When we focus on present circumstances through a lens of self-reliance, we fall victim to fear, worry, and complaint. How do we ensure that we do not become like the Israelites as they wandered through the wilderness? God desires to hear our thoughts, but does He want complaints? When emotions and feelings turn from a search for grace and intimacy with God to displeasure, disobedience and rebellion easily follow. Sometimes complaints and rebellion are not spoken, but are proven by the way we live. If we focus on Him and live with a mindset of trust, faith, and reliance on the provision of an omnipotent Heavenly Father, we experience His power and blessings and allow God to transform us into the image He created us to become.
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