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We dive into the stressful process of college admissions and college applications. From finding the right fit for your child to navigating the ever-changing landscape of applying to college, could AI help in college selection? We cover it all with Allison Baer. As one of the top college admission consultants around, she shares her insights and advice on how to make the most of this journey. Hang in there, people, because we made it through, and so can you! Don't miss this informative and entertaining conversation.

College Prep Topics:
00:01:04  Paperwork
00:04:17 College application process is convoluted.
00:16:00 Consider genuine interests for college.
00:17:37 Focus on quality, not quantity.
00:25:21 Consider cost and be open-minded.
00:27:19 Schools moving away from ED due to discrimination.
00:33:47 Demonstrated interest can be strategic.
00:40:17 Customized help improves college admissions.
00:47:51 Testing becoming less important.
00:49:10 Testing may become obsolete.
00:57:37 Importance of college experience.

College Prep Links
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https://www.mamabearlegalforms.com

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The Complexity of Grief and Happiness: A Conversation

• Life is Suffering
• Old photos give new perspectives
• What not to say to Rachel when she's upset
• Grief, Anger, and Toxic Positivity

TV Show Recommendations

• The Serpent Queen
• Women in Blue

Have you ever wondered why the phrase "everything happens for a reason" can be infuriating? Join us as we navigate the emotional landscape of loss and suffering, sharing heartfelt anecdotes and insights about the profound impact of losing loved ones, especially parents. We reflect on how these experiences shape us as adults, often in ways we don’t realize until we stumble upon an old journal entry or cherished photograph that takes us back in time.

Expressing condolences without sounding generic is a challenge many of us face, and we don't shy away from discussing the complexities of grief and anger. In our conversation, we highlight societal pressures like "toxic positivity," and the isolation that can come with mourning. With personal stories that illu
strate our points, we emphasize the importance of thoughtful empathy and understanding when supporting those who are grieving. We also recommend Kate Bowler's podcast "Everything Happens," which critiques the notion that everything happens for a reason and explores the randomness of life’s hardships.

To round out our episode, we take a nostalgic journey through old photographs, discussing the evolving stories we tell ourselves about the past. We also dive into the portrayal of misogyny and gender dynamics in true crime TV shows, reflecting on how these themes shape our understanding of history and society. Rachel and I share our recommendations for compelling shows and remind you to be present in pictures for future generations. Don't forget to follow us on social media and share this episode with friends and family who might need a dose of heartfelt conversation and honest reflection.

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"When they gave me this news, it was, you know, why me? Why, why, why? "
Hear the inspiring story of Angel Abrego Gris's road to donating his kidney to his son.

🏡 Angel's Journey: From Mexico City to Montclair, NJ. 

 👨‍👩‍👦 A Father's Love: Angel shares the story of his son Emilio, who was born with kidney disease, and how he became his son's kidney donor.

🏃‍♂️ Staying Positive: Hear how Angel turned to running, swimming, and triathlons to stay positive and healthy while waiting to become a donor. 

💪 Community Support: Angel talks about the incredible support from the Montclair community, friends, and even strangers who helped them through tough times. 

🌟 Life After Transplant: Learn about Emilio's life post-surgery and how he's thriving as a normal teenager. 

💬 Words of Wisdom: Angel shares advice for families facing similar challenges. 

You don't want to miss an opportunity to learn about Angel and his family. 

Let's get Lost!

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Meet Jon Krieger an entrepreneur and restauranteur! We discuss his newest ventures including Spring House in Tenafly and Padel United Sports Club in Cresskill. 

• Jon's Origin Story: From growing up on the Upper East Side to his winding road to Tenafly, New Jersey, Jon shares his path and how he planted roots in the Garden State.
• Spring House: Discover the story behind Spring House, a beautiful multi-restaurant venue in Tenafly. His team transformed the old house into a top-tier dining and community space.
• Business Insights: Jon opens up about his business philosophy, the importance of community, and how he balances multiple projects simultaneously.
• Failures and Successes: Hear about his early failures, including a partnership with a con artist, and how these experiences shaped his approach to entrepreneurship.
• Future Ventures: Get a sneak peek into Jon's upcoming projects, including a padel tennis facility, a digital therapeutic, and more.

Jon Krieger's story is not just about business; it's about resilience, community, and the pursuit of excellence. Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur, a foodie, or someone interested in running a business this episode has something for you.

Spring House
Padel United Sports Club

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Find out how much this 100-year-old organization does. We were surprise. Their mission statement is eliminating racism and empowering women.  We spoke with Helen Archontou, CEO of YWCA Northern New Jersey, who is building programs to do just that.

Don't sing that other song in your head, instead help us come up with a song for the YWCA! In this episode, you will learn about:

• YWCA's Mission and Programs: Helen elaborates on the YWCA's mission of "eliminating racism, empowering women," highlighting various programs such as childcare, senior wellness initiatives, and support for women re-entering the workforce.
• Challenges and Advocacy: We discuss the challenges moms face, the importance of voting based on your values, and the YWCA's advocacy and policy work for gender and racial equity. 
• Volunteering and Community Involvement: Helen encourages listeners to get involved with the YWCA, emphasizing the importance of community support and the many different ways individuals can contribute to the organization's mission.

YWCA Northern New Jersey

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Miles Davis, Stevie Wonder, Chaka Khan, Jaco, Max Roach... legends  hung out at her club in the village. Tune in to meet the forever-cool Kate Greenfield. 

Kate Greenfield shares her behind-the-scenes stories of co-owning the legendary Seventh Avenue South jazz club in the Village of New York City with the famous Brecker Brothers. 

Turning the chapter, we learn how she went on to get her Master's and use all her experiences to help guide teens. 

Her warmth, love for people, and passion for caring shine through her story. 
Kate's story is a blend of music, food, and education.

Tune in to hear about her unique path and the impact she has had on those around her.

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Meet the impressive woman behind The Local Girl® media success, Jennifer Tripucka. Tune in and take away some valued tips listeners will be excited to learn about 3 key things:

1. Founder's Journey:  She shares her evolution from Hoboken Girl to expanding her online presence with various locations and sites in New Jersey.
2. Media Mogul Tips: Get insider tips on content creation, brand building, SEO, traffic growth, community building, and unique ways to monetize from Jennifer's course "Becoming the Local Girl."
3. Personal Stories: Hear about Jennifer's experiences with animal rescue, heart health, and her new idea, the Rainbow Bridge Project.

Listeners can expect an engaging and informative discussion that highlights Jennifer's journey, expertise, and commitment to empowering local businesses and communities in New Jersey.

The Local Girl
The Montclair Girl
Hoboken Girl
Jennifer Tripucka

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Have you ever experienced the emotional rollercoaster of sending your child off to college? For Rachel and me, Janette, that momentous milestone came with a whirlwind of emotions, from meticulous dorm preparations to chaotic last-minute packing. We'll take you back to our personal journeys from a year ago, sharing the raw feelings and surprises—like my son's unexpected transfer back home. This episode aims to support and connect parents navigating this unpredictable life event, touching on the pride, sadness, and hope that comes with watching your child step into a new chapter.

As we recount the heartfelt moments of saying goodbye over dinners and breakfasts, you’ll find solace in knowing you're not alone in facing these bittersweet transitions. Shifting family dynamics and sibling bonds are part of the new normal, and we offer practical advice on managing expectations around communication with your college-bound children. Our stories underline the universal nature of this experience, highlighting the delicate balance between nurturing their independence and keeping the family connection strong.

Lastly, we tackle the empty nest syndrome with a blend of humor and real talk. Imagine "parent rehab" as a lighthearted yet poignant way to address our struggles of letting go. From anthropomorphizing animal behavior to shared experiences of dropping kids off at college, we explore the emotional challenges parents face as their children grow up. Stay tuned for our ongoing saga of trying to get Milo to text his mom and catch a glimpse of our upcoming interviews that promise to entertain and support you through this life-altering journey. Produced by Rachel Martens and Jeanette of Sharian, don’t forget to follow us on social media and share your thoughts!

#parenting #college #offtocollge #freshman

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The top 100 books of the 21st Century! Wait, is that clickbait, New York Times? Why yes, yes it is, and we clicked on it. You say the words "100" and "century" and then we click and see it's all recent books and then realize - HOLD UP! They meant the BEST books since the ye old year of 2001?
Oh.
That's a bit anti-climactic.
But we're here for it. And we share what books from this list stayed with us long after we closed the back cover (or hit stop on the audiobook). Plus Rachel throws in a book that's not on the list. You know why? Because she can!
Are you one of the million fans of Elena Ferrante? Then go get Lies and Sorcery by Elsa Morante translated by Jenny McPhee.

New York Times Best Books of the 21st Century
New York Times Readers Best Books of the 21st Century

Some of the books mentioned are:
Demon Copperhead by Barbara Kingsolver
Lincoln in the Bardo by George Saunders
Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind by Yuval Noah Harari  

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Scott Moore has followed his curiosity and passion. From making a bold call to land an internship at MTV, to producing influential music documentaries at VH1, to an amazing career as a musician, Scott's journey is a magical mystery ride. His honest discussion about his family's history is heartwarming and inspiring. 

Join us to discover Scott's story and the depth and beauty of his life's journey in Jersey and that little city right near us (NYC).

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