Living & Learning with Kedei Eteng

Getting out of an abusive Relationship is not easy, Ending a significant relationship is never easy, and it's alot harder when you have strings(kids) or when you've been isolated from your family and friends, psychologically beaten down, Financially controlled, and physically threatened. But you deserve to live free of fear. And maybe your out there, feeling a little bit confused wether or not to leave. Feeling confused, Uncertain, frightened or maybe even hoping that the situation will change or afraid of how your partner might react if he finds out that you're trying to leave. One moment you desperately want to get away and the next, you want to hang in the a little bit with hopes that he might change. maybe you even blame yourself for the abuse or feel weak and embarrassed because you're stuck inspite of it, Then tune into this conversation. Nuong Faalong shares her experience in an Abusive relationship and strategies on how to come out of it. Don't be trapped by confusion, guilt or even self blame. You deserve to live a free and happy life and you need to put yourself first and protect yourself.

In this Episode, Esther Ehindero shares her Rape Experience as a child at 11 and as an adult. According to her Many people have one rape experience but she has two. She shared How the Experience Shaped Her, how she found Healing and how she intends to help other Rape victims come out of it.I have never met someone this brave before.....

Lagos Living is a conversation between myself and my Guest CJay, who shared his experience living and working in Lagos. And how he battled with depression and suicidal thoughts. He realized he didn't have a balanced Life, He tried incorporating some fun activities to his schedule, but work gave him a reality check for even attempting it. He was tired of living a robotic lifestyle, working tirelessly, closing very late from work, getting home very late to have just a few hours of sleep. For the sake of his sanity he had to do something. and that was when he considered the idea of relocating out of the country.

In this Episode I open up about how difficult it's been for me opening up to God again. I talked about what happened at my most vulnerable state. with the Hopes that I get clarity from the People who've been through similar. And just incase you're out there, once fired up for God and now you don't even understand your faith anymore, or you've ever had to Question your Faith or have doubts about God, and you are afraid to return back, the Goodnews is even in our doubts, confusion, frustrations and anger, He is still with us and He's not mad at us. And he understands where our emotions are coming from.

What's your score on the self esteem-o-meter? From 1 - 10, below or above 5? Has it affected your work, relationships and mental health? Join me in this heart to heart talk with Guest: Ogechi Anarah

in this Episode I share the insecurities I had growing up as a little girl and into my adult life that almost shifted my soul. How the narratives that I created in my head had me incapacitated for so long. Everything that is wrong with anybody stems from their childhood and experiences gathered those years can either make you, or break you.

welcome to the pilot of living and learning. get ready to hear relatable experiences and find comfort in learning that what you're struggling with isn't peculiar to you alonewelcome to the Living and Learning with Kedei Eteng pilot