LITTLE MISS TIDY. Evang. Ese Metitiri Ottawa, ON, Canada. Jan/05/2023.

After a failed relationship.  Take time to reflect.  Don't be one of those people that keep jumping from one failed relationship to the other, without taking the time to process the failed relationship. Now would be a good time to self reflect, ask yourself the tough questions, " What part did I play" and work from there. Take time off to recover, self-access and heal.  Take time to do the needed work on self, so when you are ready for the next relationship, you try your best with prayer, not to repeat the same mistakes.

Meeting in person guys, you have a responsibility to make a lasting impression. Women are the homemakers, while guys are the breadwinners. Guys don't go on your first in-person date waiting for the woman to pay for stuff.  Listen, even if I have a million dollars in my bank account, I still want a guy that will say to me on our first date, don't worry about it, I got it, means I got you. Every woman is looking for a man that will say, " I GOT YOU"  WOMEN NEED SECURITY, in every area of the relationship with a man. Women need security physically, mentally, emotionally and financially. Even if you don't have a million dollars, l just need to know that if you have $20 dollars you can spend at least $10 on me. "SECURITY" IT'S NOT THE MONEY, IT IS THE HEART BEHIND IT. 

First, meet in person appointment was a no show.  Later, that same day at 10.00 pm, he sends a text, he wanted to come over, just as he had planned, but it did not work for him. In his story, he fell asleep. Dude, this is not a booty call.  My bed is not a bed for strangers. Ladies keep the mission for the vision your main focus.

Choosing out of a profile what will be the factors in his/her profile that will be the deal-breaker.  Keeping the mission for the vision at the forefront of your search.  The Older we get the more set in our ways we become. No one can change anybody so search for those that have a similar outlook on life to you. 

We must always remember our mission for the vision. "What are you looking for" We must not lose track of this. This is the reason why you paid and join this dating platform.  Not everyone is on a dating site looking for true love that will lead to marriage.  Some people have ended their second marriage, and if you have never been married before and that is your objective, then you are on two different journeys.  There are factors we must look at on a profile to determine if we can live with or live without. You have to decide what it is going to be for you. 

Things we do for love can be a big part of our love language.  For those of us that are more sensitive can be called Emotional Expressors. We like to see our emotions interpreted back to us and played out back to us in action. E.g. " If you love me show me you love me by the expression of your acts".  

FLYING SOLO.  This Episode talks about filling in the gaps before that special someone walks into your life. Celebrating Us Women for International Women's Day. Praying for Ukraine, remembering their plight in this season. Staying creative and adding to your life resume, until the moment you say I do. ( Then Two Heads become One, as two heads are better than one).

Layout guidelines for yourself, how you want your dating journey to go.  Narrow your searches for a date to within your town and country.  This too can help eliminate being scammed from a distance.  Guide your heart. Time is a great revealer of true love or true lust or true love scams.

SCAMMED MY HEART.  He got me, girls, be careful on platforms where guys can chat you up.  Have a rule to not leave the safe security of the platform you are on until you know this person very well.  Use your webcam, I stress, use your webcam. Can video chat with you, then I ain't got time.