After a breakup, it can be hard to get back into the mindset of letting go and allowing yourself to heal. You want to reach out to your ex, plead your case, and try to make them understand how you feel. But this approach is ineffective. As a relationship coach, I’m here to tell you that the most powerful way to reset the balance of power in this situation is through silence. Focus on detaching and getting control over your emotions again - let them realize on their own that they still care and miss you. By taking a step back, you will shine by your absence!