Did you ever collect anything growing up? Chances are you did. Collecting things is oddly a human nature. We collect all kinds of things as humans that may not make sense. Some people collect stamps, cards, guns, shirts, shoes, dolls, even listens of the lost minds podcast... Maybe not so much the last thing but I am sure you collected something. Either you collected items or memories and both may be more valuable to you now than you realize. The real key though is to know what things to hang on to and which ones to cut loose, items or even memories.

Fall is starting to turn to winter and 2020 as we know it is winding down, or up depending how you look at it. Many things have changed in this year and so have you. Now is the time though, how will you change from now on? What things are you doing now that will become your new normal? Have you switched up your diet and started working out? Or are you getting more paranoid of the outside world and consumed with news? No way is the right way but there are ways better than others, which is for you???

In life with the things we do we have a million and one options. When we go buy a coffee we can pay and leave nicely or you can grab the coffee to just run out the door. You could even not go buy coffee and stay home and make your own.. With all our choices and decisions we have to make in life, how do we know we are making the right ones? When do you try to play nice and restart and when do you just say screw it, ejecto seato time???

You may have heard of the saying, not one size shoe fits all. It is a saying because it is the truth. We as humans come in all shapes and sizes and we don not fit all. The same goes for the way we learn or even the way we get care. What works for you may not work for me so why do we get treated as such? How do we know we are getting the right stuff for us? What is even the right thing for us? Did I leave the stove on?

Things are a little different from the times back when your grandparents were kids. The world has definitely changed in more ways than one. One thing that hasn't changed is us arguing about the things we are changing. Sometime we even argue and changing thing back and forth or back to right where it started. We always seem to be going back and forth as a species but one thing we can agree to, is the ability to disagree. Or is it disagree to agree?

There will come a time in our lives were we will have the chance, the chance to take things to another level. It may be in the next stages of life, maybe entering a new endever, maybe even when ordering your next meal. We are filled with options and we are filled with options to take things to the next level. What in life do you want to upgrade? What should or shouldn't be taken to another level?

Your mind is a powerful tool. It can make feel great with the things you do in one moment and terrible with them in the next. You can be feeling the highest high and the next feeling the lowest lows. With a positive mindset you can achieve anything they say and if you have a negative mind set you are negative Nacey and well then, no one likes you. The minds is something we must all master. Our minds can do anything we tell them too, but I am sure you already knew that.

Do you ever feel like a plastic bag, drifting through the wind, wanting to start again? Maybe you are victim of the herd, part of that herd mentality? We see other people do so, so now we can do it? Someone else has something cool, I think I will get one? More times than not we are creators of habit but what habit that is may be based on the ones around you...

Do you ever wonder about the things you have done to get you the place you have been? What about the stuff you haven't done that would put you in the places you would like to be? On top of all that, how much of that stuff was actually just luck? It often times more complicated than we thing but sometimes it is surprising how deep the rabbit hole can go...

Things in 2020 are a lot different now then they were in 1920, hell they are different from entering Y2K. It seems like in a few short years the technology advances and we as a species move right along with it, one step close to the next level up. With the rapid changing technology we too are changing along with it. Tech makes our lives so much better in the long run most likely but how much of our lives is being influenced by technology? Does the technology make us love it? Are we blinded by our love for shiny things? What do we really love?