Loneliness is silently destroying leaders—and destroying teams. In this Spartan Leadership episode, Josh Kosnick sits down with Shasta Nelson, top keynote speaker and author of The Business of Friendship and Frientimacy, to uncover why connection is not a luxury for leaders—it’s a leadership advantage.

Shasta breaks down her “Connection Triangle” (positivity, consistency, vulnerability), explains why so many high achievers neglect relationships, and challenges the myth that it has to be “lonely at the top.” We also explore the difference between happiness and joy, how to build meaningful connection without crossing boundaries, and why learning to navigate relationships will transform your leadership, your company, and your life.

Shasta will be joining us live at Bridge Builder Live in Madison, WI, on August 7th, where she will help leaders develop the relationships that drive clarity, health, and high performance.

Join us: https://joshkosnick.com/bridgebuilderlive

Follow Shasta:
Website: https://www.shastanelson.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shastanelson/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shastamnelson/

If you’re ready to lead with deeper connection, tune in now.

It can be lonely being a leader, but it doesn't have to be! Having a strong support network and focusing on leadership skillscan make challenges seem less daunting. Prioritize personal growth and social connections to foster team building and avoid isolation.

If you need connection as a leader, visit joshkosnick.com to learn how to become a part of the community of leaders we are building!

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:00:04 - The Importance of Connection in Leadership
00:00:54 - Announcement of Bridge Builder Live 2025
00:02:39 - Introduction to the Interview with Shasta Nelson
00:03:00 - Shasta Nelson's Journey to Becoming a Leading Voice in Connection
00:03:46 - Shasta's Transition from War Correspondent to Pastor to Speaker
00:03:59 - The Role of a Pastor in Shaping Shasta's Speaking Career
00:08:36 - The Importance of Community in Church
00:09:24 - How to Break into the World of Speaking
00:12:42 - The Importance of Building a Brand and Credibility
00:13:34 - The Impact of Relationships on Business and Teams
00:15:58 - The Role of Relationships in Happiness
00:18:04 - The Difference Between Joy and Happiness
00:21:13 - The Connection Triangle and Its Importance in Leadership
00:25:13 - Loneliness in Leadership and Its Consequences
00:30:47 -

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