Logical Love

You got tricked into being the nice guy that women rarely fuck and never respect.

I’m not sorry.

I know the culture (media?) is telling you that feelings are facts, women can fuck like men and men can cry like women— but it’s a lie. And you’re being tricked.

You’re at least 200 lbs and about 6 ft tall, you weren’t in an abusive relationship with her— you’re in a an abusive relationship with yourself.

If you fell for a bunch of “I don’t want anything serious” situationships— but then feel like men were deceiving by ghosting after they fuck you in 3 dates.

You got tricked, I’m not sorry.

Now that I caught your attention - ponder - would you want me to feel sorry for you or to help you? Because I plan to help, not to say sorry, a prayer, and send you home. Now sometimes, uncomfortable things are the most valuable, but also the harder ones to listen to.

In this episode we discuss one of the most common confusions in our search for love: the difference between The-Brain and The-Name. Review the podcast or let me know what you think on Instagram @LoveLogician

When talking about love, sometimes I can say “I love you” but mean it in that lustful, hormonally evolved way. This is The-Brain urging along this ancient act of our ancestors: make babies. I did this when I was 16 and loved a women, who was still a girl I didn’t know. The-Brain wants short-term hedonistic pleasures now, with little regard about what consequences that will have in the future. However, there’s also something in me that wants more than pleasure.

This is what I call “The-Name”, and it’s the part of the “I” we can grow with thoughts like “I am a vegan”, “I am committed to x” or “I am a Christian”, “I’m yours” and “I love you.” The-name is like the words you type into the ancient search engine of The-Brain. Just as creatures repeat actions to habit, Humans can repeat thoughts to habits. Habits then become an individual beings destiny.

We can change The-Name by choice, by changing our habits, adjusting to what we’ve learned. We cannot change The-Brain — it will always be there playing in the background — however we can choose to act (or not act) on it, to feed it or soothe it. Even though I’m sharing these concepts here with you, trying to define The-Name or The-Brain, is like trying to peel an onion to find a center seed - you’ll end up in tears with empty onion-smelly hands. There is I believe, value in exploring The-Name and contemplating the existence of The-Brain so we can best choose our own individual path.

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During my interactions on social media and in person, at times I am labelled as “sexist”. Admittedly it is easier to get my point across during a conversation at a park than it is by typing comments on social media.

I don’t think I am sexist, I am trying to be true, rather than sell a convenient lie (and one that does sell!). A coach that fathers would love for their daughters to have, but f*ckboys (and some women) will hate.

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In this episode I share a personal story about my experience with hookups, heartbreaks and the myth of safe sex.

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Porn is a business thriving off of pandering to men’s sexual desires. Like hunger, these desires aren’t bad because they are natural, but they can be done badly— usually by way of doing them unnaturally.

In this episode we discuss the exploitation of women through the lens of modern dating.

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“The only thing I know is that I know nothing, and I’m not sure I know that.” Socrates

Look around the world today and you’ll see a certain spiritual sickness. It corrodes mental health, physical health and, the focus of this article — love.

What we see now, many of our wisest spiritual leaders have seen before.

Buddha, Socrates, Jesus and Muhammad are known around the world to be some of the wisest spiritual minds the world has ever grown.

But none of them wrote books, sold courses or offered retreats. By all accounts, they saw a suffering world of humans and wanted to help— and began an honest pursuit to the aim.

While we use logic to improve almost every aspect of our lives, when it comes to love it’s like we are somehow afraid that if we use logic we will destroy the mystery. But that’s not what using logic, or sound science does.

We have made amazing progress in almost every part of our lives by applying sound logic based on first premises supported by quality data.

In this episode we explore how logic can empower your love life, the difference between being able to make a life with someone and make love with someone and much more.

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In this chat, Lucius tells us his views on sex, dating, and recounts past experiences that made him realize that sex is a magic exchange of energies - and for that should be respected as such. If you like this, you'll probably like the others this we do, follow me on ig @lovelogician for more.