When you decided to have children, were you thinking to yourself, 'God I can't wait for this kid to come out so that I can just scream my face off him'?
That's not why we become parents, but we find ourselves there.
Kids know how to push your buttons, and for some kids, bad attention is still attention.
But, if you are taking care of yourself and leaving time for you every day, the snapping will not happen with as much frequency or with as much intensity.