When you say, "I want this thing to happen that hasn't happened yet," you're not only activating the vibration of your desire, but you're also activating a vibration of the absence of your desire--so nothing changes for you.
But when you say, "Wouldn't it be nice if this desire would come to me?" you achieve a different sort of expectation that is much less resistant in nature.
Today we teach the Wouldn't It Be Nice If... Process to help you let in the things that you have been asking for, on all subjects.