Lift Her Up Podcast

She's the friend who always knows what to say. Her words carry hope, her presence shifts the atmosphere, and people leave her feeling better than when they came. She speaks life — but who is speaking life over her? In this powerful series finale, we're closing out the Friendship Archetypes Series with the Encourager Friend. We unpack the wound beneath the warmth, the loneliness of always pouring, and the invitation to let joy and honesty live together. We also look at Barnabas — the biblical Son of Encouragement — whose story reminds us that even great encouragers have limits, needs, and moments that cost them something. If you've ever felt pressure to stay "up" when you're hurting, if you deflect when people ask how you're doing, or if encouragement has quietly become your armor — this episode is for you, Lifter. What we cover: → The strengths and wounds of the Encourager Friend → How she shows up in friendships and with God → Barnabas as the biblical archetype example → What she excels at and what to watch out for → Her growth invitation: receiving as well as giving 📖 Focus Scripture: 1 Thessalonians 5:11 🕯️ Grab the FREE 5-Day Devotional — "When God Feels Far" at https://latrice-lift-her-up.kit.com/7d3fb1eeaa — for the seasons when you've been pouring out and need God to pour back in. New episodes weekly. Subscribe so you never miss an episode, and if this series blessed you, leave a review — it helps more women find their way here.

 She's the one who holds everyone together. She checks on everyone after a hard conversation, smooths over tension before it boils over, and keeps the group warm — often at the expense of her own voice and her own needs. In this episode of the Lift Her Up Podcast, we explore the Friendship Archetype of The Peacemaker Friend — where her gift comes from, what wounds often shape it, and how God wants to heal those roots so she can walk in peace freely, not fearfully. We unpack Abigail's story from 1 Samuel 25, the difference between being a peacemaker vs. a peacekeeper vs. a people pleaser, and what it looks like when the Peacemaker's gift flows from security in Christ instead of survival. Scriptures Referenced: 1 Samuel 25:32-33 | Matthew 5:9 | Proverbs 27:6 | Colossians 1:20 🎁 Download the FREE 5-Day Devotional, "When God Feels Far" — https://latrice-lift-her-up.kit.com/7d3fb1eeaa This episode is part of the Friendship Archetypes Series on the Lift Her Up Podcast — a faith-based personal development podcast for Christian women at the intersection of psychology and theology.

Are you the friend who always figures it out alone — and feels uncomfortable asking for help or support? In this episode of the Lift Her Up Podcast, we're diving into the Independent Friend archetype: the woman whose self-sufficiency has become both her superpower and her shield. We unpack the deeper wounds that fuel hyper-independence — including unmet needs, broken trust, and emotional self-protection — and explore how those patterns quietly affect your friendships, your community, and your walk with God. We also look at Jonah as a biblical example of how extreme independence can lead to isolation and resistance to God's direction. Topics covered: • The 6 signs you might be the Independent Friend • Hidden wounds behind independence as a survival strategy • How self-reliance can replace dependence on God • Why prayer becomes a report instead of a relationship • The difference between strength and surrender • A weekly challenge to practice leaning on God before you have it figured out This episode is for the woman who has pushed through everything — and is ready to ask what it's costing her. Free resource: Grab the "When God Feels Far" 5-day devotional: https://latrice-lift-her-up.kit.com/7d3fb1eeaa

Are you the one everyone calls when something goes wrong? The friend who jumps into solution mode before anyone even asks for advice? The one who can't rest until the problem is solved and everyone is okay?

You might be the Fixer Friend — and this episode is for you.

In this episode, we're breaking down one of the most common friendship archetypes: the Fixer. We'll explore where this pattern really comes from, why it often starts in childhood, and why your nervous system is wired to step in even when you're already running on empty.

In this episode we cover:

• The origin story of the Fixer Friend and why it's rooted deeper than personality
• The signs you might be carrying more than your share
• Biblical examples of unhealthy fixing — Abraham & Sarah, and Martha
• What Joseph teaches us about being a healthy, God-led problem solver
• Practical tools to help you pause, release, and trust God with what you cannot control

Because here's the truth — your desire to help is not a flaw. It's a gift. But there's a difference between helping and carrying, and God never asked you to carry what only He can hold.

This episode is for you if:

• You feel responsible for outcomes that aren't yours to control
• You struggle to just listen without offering a solution
• You're burned out but still showing up for everyone else
• You're ready to learn the difference between partnering with God and replacing Him

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Keywords: friendship archetypes, the fixer friend, people pleasing, burnout, faith and relationships, Christian podcast for women, letting go and trusting God, emotional health and faith, biblical friendships, women of faith

Are you the friend everyone calls when they need to feel heard? In this episode of the Lift Her Up Podcast, we're diving into the Therapist Friend — the empathetic, wisdom-filled woman who holds space for everyone around her. But what happens when empathy crosses into idolatry?

As Christian women, the gift of empathy is beautiful — but it can quietly become a burden we were never meant to carry alone. We're talking about emotional burnout, compassion fatigue, spiritual boundaries, and why being someone's safe place doesn't mean you have to be their savior.

In this faith-based conversation on Christian friendship and women's spiritual growth, we cover:

• Why carrying everyone's burdens is actually a spiritual issue
• What Job's friends teach us about showing up for people who are suffering
• How to set healthy boundaries without feeling like you're failing people
• Practical tools every therapist friend needs to protect her peace

If you're a Christian woman who pours into everyone but struggles to receive, this episode on empathy and boundaries is for you.

🎧 Part 2 of the Friendship Archetypes Series | Lift Her Up Podcast with Latrice Simmons

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Are you always the strong one in your friend group? The dependable one? The one everybody calls when life falls apart? This episode is for you.

In Episode 1 of the Friendship Archetypes series, we're diving deep into strong friend syndrome — what it really is, where it comes from, and why so many Christian women are carrying weights they were never meant to carry alone.

If you've ever struggled with people pleasing, burnout, emotional exhaustion, or hiding your true feelings to appear strong, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are.

Here's what we cover in this episode:

→ What the strong friend archetype really is and how it starts in childhood

→ Why being needed can become a trauma response and not just a personality trait

→ The biblical story of Aaron and what it teaches us about strength under pressure

→ Why strong women crack under pressure and what God says about it

→ The connection between people pleasing, perfectionism, and identity in Christ

→ 3 practical steps toward healing for the strong friend

→ How to begin setting boundaries, practicing vulnerability, and rebuilding your identity in God

Whether you're the strong friend, you love one, or you're just beginning your healing journey, this episode will challenge you, encourage you, and point you back to the One who carries it all.

Because His strength is made perfect in your weakness. And it's time to let Him prove it.

🎙️ This is Episode 1 of the Friendship Archetypes series. New episodes drop weekly — make sure you're subscribed so you don't miss what's coming next.

ABOUT THE LIFT HER UP PODCAST: The Lift Her Up Podcast is a faith based podcast for Christian women who are navigating healing, identity, spiritual growth, and everyday life. Hosted by Latrice Simmons, each episode blends biblical truth, real life storytelling, and practical application to help women walk confidently in who God called them to be. If you're looking for a Christian women's podcast that goes beyond the surface, you're in the right place.

IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL HEAR ABOUT: Strong friend syndrome, friendship archetypes, emotional healing for women, people pleasing and faith, trauma response and identity, Christian mental health, setting boundaries biblically, identity in Christ, spiritual growth for women, burnout recovery, vulnerability and faith, healing childhood wounds, Christian women empowerment, biblical womanhood, women's ministry, faith and mental health, healing journey, the book of Exodus, 2 Corinthians 12:9, Aaron and Moses

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I almost quit my podcast.

In this honest podcast episode, I’m sharing what almost made me walk away — fear of failure, burnout in ministry, disappointment with God, and the struggle of starting over when momentum feels lost. If you’re a Christian woman navigating fear, spiritual dryness, or a season where God feels far, this episode is for you.

We’re talking about:

• Fear of failure and procrastination
• When rest turns into avoidance
• Wrestling with God during hard seasons
• Feeling disappointed with your spiritual growth
• Trusting God’s sovereignty when nothing makes sense
• Starting over with faith
• Christian encouragement for women in transition

Sometimes burnout isn’t exhaustion — it’s fear.

Sometimes silence from God isn’t distance — it’s an invitation to deeper trust.

If you’ve been struggling with doubt, spiritual fatigue, or feeling like giving up on your calling, this conversation will remind you: God has not quit on you.

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• Emotional healing from a biblical perspective
• Identity in Christ
• Spiritual growth
• Purpose and calling
• Faith in difficult seasons
• Christian mindset renewal

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Are you struggling to feel close to God despite knowing the Bible and praying regularly? In this episode, I talk about the 4 biggest obstacles killing your intimacy with God: lack of desire, poor communication, pride and dishonesty. We dive into why knowing about God isn’t enough to build a deep connection, how pride and fear create emotional walls, and why spiritual honesty is essential. Using biblical examples like Ananias and Sapphira, we can learn how vulnerability and authentic prayer and interactions can break down these barriers. If your faith feels dry or distant, this episode will give you practical, biblical steps to rekindle your passion for God and move into a fresh, intimate relationship with Him.

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Have you ever felt like God went quiet just when you needed Him most? Like your thoughts and problems became louder than His voice? In this raw and honest episode, I share what God has been teaching me about commitment and consistency—not just in action, but in faith.

As I approached my 30th birthday, I found myself reflecting on what I’ve achieved, what I’ve lost, and where I’ve doubted God. Through journaling, prayer, and some tough internal conversations, God revealed that my lack of results wasn’t about His absence—it was about my inconsistency in belief.

We talk about:

    •    What to do when God’s silence feels deafening

    •    The connection between belief, obedience, and breakthrough

    •    How to stay faithful when you see no fruit

    •    Why inconsistency might be sabotaging your confidence

    •    What it means to really have faith that works (James 2:17)

If you’re in a season where nothing seems to be moving, this episode will help you reframe the plateau, rediscover purpose in the process, and recommit to showing up—even when it’s hard.

📝 Lifted Reflection Questions at the end to guide your prayer time and journaling this week!

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In this special Holy Week episode, I reflect on the Resurrection of Jesus through the story of the Road to Emmaus (Luke 24:13–34). After a powerful moment at the Museum of the Bible, I was reminded how easily we can miss Jesus when hopelessness clouds our faith.

Let’s unpack how the disciples had information without revelation, why Jesus sometimes hides His identity, and how faith is reignited through spiritual sight and truth. This story will stir your heart and remind you: Jesus is always near—even when you can’t see Him.

💭 Lifted Reflection:

    1. Where in your life have you been walking with questions or confusion, not realizing Jesus is right there?

    2. What truth do you need to believe again—not just in your head, but in your heart?

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