Adena and her guest, Navy Lieutenant Commander Angelita Noche, discuss how life on a ship can feel like a bar in New York at four am, and how women at sea suppress or express their femininity.

Conversations With Men I Wish I Never Had is a production of Voyage Media. The series is produced by Nat Mundel, Robert Mitas, and Dan Benamor. Executive produced by Adena Grundy. Story Producer: Natasha Stephan. Produced and edited by Dan Benamor and Sameena Mustafa. Original theme by Derlis Gonzalez.

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