My question to you is why are you still connected to your ex’s? Can you honestly answer this question? How are you justifying it?
The answer is NO!
Is you EGO in charge here? Do you secretly want to make sure that your life is so amazing and you must portray this to all of your past relationships?
By having these connections are you really committed to the person you are in a relationship with now?
Does your partner know who you are keeping connected to and why and do you know who your partner is connected with and why?
Get them all off of your social media and see how that feels?
Have the conversation with your partner and if you are both cool with it then you are both being upfront and honest.
Once you close doors new ones will open.