A true love story is not a fairy tale. For Realz. It takes vulnerability and effort to be in a relationship. And what if the goal of conflict is not to win, but it is a way in which to get to know your partner better and develop deeper intimacy?
Together we read the book, 8 Dates by John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman. Let’s be real, long term commitment is hard and it takes effort. And in this book, Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman, draw upon forty years of research from their famous Love Lab, inviting couples on fun and rewarding dates, exploring eight topics that matter the most in relationships- including trust, conflict, sex, money, family, adventure, spirituality, and dreams. And Dr. Clarke and I discuss these essential conversations!