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African immigrants have contributed significantly to the growth and diversity of the overall Black population in the United States. As an immigrant, I know how hard it is for someone to come to the United States with nothing but a dream and work hard to see their dreams come to pass.
The story of Solange Che is that of challenging oneself to become their best version. To quote Solange – “failure is a state of mind that if not handled with care can destroy one's personality. It took acceptance, goal setting, revamping my self-confidence, sacrifice, resilience, and vulnerability to come to the realization that I can start all over again and be my best version.”
Join us on this episode as she takes us through all the turns in her life journey – from her upbringing to education, traveling to Germany for her master's in linguistics, having a baby unplanned, moving to the United States, and how she was able to turn around her life (with the help of God Almighty) to become her best version. This journey will be motivating, inspiring, and emotional. Welcome to episode twenty-one(21).
Meet Our Guest :
Solange Che is the fifth of a family of seven born in Cameroon. She did her Bachelor's and Masters in Linguistics at the University of Buea in Cameroon and later had a scholarship to study applied linguistics at the University of Cologne in Germany.
She is a mother, a linguist and Salesforce consultant by profession, and a podcaster. She is an 8x Certified Salesforce Administrator/Consultant and Scrum certified with so many years of experience working in an agile environment.
She is the host of the “You Can Be Anything Podcast’ where she shares her inspiring journey with her listeners. On her podcast, she shares real-life experiences and lessons learned and chats with people with similar stories so that listeners will have a wide variety of content to draw from.
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Things You Will Learn in This Episode:
[00:01 – 05:00] Introduction
[05:00 – 25:00] Upbringing & Education
[25:00 – 38:00] Coming To America & Becoming A Salesforce Consultant
[38:00 – 40:00] Final Words
Quotes
“Believe in yourself. Believe in yourself that you can become anything and put in the work needed to actualize that belief. Always remember that you can become anything.” – Solange Che
“failure is a state of mind that if not handled with care can destroy one's personality. It took me acceptance, goal setting, revamping my self-confidence, sacrifice, resilience, and vulnerability to come to the realization that I can start all over again and be my best version.” – Solange Che
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In the last episode (019), I briefly stated my first encounter with Alzheimer’s Dementia through my grandfather. Despite the popular belief that this disease was a right of passage for every old person, I have come to learn that this myth is still very prevalent in our African communities. Some people even attribute Alzheimer’s to witchcraft or a curse. I suppose it is still difficult to understand and, most importantly, accept that it is nothing other than a disease. Therefore, I have invited a familiar face to this platform in the person of Dr. Leonard Ngarka (neurologist), and Vivian Ngang (aka Aunty Vivian) to have an in-depth discussion on Alzheimer's Dementia and give us more insight from a healthcare provider and caretaker perspective.
Dr. Leonard Ngarka will focus more on educating our community about Alzheimer's Dementia while Vivian Ngang will share her first-hand experience on how she applied the knowledge shared with respect to caring for her mother (listen to her story in episode 019). I hope you learn and pick some key points from this episode, and as always, I hope the conversation continues within your circles. Thanks for listening.
Meet Our Guests:
Vivian Ngang is a Registered Nurse with a doctorate degree in Nursing and a Master's degree in Nursing Science. She is a Clinical Nurse Manager in one of the hospitals or one of the units at the Veterans Hospital in Detroit, Michigan. She has been married for 25 years – blessed with four beautiful children and one grandchild.
Dr. Leonard Ngarka is a Neurologist who works at Yaounde Central Hospital, Cameroon. He is also a Lecturer at the Faculty of Medicine and Biomedical Sciences, The University of Yaoundé, Cameroon.
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Things You Will Learn in This Episode:
[00:01 – 03:00] Introduction
[03:00 – 30:00] Remembering Maa Lucy & Learning About Alzheimer's Dementia
[30:00 – 40:00] Prevention & Treatment
[40:00 – 1:00:00] Elaborating On Some Important Key Points
[1:00:00 – 1:13:00] Final Words
Quotes
“Remember that these elders going through Alzheimer's Dementia are used to giving instructions, giving orders, and doing what they want so we must learn to speak with them calmly, be patient, and be respectful with them in order for them to allow us to offer them the care they need.” – Dr. Leonard Ngarka
“When people start having these memory problems – sometimes, we caretakers are so impatient with them that we end up frustrating them. Frustration and becoming depressed even makes their symptoms worse. So we need to be tactful and make them see the need for medical advice rather than making them feel they’re close to madness or making them feel they’re so bad.” – Dr. Leonard Ngarka
“What are the things we should do to prevent Alzheimer's Dementia? We should eat healthily, engage in sporting activities often, and if we are sick of any chronic condition then we should take our drugs well, and make sure we are well controlled.” – Dr. Leonard Ngarka
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Over 2 million people lived with dementia in sub-Saharan Africa in 2015 and numbers are projected to nearly double every 20 years, increasing to almost 3.5 million by 2030 and 7.6 million by 2050.*
My late grandfather died of a broken heart, but he also had mild symptoms of Alzheimer’s dementia. That was my first encounter with this disease and I remember as a kid, struggling to understand why a grown man will forget things so easily or walk out of the house without knowing where he was headed, and getting lost. I remember most people calling it “Old age” and we were made to understand that it was a right of passage for every old person, and that made me even more scared to get old.
Our community has normalized the ideology of defining people’s lives by the disease they are battling - in this case, Alzheimer’s Dementia. We tend to easily forget that these were humans - family, friends, etc - behind the disease. So this week, we discuss Alzheimer’s Dementia from a caretaker's perspective. We will be having Vivian Ngang (aka Aunty Vivian) discuss her experience while taking care of her lovely mother (Mama Lucy) who battled this disease until her demise.
This episode is heavy, emotional, and educational, and sheds more light on how we can help our senior relatives encountering this disease. Hope you learn and pick some key points from this episode – remember to share within your circle.
* Data From Alzheimer's Disease International (ADI)
Meet Our Guest :
Vivian Ngang is a Registered Nurse with a Doctorate degree in Nursing and a Master's degree in Nursing Science. She is a Clinical Nurse Manager in one of the hospitals or one of the units at the Veterans Hospital in Detroit, Michigan. She has been married for 25 years – blessed with four beautiful children and one grandchild.
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Things You Will Learn in This Episode:
[00:01 – 03:00] Introduction
[03:00 – 30:00] Remembering Mama Lucy & The Beginning Of Alzheimer's Dementia
[30:00 – 55:00] Events That Happened Before Mama Lucy's Passing
[55:00 – 1:15:00] Elaborating On Some Important Key Points
[1:15:00 – 1:25:00] Final Words
Quotes
“There's this stigma that someone having Alzheimer's means they're crazy which makes most Africans not want to talk about it so when I started sharing how my mum was dealing with hers, it inspired others to share how their parents were dealing with the same disease. So we must talk and share with others in order to raise awareness and educate our community.” – Vivian Ngang
“I want all your listeners to know that God won't give them challenges they don't the strength to handle so they must keep on and not give up.” – Vivian Ngang
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Jehovah Has Healed is a book that was born out of a mother's journey through loss, faith, and the Supernatural. Like every newly married couple, Carine and Victor Njoh dreamed of a happily ever after life, but God had other plans. In Carine’s words – “It looked like I'd never see the dawn of the day. I asked many questions, but the answers didn't seem forthcoming.”
In the book, Carine walks us through her experiences, but in this episode, we go deeper into how Victor was also impacted by the multiple loss and how God revived their faith and healed their hurt.
Today, we continue from where episode seventeen(17) ended. I hope the conversation inspires you as it did me. This is such an important topic in our community, as it could lift up the spirit of someone going through something similar. It is therefore my greatest hope that the conversation doesn’t end here, and that we can keep it going within our circles. Thank you for listening.
Meet Our Guests :
Victor is the 3rd child (first set of twins) from a family of 8. Born in Kumba, Cameroon to Mr. Christopher Njoh & Mrs. Ruth Njoh née Tabod, both of blessed memory. He relocated to the U.S in 1996 where he attended Southwestern Oklahoma State University (SWOSU ) in Weatherford and graduated in 2003 with a Doctorate in Pharmacy.
Carine is the 5th of 6 children. Born in Buea to Mr. John Ndeh & Mrs. Hilda Ndeh née Asanji. She relocated to the U.S in 2000 where she started College at Southwestern Oklahoma State University, as well. She graduated in 2010 with a Doctorate in Pharmacy.
Victor and Carine met at SWOSU. At the time, Victor was President of Southwestern International Students Associations (SISA), and so was instrumental in helping her navigate the (school) system. Their relationship kicked off a couple of years later. They got married in 2008 and that's where their story begins.
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Things You Will Learn in This Episode:
[00:03 – 10:00] Empathizing With People & Supporting Your Spouse
[10:00 – 20:00] Going Through Life While Facing These Challenges
[20:00 – 30:00] Spiritual Encounters & Advices
[50:00 – 53:54] Final Words
"Since you can't control what people say about you – to keep your peace of mind, please learn to filter out what you give your ears and attention to.” – Victor Njoh, on how to deal with negative comments
“If you are really concerned about someone having their own child then pray for them. Because when prayers go up, blessings come down. So instead of talking about them, pray for them.” – Carine Njoh
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Jehovah Has Healed is a book that was born out of a mother's journey through loss, faith, and the Supernatural. Like every newly married couple, Carine and Victor Njoh dreamed of a happily ever after life, but God had other plans. In Carine’s words – “It looked like I'd never see the dawn of the day. I asked many questions, but the answers didn't seem forthcoming.”
In the book, Carine walks us through her experiences, but in this episode, we go deeper into how Victor was also impacted by the multiple loss and how God revived their faith and healed their hurt.
I hope the conversation inspires you as it did me. This is such an important topic in our community, as it could lift up the spirit of someone going through something similar. It is therefore my greatest hope that the conversation doesn’t end here, and we can keep it going within our circles. Thank you for listening.
Meet Our Guests :
Victor is the 3rd child (first set of twins) from a family of 8. Born in Kumba, Cameroon to Mr. Christopher Njoh & Mrs. Ruth Njoh née Tabod, both of blessed memory. He relocated to the U.S in 1996 where he attended Southwestern Oklahoma State University (SWOSU ) in Weatherford and graduated in 2003 with a Doctorate in Pharmacy.
Carine is the 5th of 6 children. Born in Buea to Mr. John Ndeh & Mrs. Hilda Ndeh née Asanji. She relocated to the U.S in 2000 where she started College at Southwestern Oklahoma State University, as well. She graduated in 2010 with a Doctorate in Pharmacy.
Victor and Carine met at SWOSU. At the time, Victor was President of the Southwestern International Students Association (SISA) and was instrumental in helping her navigate the (school) system. Their relationship kicked off a couple of years later. They got married in 2008 and that's where their story begins.
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Things You Will Learn in This Episode:
[00:01 – 03:00] Introduction
[03:00 – 30:00] The Beginning Of Challenges
[30:00 – 55:00] Dealing With The Challenges
[55:00 – 1:00:55] Empathizing With People Going Through Challenges
Quotes
“I found a hobby that I enjoyed so much, gardening. And I tell people all the time that If you are going through stuff and you need something to help you out, put your hand in the dirt. Put a seed in the ground and nurture that seed to grow, it will do an amazing thing to your psyche.” – Victor Njoh, on how he coped
“Our community needs to do better to be sensitive. Be sensitive to people going through issues – people finding it difficult to give birth or have kids with special needs. Remember that you don’t have to say everything that comes into your mind, especially when the person is around.” – Carine Njoh
“I know what I went through and I know without God, I couldn’t have survived. I believe that He was my strength when I was weak and he encouraged me when I lost all hope.” – Carine Njoh
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According to the World Health Organization (WHO) – in 2019, reports showed that 38.2 million children under the age of 5 years were estimated to be overweight or obese. Once considered a high-income country problem, overweight and obesity are now on the rise in low- and middle-income countries, particularly in urban settings. In Africa, the number of overweight children under 5 has increased by nearly 24% since 2000.
What makes this worse is the fact that most African countries have this mindset that being overweight has been associated with richness, health, strength, and fertility, whereas in the Western world, the slim body size is widely idealized. So children and teens with obesity are considered nourished and nice hence their obesity is less diagnosed.
Today, we have with us Dr. Judwin Ndzo to share her experience as a pediatrician who deals with cases of child obesity on a daily basis. This episode is focused on the causes of child obesity, myths surrounding child obesity, and preventive measures we can put in place to ensure our children don't become obese. We also discussed the impact obesity has on children's mental health. I hope you learn and pick some key points from this episode – remember to share this episode and the lessons learned with your circles.
Meet Our Guest :
Dr. Ndzo is a UK-based pediatrician who is passionate about helping children grow, thrive, and achieve their maximal potential in life. Early in her career, after graduating from the University of Buea, Cameroon, she worked at Solidarity Clinic in Buea, where she developed a passion for managing children. Her interest in nutrition led her to her job with MSF Swiss and later the French Red Cross in Garoua-boulaï, Eastern Cameroon where she worked in a refugee camp for almost 2 years, looking after malnourished kids.
Following this, she won a Chevening scholarship to study for a master's in Public Health Nutrition at the University of Southampton, UK. The following year, she decided to start her residency in Paediatrics and became a member of the Royal College of Paediatrics and Child Health in 2021. She is keen to mentor and help other young Cameroonians pursue their career goals.
When not working, she enjoys traveling, working out, hiking, cooking, socializing, and hanging out with friends!
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Things You Will Learn in This Episode:
[00:01 – 03:00] Introduction
[03:00 – 15:00] Understanding Childhood Obesity
[15:00 – 30:00] Mental Health of Obese Children & Myths of Obesity
[30:00 – 42:00] Advise, Recommendations & Ways Out of Obesity
[42:00 – 46:55] Final Words
Quotes
“Yes, the most important thing is that babies eventually have food. But it's important to talk about the importance of breastfeeding. So we know that babies who are bottle-fed are much more likely to develop obesity in the future and alongside diabetes and or whatnot.” – Dr. Judwin Ndzo
“I see children with diabetes, with hypertension, with low self-esteem, all those things. It really bothers me to see obese children suffer such health problems, especially at such a young age and I think we need to start with the adults, we are we need to be role models to our children. Let's have healthy families because healthy families would lead to healthier communities.” – Dr. Judwin Ndzo
“I see a lot of Cameroonian men who are obese and some of them don't even realize that until they get diagnosed maybe with hypertension and diabetes, and then they start making an effort to want to lose weight. So I think we need to start by looking at our own selves as adults. We cannot be telling a child, you're obese and things when yourself you've not started with yourself.” – Dr. Judwin Ndzo
“So do that BMI test, look at a BMI chart, calculate your BMI, you can literally do it at home, measure your child's height and measure your child's weight. I think anything over 25 is overweight and then obese or morbidly obese. So if your child is falling within that range, then have an honest conversation with them. And you don't necessarily have to be condescending, but just try to see things that you can start by changing in the household. And also having that conversation with them.” – Anyoh Fombad
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It is well reported by the WHO that more than 66% of the 120 million people affected worldwide by sickle cell disease live in Africa. Approximately 1,000 children are born with the disease every day in Africa, making it the most prevalent genetically-acquired disease in the region. More than half of these children will die before they reach the age of five, usually from infection or severe anemia.
What makes this worse is the fact that most African countries do not have the necessary resources to provide comprehensive care for people with sickle cell disease despite the availability of proven cost-effective interventions for prevention, early diagnosis, and management of this condition. This is why we need more advocacy, raise awareness and vigorously educate our community on this disease.
Dr. Ojong Bate is here to share her experience living with sickle cell. This episode is heavy, emotional, educational, and sheds more light on how we can help our community to battle Sickle Cell. Hope you learn and pick some key points from this episode, and please remember to share within your circle.
Meet Our Guest :
Dr. Ojong Bate is a Clinical Pharmacy Manager with Walmart Health and Wellness. She received her Doctor of Pharmacy Degree (PharmD) from the University of Charleston College of Pharmacy and a Master in Business Administration (MBA) from Alfred Lerner College of Business and Economics at the University of Delaware. She is passionate about health education and Sickle Cell Disease Advocacy. She is also the Founder of Brightstar Foundation; a non-profit foundation in Cameroon, Africa. The Foundation focuses on sickle cell disease education and empowerment. She is a health outcomes enthusiast and she enjoys promoting lifestyle modification in chronic disease management. Her personal interests include traveling, health education, Health strategy coaching, and business intelligence exploits.
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Things You Will Learn in This Episode:
[00:01 – 06:00] Introduction
[06:00 – 30:00] Diagnosis & Living With Sickle Cell As A Teen
[30:00 – 1:00:00] Thriving With Sickle Cell
[1:00:00 – 1:13:55] Final Words
Quotes
“Yes, sometimes you might take longer to accomplish the things you want but that doesn't mean you will not accomplish it, it means that it's okay to pace yourself. It's okay to ask for help. It's okay to seek your truth, your authenticity. And in that process to not devalue your worth.” – Dr. Ojong Bate
“In Cameroon, sickle cell disease is not very rare. It's just stigmatized so much that people hide it. And the synopsis and prognosis and outcomes are really poor so a lot of times patients go on to be diagnosed until they're three, four or five, and even six years old. And before some even get diagnosed, they have already lost their lives.” – Dr. Ojong Bate
“Know your self-worth, don’t center your life around sickle cell disease, ask for help, know your needs, be consistent with your drugs, and be your best advocate. Take your medications consistently and take good care of yourself so you don’t blame the disease for everything that happens to you health-wise. Simply, be there for yourself every day.” – Dr. Ojong Bate
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The topic of fibroids is one thing that we will never stop talking about to raise awareness about the disease in our community. As time goes by, I have gotten to know more women who have struggled with fibroids and I have come to the realization that it is far more common than being spoken about.
Data from Michigan Medicine shows that “Nearly a quarter of Black women between 18 and 30 have fibroids compared to about 6% of white women, according to some national estimates. By age 35, that number increases to 60%. Black women are also two to three times more likely to have recurring fibroids or suffer from complications.”
There is definitely a dire need for more education and discussion on this topic to help raise awareness and sensitize our community. So, today, our guest will give us a different perspective on her personal experience with fibroids. Be inspired!
Meet Our Guest :
Our guest for Episode 14 aka “A Different Perspective of Healing from Fibroids” is Mane Ndoping. Mane was Born and raised in Cameroon and came to the US when she was 18. Studied psychology in undergrad 2012. Obtained MSc in Occupational Therapy 2015. She is a health and wellness enthusiast focusing on mental wellness and functional nutrition.
She started a journey of self-healing in 2009, which has morphed through the years leading to the birth of NannezFruitDlight in 2019; a venture that she's passionate about through which she shares her personal journey of healing as well as information for other health challenges from other health and wellness professionals.
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Things You Will Learn in This Episode:
[00:01 – 03:00] Introduction
[03:00 – 30:00] Mane’s Entrepreneurship Journey
[30:00 – 1:00:00] Further Diagnosis & Treatment
[1:00:00 – 1:13:55] Final Words
Tweetable Quotes:
“Some foods that we eat overwork the liver and make it hard for it to eliminate toxins, so it just stays in the body. One thing I learned about fibroids is that people who have fibroids, in most cases, have high estrogen. And the liver helps to excrete the excess. But then if we feed our liver with less optimal food, it's not able to excrete it so it stays in the body, and then it causes [complications].” - Mane Ndoping
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African immigrants have contributed significantly to the growth and diversity of the overall Black population in the United States. As an immigrant, I know how hard it is for someone to come to the United States with nothing but a dream and work hard to see their dreams come to pass.
That's the story of Leslie Asanga who is an entrepreneur creating solutions to some of the enormous problems we faced back home in Africa, Cameroon specifically.
Join us now as we deep dive into his journey as an immigrant and entrepreneur
Meet Our Guest :
Dr. Asanga is a pharmacist and an entrepreneur with 10+ years of healthcare and entrepreneurship experience. He is the founder and CEO of Pills2Me - an on-demand prescription delivery service - which was launched at the start of the COVID-19 pandemic. He is also the co-founder and CEO of UrPharm (an easy way to search, find, and pay for medications in sub-Saharan Africa). He holds a Doctor of Pharmacy (PharmD) degree and an MBA from Roseman University of Health Sciences, Nevada, and a Master of Public Health degree from Yale University. He was the winner of the Thorne Prize at startup Yale - Yale University's annual entrepreneurship award for healthcare innovation. He is an innovator and very passionate about using technology to solve healthcare problems, especially in vulnerable communities.
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Email: [email protected] LinkedIn: Leslie AsangaThings You Will Learn in This Episode:
[00:01 – 03:00] Introduction
[03:00 – 30:00] Leslie’s Entrepreneurship Journey
[30:00 – 1:00:00] Further Diagnosis & Treatment
[1:00:00 – 1:13:55] Final Words
Tweetable Quotes
“Our people have a lot of potentials but just don't explore them. People just boxed themselves into tiny boxes. They say - I'm doing this, I'm staying on this track, but I think there's a whole lot more that we can do if we just decide to explore, and not be afraid to fail.” - Leslie Asanga
“Focus on the positive side of things, but believe that the negative side can happen so have a contingency plan, knowing that, this can happen, but I know the probability of that worst-case scenario happening is low and I know what do in case the worst-case scenario happens. So be positive all the time even when you have a negative fact.” - Leslie Asanga
“What I will say to anyone is that chase your dreams! Right? I know, it's been said 1000 times before but you know, you don't let your guard down. Forget about the failure, forget about everything else and go chase your dreams!” - Leslie Asanga
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As mentioned in episode eight, last year - we got mixed feedback about the series of episodes we did with members of the LGBTQIA+ community to honor Pride Month. But in alignment with the goal of this podcast, not everyone will like every topic we talk about, especially topics that make people uncomfortable. You see, growing up, most of our parents never educated us on sex, relationships, and marriage because they believed that talking about it meant that they were encouraging us to do it. The truth is that as adults, many of us wish we had this education when we were younger. Also, whether they spoke to us about it or not, that didn’t mean sex and/or relationships weren’t still happening behind their backs. Using the same logic as the sex/relationship talk, whether we agree (or not) to educate ourselves about the lgbtqia+ community, or think that acknowledging them means encouraging their “practices” (as some people call it) in our African community, one FACT still remains: the lgbtqia+ community exists in the African community whether we agree or not. They are actually close family and friends and you may not even know it. You don’t have to agree with them or their values, but you should respect them for who they are and how they choose to live their life, just like you will expect to be respected. We can always agree to disagree in love and respect! I learnt a lot from this episode and hope you do too.
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Mr. John Adewoye was born in Kwara State Nigeria and was the last child of the 4 surviving children of his parents.
“Surviving” characterized his life story from his teenage years till he was 40 years old because of my sexual orientation. The struggle was really intense for him throughout his elementary school years where he was nicknamed "obinrin" meaning a girl because of his effeminate behavior. The teenage years were particularly traumatic for him because neither he nor those who bullied me had a name for what set him apart from other boys. No one addressed this issue with him as would have been today; not even his parents.
At age 40, he came to the US in pursuit of conversion therapy, where he came to the realization that he needed no cure but self-acceptance.
As a then-priest, he also got to be aware of the fact that he need to leave the Priesthood to keep his self-acceptance, grow in it and share it. He decided to come out and stay as a visible example for those who may need his evidence in their personal struggles as homosexuals.
Mr. Adewoye has been happily married to his partner Adebayo John Omoworare since 2016. He is happy with his life and desires the same for everyone.
Things You Will Learn in This Episode:
[00:01 – 03:00] Introduction
[03:00 – 30:00] Mr. John Adewoye Shares His Journey
[30:00 – 50:00] Life In America & Activism
[50:00 – 57:34] Final Words
Tweetable Quotes
“When we try to conform to the pressure of the society, it lead to some women to marry the man they weren't really attracted to. It has led some men to marry women who they aren't attracted and that has led to raise suffering of the people we should love.” - Mr. John Adewoye
“So it is our duty, though we may not accept or support - it's our duty to educate ourselves so that we can respect them, because regardless of our beliefs, we must respect them first and foremost, as humans, we must respect one another.” - Anyoh Fombad
“So either gay or straight - the most important thing for me, is whatever I can do for humanity. And that is what I see many people in our LGBT authority trying to do for the community based on their own limited reality” - Mr. John Adewoye
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