yet beneath that outward success, a fracture grew. Her external achievements and inner world slowly slipped out of alignment, creating a quiet but relentless tension.

At 32, while travelling overseas with her parents, Elinor found herself caught in what she later learned as the ‘devouring mother’, where even simple choices felt impossible.

That moment sparked a profound awakening. She realised she had been living through masks and roles, disconnected from her own reality, and vowed to reclaim herself through spiritual guidance and grounded practices.

Although this story has unfolded only in recent years, her life today looks completely different.

This is a deep, expansive conversation that pulls back the curtain on the spiritual space, and it’s packed with so many golden insights you may find yourself listening more than once.

In this episode, we chat about:

• Elinor’s personal journey through shadow work, nervous system healing, and breaking lifelong generational patterns
• How she met her now-partner, and what their life together looks like today
• What energetic protection and spiritual hygiene actually look like, and why they matter before doing any deep healing
• How to choose a practitioner or guide with discernment (including red flags to look out for)
• The importance of reconnecting with intuition and trusting your body’s signals
• How modalities like astrology, shadow work, human design, tarot, and QHHT can support, but never replace, your inner wisdom
• Practical, accessible first steps for anyone feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure where to begin

Whether you’re deep into your spiritual journey or just taking your first steps, this episode is full of insight and guidance. Elinor’s story is a reminder that you don’t need to force your path; it begins by tuning into what feels true in your body right now.

Connect with Elinor:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theelinormoshe/

Website: truthofyou.com.au

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elinor-moshe/

Our live event is back!

Life After I Left - the live event - is back in Melbourne on 12 Feb for our 5th unforgettable event. 5 women, sharing 5 raw, powerful stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Grab your ticket now:

https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/life-after-i-left-the-big-5-tickets-1811765131279

Support the show:

Got a topic idea or would love to share your story on the podcast? Connect with me on

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New episodes drop every Thursday. Make sure you’re subscribed, so you never miss a story that could change your life (or someone else's).

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❤️ Remember: Don’t be silent. Be unstoppable.