Losers With A Dream

This week, the Losers discuss their FINAL topic: Happy Endings. It’s absolutely crucial to leave a job or a relationship - or even a podcast - before you resent it. This week, the Losers take their own advice and leave while everyone is still friends and the show is the quality you all deserve! Thank you, listeners, for making the past year simply amazing!!

This week, the Losers talk about the concept of celebrating our failures. On the surface, this seems like a contradiction of terms since failure has such a negative connotation. However, what if we started looking at the things we fail at as meant-to-be building blocks to what we’re actually supposed to do next? Seems like a better way to live and a more positive way to go through life. Listen to this week’s episode to find out how to spin your defeats into dividends.

This week, the Losers discuss the concept of Regret. Living with our past mistakes and the pain of things we did or didn’t try can make us wistful and even depressed. But is it possible that regret is actually a GOOD thing? Can it help us live better lives right now? And can the philosophy, “No regrets!,” be unhealthy and even damaging? Check out this week’s episode to find out. (We’d say “you won’t regret it!” but who knows? You just might!)

This week, the Losers discuss the concept of Delusion. We’ve all had moments when we’ve thought we were better or worse than we actually are, but when do relatively normal delusional thoughts tip over into an all-out condition? Whether it’s thinking you’re homely when you’re not (like Nick) or you’re convinced that selling out Madison Square Garden is in your future (like Beau), these thoughts all comes from the same place. How can delusion help, and how can it hurt? Listen and find out!

This week, the Losers discuss taking one step forward and two steps back. Whether it’s a promise we make to ourselves about meaningless sex, alcohol or White Castle cheeseburgers, every little step ahead seems to come with a side order of regression. Even though we’d like to believe we’ll never slide back into our old ways, sometimes the loving embrace of our vices is impossible to resist. But fear not! As the old adage goes: it’s about progress NOT perfection. And a little bit of self-forgiveness goes a long, long way.

In this special episode taped back in December 2021, the Losers discuss their very recent - and distant past - breakups and heartbreaks. All three of us have had our share of relationships that came to timely or untimely ends. So, this week, we finally put it all out on the table and ponder if the lessons learned are worth the loss.

This week, the Losers discuss adult bullying. We’re not talking about childhood playground bullying - we’re talking about the mean jabs we throw at loved ones and friends, and then play off as “just a joke.” We’ve all bullied as adults and we’ve all been on the receiving end of bullying and hurtful comments. Why do we do this as grown-ups - especially to the people we are closest to? And why should we stop? Listen to this episode - or we’ll see you a recess, bitch!

This week, the Losers discuss abstinence. Sex can be a huge distraction in our lives. It can keep us from achieving our goals if we let sexual desire run rampant. Have you ever felt that sex was running your life? Is sex not that big a deal to you? Either way, listen and learn now to keep it in your pants.

This week, the Losers discuss the concept of apologizing. Making amends and saying you’re in the wrong can be one humbling experience! Swallowing your pride and apologizing takes courage, but sometimes it’s the last thing we’re willing to do. Have you ever apologized without really meaning it? Does the idea of having to make amends freak you out? And when is it actually WRONG to apologize? Listen to this week’s episode and find out!