I had a completely different idea for what Episode 3 was going to be about but, when some particular feedback came in on my first episode from my lovely sister, I knew I needed to talk about that first and foremost.
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Without giving it all away, because I explain it in the this bitesize episode, my sister called me out. And I’m not mad about it!
She called me out
And before you all jump to my defence, I totally agree with what she said. Here’s the cliff notes:
* In amongst the awesome words of praise, she pointed out that she could tell I was reading from a script.
* And the bombshell was when she reminded me that I talk about how imperfection and being unpolished is totally ok in my brand ALL. THE. TIME.
She got me and I’m so pleased she did. Because this entire episode was just me talking (based on some bullet points I gave myself) and it turns out that I can do it!
The messages we tell ourselves
I had written a script for my first two episodes because I firmly believed I couldn’t “adlib” my way through an episode. I’ve had hang ups about my ability to speak publicly for a long time and I’m sure that’s had a part to play in my thoughts about speaking off the cuff in something like a podcast.
Ironically, I co-host a podcast with my lovely friend, Carla (the Creative Reboot podcast, check it out!) and there are definitely no scripts going on over there. And I’ve guested on many podcasts over the last few years (here’s my playlist!) all, again, with no scripts in sight. So, why on earth did I think I needed a script for my own little podcast?
Even more ironically, all this from the person who was known as Little Miss Chatterbox as a kid. I’m really unsure about why I thought I couldn’t speak for 10 minutes.
Lesson learned.
So, what are you doing in your business or brand that you need to be called out on? Drop me an email and I’ll gladly call you out (gently!). My email is [email protected].
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