LITTLE MISS TIDY. Evang. Ese Metitiri Ottawa, ON, Canada. Jan/05/2023.

SPEED DATING.  We are living in an era now in the dating world today, where people want the benefits of a relationship, but without the commitment or sacrifice it takes to enjoy a love relationship.  Some will tell you what you want to hear and as soon as they come close they take the best of you and walk on by, they ghost you. The word for this episode is to stay steadfast to your life principles no matter who is trying to convince you to let your guard down.   Sleeping with a guy is no guarantee he is going to stay with you.

Two people can meet and have all the factors to make a good relationship, but if they are both in different seasons of their lives, it will be a no-go. People, in general, can tell when they meet a good person, but then the challenge becomes, am I ready to go in the same direction as them. Their life statement becomes a challenge.  Most people settle for people that do not challenge their vision in today's world of online dating and dating in general in this google generation.

Sometimes people are comfortable right where they are, even if it is not in a happy place.  Listen and catch the mood of the gist.

Guys on Dating Apps online are no longer committed after the first date.  It is either they get it on the first date or they ghost you.  Both genders are complaining and unfulfilled with online dating. The mood of this era is SELF-FULFILMENT!!.  At the age of 35+and older, many have a resume of failed marriage, separation and divorce.  We are suffering from lost values, where the words love, chemistry, connection, attraction commitment only mean one thing sex. Catch the details on the podcast. Like and Subscribe.

You say you want a serious relationship, then be ready to put in the time to get to know each other, unless what you say holds no water.  No bank will give anyone a loan without a business plan, so also is finding a lasting love relationship that leads to marriage.

So many times we meet people in our quest for lasting love.  They might have all the right physical qualities we are generally looking for, they have the car, the house a good job but, there seems to be something still missing for you and sometimes you cannot place your finger on it, it is called the IT FACTOR.

Sex is supposed to be an ongoing act, a continuous act in a safe, respectful, and committed relationship called marriage. Sex is made for till death do us part kind of relationship, not wam, bam, thank you, mama, type of relationship.  Sex is super spiritual, get a grip men!!!  Do you want it? Go big, man up, put a ring on it. "No cookies for sale here".

When you find your peace with God, Self, and Life, life becomes more Joyful.  Friendship is the first level of any relationship. 

 "If you cannot be friends, then you can't be anything else" Em. Every love relationship starts on the bases of friendship.  Ladies when you are going out for your dates, stay or go within familiar perimeters. If the date turns into a flight or fight situation, you can easily get to safety or get help. That is one of the main reasons why you never take anyone you meet for the first time online to your house or Apartment ladies. Online dating is not the same as being introduced to someone to go on a date through friends or family.  If your date walks out on you, you can always find your way home. Even if your date is picking you up ladies, have money or a means of getting yourself back to a safe place or home. 

Many people go online to fulfil fantasies.  Ladies be aware!  Don't get sucked into nude pictures, vulgar texting and sex texting with strangers you don't know. If it does not work out, next! God's got you.  Make it known to the guys you are not interested in sex texting and nude pictures in your profiles.

Some key tips for meeting in person.  Pay attention to the profiles you are reading. Pay attention to the wording of each profile.  Each profile has written clues about the person you are interacting with. Ladies be aware of those that are online to fulfil their own private fantasies, People you don't know trying to engage you in sex texting, vulgar texting and nude photos.