“I thought I was helping. Turns out, I was shutting him down.”

If that feels familiar—you’re not alone. Most care partners want to support, but the way we “help” can end up adding pressure instead of relief. In this episode, I share three evidence-based moves from Supported Conversation for Adults with Aphasia (SCA™) that cut through frustration and bring conversations back to connection. You’ll also hear Joey’s story—how he turned nightly dinner battles into a bridge for closeness.

These strategies aren’t about saying more. They’re about slowing down, supporting what’s already there, and making sure you both feel heard. And when practiced together, they rebuild trust that aphasia often erodes.

Key Takeaways

• Why common “helping” behaviors backfire and increase frustration

• The 3 conversation moves that build trust instead of tension • Joey’s story: how one dinner-table shift changed everything

• Why you need all three moves together—not just one at a time

• How to pick one recurring “big rock” or “little rock” situation to start practicing

If this hits home—there’s a guide I want you to have.https://care-partner-compass.lovable.app/

More Resources:

Speak up for yourself after stroke—Take It Back: https://lifeaphasiaacademy.co/f/take-it-back

Feel stuck? This will remind you why progress is still possible: https://dolifespeechpathology.com/f/neuroplasticity

Care partner resources: https://lifeaphasiaacademy.co/care-partner-resources

 Explore therapy options: https://dolifespeechpathology.com

 Subscribe for new episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@LIFESpeechPathology/videos

 Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/listen-for-life-aphasia-podcast/id1621948384

Start small. Start here. Start with you.

“He sat in the meeting with more experience than anyone else in the room—yet he stayed silent and let others speak for him.”

That silence didn’t just happen at work. It followed Kevin home, where the shame and frustration of aphasia turned his marriage into a roommate arrangement. He had done every worksheet, every drill, and still asked himself: “Is this it for me?”

If you’ve ever wondered the same, Kevin’s story will remind you: recovery doesn’t stop when therapy ends. Neuroplasticity—the brain’s ability to rewire—doesn’t expire at six months or a year. But it only comes alive when belief meets structure.

Key takeaways:

Kevin learned the hard way that therapy progress doesn’t always carry over into real life. That’s why I put together a free guide called 3 Keys to Life Beyond Aphasia. It’s not another worksheet list. It’s the exact steps that helped Kevin bring progress home — into work, into marriage, into everyday life. If you’ve ever wondered how to bridge that gap, this guide is for you.

Grab your copy of 3 Keys to LIFE Beyond Aphasia https://www.lifeaphasiaacademy.co/3-key-reasons-aphasia-progress-never-stops

She looked angry. He pulled back. Later, he realized—it wasn’t anger at all. It was aphasia.

He asked what’s for dinner. She saw his blank stare, thought he was angry, and pulled away. But it wasn’t anger at all.

We don’t talk about this enough—the way aphasia and stroke can twist how care partners interpret every look, every sigh, every silence. You end up carrying blame that was never yours. That’s why I teach the ACE Filter: Aphasia, Cognition, Emotion. It’s a way to stop, pause, and ask what’s really happening before you react.

Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:

If this landed for you, try the Care Partner Compass. It’s free, it gives you clarity about your strengths and struggles, and it helps you see where to focus for better connection. The link’s below.

More Resources:

Care Partner Compass: https://care-partner-strength-wheel.lovable.app/

 Feel stuck? This will remind you why progress is still possible: https://dolifespeechpathology.com/f/neuroplasticity

 Explore therapy options: https://dolifespeechpathology.com

 Join our private support community: https://dolifespeechpathology.co/collective

 Subscribe for new episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@LIFESpeechPathology/videos

 Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/listen-for-life-aphasia-podcast/id1621948384

Start small. Start here. Start with you.

The hardest thing Oscar ever did as a brother was sit in silence and wait. Three seconds felt like forever.

When you love someone with aphasia, silence can feel heavy, awkward, even unbearable. You want to jump in, help, finish the word. But what if the greatest act of love is actually the pause?

In this episode, we unpack the Kitchen Timer Experiment—the “weirdest” aphasia strategy that works. You’ll see why waiting just three seconds before stepping in can change everything about how you connect with your loved one.

Key Takeaways:

If this hits home—you’ll want to try the Care Partner Compass. It’s free, simple, and shows you where your caregiving strengths are and where you could use support. From there, you can join the waitlist for the Collective, where we practice these strategies together. The links are below.

More Resources:

Care Partner Compass: https://care-partner-strength-wheel.lovable.app/

 Feel stuck? This will remind you why progress is still possible: https://dolifespeechpathology.com/f/neuroplasticity

 Explore therapy options: https://dolifespeechpathology.com

 Join our private support community: https://dolifespeechpathology.co/collective

 Subscribe for new episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@LIFESpeechPathology/videos

 Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/listen-for-life-aphasia-podcast/id1621948384

Start small. Start here. Start with you.

“They handed me a discharge packet. Not a manual.”

You’re the care partner. The advocate. The one who shows up. But the truth is—no one trained you for this. You’ve been expected to manage appointments, medications, your partner’s moods and words and losses… all while trying to keep the groceries stocked and the lights on.

And the hardest part? You’re doing it with love. But you’re also doing it without a roadmap.

In this episode, Genevieve joins Aphasia Phil to talk about what every stroke and aphasia care partner wishes they’d been told from day one: how to actually help, without drowning in guilt, exhaustion, or fear. If you’ve ever thought, “I’m doing everything I can, but I still feel like I’m failing,”—this conversation is for you.

If any part of this felt too real… there’s a free 5-day reset I want you to have.

More Resources:

Start small. Start here. Start with you.

Maura Silverman, Executive Director of the National Aphasia Association, advocates for individuals with aphasia and their families, emphasizing the need for increased awareness and community education. The discussion highlights the isolation faced by those with aphasia and the importance of building meaningful relationships, as well as the NAA's role in providing resources and support. With initiatives like the "Listen for Life Aphasia" podcast and monthly "Ask the Expert" sessions, the NAA aims to educate families on communication strategies and enhance community connections, ultimately focusing on preserving identity and family roles for those affected.

Speak up for yourself after stroke—Take It Back: https://lifeaphasiaacademy.co/f/take-it-back

Are you Lisa or Elena? https://lifeaphasiaacademy.co/f/lisa-or-elena

Feel stuck? This will remind you why progress is still possible: https://dolifespeechpathology.com/f/neuroplasticity

Care partner resources: https://lifeaphasiaacademy.co/care-partner-resources

Explore therapy options: https://dolifespeechpathology.com

Join our private support community: https://dolifespeechpathology.co/collective

Subscribe for new episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@LIFESpeechPathology/videos

Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/listen-for-life-aphasia-podcast/id1621948384

Are you caring for someone with aphasia? In this episode, Genevieve Richardson, a speech pathologist and care partner coach, busts the 7 most common myths that can hold caregivers and spouses back—and shares one practical tip for each.

You’ll learn:   

•    How to set boundaries without guilt     

•    The truth about “procrastination” and what it really means     

•    Why self-care isn’t selfish     

•    How routines give you freedom     

•    What aphasia does (and doesn’t) mean for intelligence     

•    What’s really behind “difficult behaviors”     

•    Why recovery doesn’t have an expiration date

Get expert advice, actionable tools, and real-world encouragement in less than 20 minutes. Want to dive deeper or connect with other care partners? Join our private membership, The Collective, for community, workshops, and step-by-step support.

Which myth surprised you most? Let us know in the comments!

#Aphasia #CarePartner #CaregiverSupport #MythBusting #SpeechTherapy #StrokeRecovery

Are you an aphasia care partner feeling lost, overwhelmed, or like you're navigating this journey without a map? This YouTube episode is for you. In this powerful live event replay, we dive deep into the often-unseen struggles of care partners and reveal a revolutionary pathway to thriving beyond aphasia and stroke.

Discover the crucial epiphany: recovery is truly maximized when the care partner is taken care of. For too long, caregivers have been the unseen heroes, without a dedicated roadmap for their unique challenges. We explore the emotional toll – the grief, coping, constant worry, and fear of doing something wrong – that traditional rehab often overlooks.

Learn how Life Aphasia has developed a pathway forward for care partners, offering actual tools, training, and steps forward that are complimentary to survivor rehab.

In this video, you'll see a live demonstration of:

Hear the inspiring, tangible transformation of D, a care partner who, after years, used this roadmap to find connection and even share a toast at her daughter's wedding – a moment she never thought possible. Her journey proves that aphasia and stroke do not have to rule every minute of your existence.

This Aphasia Care Partner Independence Month, we're making inroads to ensure care partners are supported so they can better support their survivors. We believe there is a life beyond aphasia, and we have the map to prove it.

If you're looking for structure, coaching, and a private community that meets you where you are, The Collective membership offers exactly that. It's month-to-month, designed to support you every step of the way.

Important: The doors for The Collective are open through the end of July, and we don't know when they'll open again. Don't miss this opportunity to gain control, clarity, and connection.

Watch the full replay to see the Compass in action and learn more about your path to thriving.

Get your free Care Partner Compass here: https://care-partner-strength-wheel.lovable.app/

Ready to join our private community, The Collective, and start your roadmap to a fuller life? https://lifeaphasiaacademy.co/f/life-aphasia-collective

We dive into the challenges faced by individuals with aphasia and their care partners and the crucial role that community support plays in navigating aphasia care. Here's a comprehensive summary of what you can expect:

We start by sharing the inspiring story of Betty, a retired store manager whose husband experienced a stroke and now lives with aphasia. Betty initially felt overwhelmed and hesitant to accept help, but we explored how she overcame her concerns and found support.

One key takeaway is respecting the wishes of individuals with aphasia. We discuss how forcing assistance upon them can be counterproductive, and instead, we should focus on maintaining open lines of communication and staying connected.

We also explore practical actions that can make a difference. Coordinating volunteers to help with errands and household tasks can alleviate some of the burden on care partners while providing meals and household assistance ensures proper nutrition and reduces stress.

Loneliness and isolation are common challenges for individuals with aphasia and their caregivers, so offering companionship is incredibly valuable. We discuss the positive impact of having someone to talk to and spend time with.

Transportation to therapy sessions is another crucial aspect of aphasia care. Many individuals with aphasia struggle with transportation due to communication difficulties, so offering assistance in this area can significantly enhance their access to necessary treatment.

Lastly, we emphasize the importance of continued support even after the initial crisis has passed. Aphasia is a long-term condition, and ongoing assistance can significantly improve the quality of life for individuals with aphasia and their caregivers.

Remember, LIFE Speech Pathology is here to help, so let's join together to create a supportive community for those affected by aphasia. Thank you for your support and engagement with LIFE Speech Pathology®.

Explore our services and approach at Do LIFE Speech Pathology . Listen to our Listen for LIFE Aphasia Podcast for more resources and inspiring stories. Stay connected with us on YouTube , Facebook , and Instagram for updates and encouragement. Together, let's uncomplicate aphasia.