Love And Legacy

By Maria RomanoSociety & Culture Relationships

Love And Legacy episodes

December 31, 202168 What are your goals for 2022?
As we say our goodbyes to the previous year, we embrace the new year with open arms and the burning hope that this will be the year we have been waiting for. Maria Romano discusses why you should take advantage of the opportunities that the new year provides in our life in this episode of True Love Knots.
Standout Quotes:
“Your word has to be your word; it has to be valid. It has to be gospel; it has to be like the Bible.” [Maria]

“Don't allow the people in your life even if they love you, they could be family. But they might tell you Well, now's not the time to branch out. Now's not the time that people are spending money.” [Maria]

“Nothing is ever going to be perfect. Nothing. And if you waiting for that perfect time, you're gonna be waiting a long time my friend.” [Maria]

“Don't hold yourself back, make 2022 The best year ever. Start moving forward, put down what your goals are, write them down, put them into action. Say them out loud. And when you do, and you start moving forward, you're gonna thank yourself, you're gonna reap the rewards because you don't know till you try.” [Maria]

“It's important that you become the best version of you by finding your passion and purpose because the world needs more people like you.” [Maria]
Key Takeaways:
When you take the time to write your goals down, they become a reality. It's something that jumps out at you, and you have to speak them aloud. Additionally, these goals should be shared with others. What does that accomplish? This places you in a situation where you feel a sense of obligation to deliver.

At times, we self-sabotage. And we believe I am incapable of doing so due to my ignorance. Fortunately, there are many courses and YouTube videos available to teach you how to accomplish anything. Therefore, avoid allowing self-sabotage to get in the way.

More people like you, motivated by a sense of purpose and enthusiasm, are needed in the world. And by not sharing it, you're doing the world a disservice. Perhaps you have a fantastic service, something you want to create, develop, or give, but the rest of the world will be oblivious of it. Do you think there aren't any other people like me? There is only one of you in the entire universe.
Episode Timeline:
[00:02] Meet today’s host “Maria Romano,” from True Love Knots
[01:29] The Book “The Four Agreements” by Don Miguel Ruiz
[02:07] The Dangers of Self Sabotage
[03:57] Know your passion and purpose

Learn more about Maria Romano and the True Love Knots at:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-romano-tlk/
Website: https://trueloveknots.com/
8 min
December 28, 2021 67 Do you have a dating plan for 2022?
What is your game plan for getting back into the dating world? Welcome to True Love Knots with Maria Romano. Today, we are going to talk about your roadmap to finding love. Stay tuned as Maria shares his tips for revamping your dating plan for 2022!
Standout Quotes:
Write down what your deal breakers are. The reason that you write this down is because when you do so, it takes on a life. Those words will jump at you and you're going to read them out loud. You're going to be accountable to yourself when you get out there in the dating world.
Prince or princess charming is not going to knock on your door. You have to get out there and you need to take the first step. Don't think anybody else out there is going to be a matchmaker for you. You need to be your own matchmaker.
You want to be authentic. You want to write down that you're looking for somebody. You're looking for somebody that you want a long term relationship. It doesn't necessarily have to mean marriage, but somebody that you want to be committed to
Key Takeaways:
It’s important to write down your deal breakers when finding a date. Writing them down takes a life of their own and makes you accountable to what you want in finding a partner. You will have a standard in finding who will work for you.
Don’t just wait for your future partner to come knocking on your door. You have to take action. Get yourself out there and expose yourself. You will eventually find that perfect person when you are actionable.
Be authentic when finding a date. Write down your what you are looking for. Remember that the goal is for a long term relationship.
Episode Timeline:
[01:37] Write down and assess what you want from a Relationship
[02:19] Write down what your Deal Breakers are
[03:44] Find a dating site that is going to work for you
[07:09] Get out there
[10:12] What are your Goals in your Dating Life?

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13 min
December 27, 202166 5 relationship reboots
Welcome to True Love Knots with Maria Romano! Today, we are going to talk about how to reboot and refresh your relationship in going forward to 2022. You might be in a long term relationship and you kind of need a little refresher. So maybe you've been married for many years and it's getting a little boring. You're just thinking, “What can you do to reboot or enhance your relationship?” There are a couple of things that you can do and Maria is will share them with you today!
Standout Quotes:
Make sure that you are always investing in your relationship. Make sure that you and your partner are having conversations. That's very important because that's the foundation. Relationships are not like a one size fits all.

You are a team. There is a no “I” in “TEAM.” What happens is that we do things separately. We might go out with our friends, we might play golf or poker and before you know it, we're like two ships passing in the night because you both have busy schedules. So do things together.

It's nice to have a partner. It's great to have a partner in your life. Somebody that you can reach out to somebody that you can share your hopes and your dreams. It's somebody that's there with you when you're going through challenges. Life is so much better when there are two of you.
Key Takeaways:
When we are in a relationship, we feel like we know it all. We feel that we know all about our partner. But it's important to invest in your relationship and have that communication in place.

Talk about interaction. So find something that you both like to do because you're a team. Go back and reassess sometimes where one of you might need some additional help maybe in your work or around the house. That's a big part of team effort.

Life is better when you have a partner that you can count on. It’s great to have somebody that you can reach out whenever you need help or just somebody to share things. They will help you get through hardships and challenges in life.
Episode Timeline:
[00:47] Today’s Conversation
[01:55] Invest in your Relationship
[03:33] Invest in yourself
[05:55] Determine and Reassess what you both want in life and love
[07:48] Think about your goals that you want for yourself professionally
[09:55] You and your partner are a Team
[11:48] Review Everything about your Relationship
Resources
5 Languages of Love
Website: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/learn
Book: https://www.amazon.com/Love-Languages-Secret-that-Lasts/dp/080241270X
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15 min
December 23, 202165 Dating don't assume
Joining this episode of the True Love Knots is the most sought out wedding officiant, Maria Romano. Maria Romano is the founder of True Love Knots, a program she created specifically to help those looking for love later in life. Today, Maria underlines the significance of not having preconceived notions about someone you're dating before getting to know them.
Standout Quotes:
“You are on your 50s 60s and 70s and beyond and you're back in the dating world and it's different, it's definitely a little different than it was many years ago. And especially if you were in a long-term relationship, and now to be thrust into the dating world.” [Maria]

“Sometimes we assume something about somebody, and we don't give them a chance. Don't always assume, give somebody at least an hour and a half of your time. And the three-date rule at least three dates.” [Maria]
Key Takeaways:
Just because someone isn't traveling at this time in their life doesn't imply they won't later or that you can't have a connection with someone and travel when necessary. When we make assumptions, this is what happens. And what we're doing is shortchanging ourselves; you're shortchanging yourself, not anyone else, by not giving that person the opportunity to see if they're compatible.

Certain habits are unchangeable. Maria is not a fan of smokers. That's just something she cares about, and it's one of her core principles. Many of her customers share this sentiment, as well as the desire to eat healthily. It's also vital to eat healthily, but that doesn't mean you can't enjoy yourself during the holidays.

You'll be shocked to learn that if you give someone a second or third chance to get to know them, and they get to know you, you could end up in a long-term relationship.

Episode Timeline:
[00:02] Meet today's host "Maria Romano," from True Love Knots
[01:12] Maria Romano's Free Dating Kit Starter Profile
[02:39] Don't always assume when dating
[04:34] Unchangeable Habits
[06:24] Give Someone a Chance
[06:54] The idea of procreation

Learn more about Maria Romano and the True Love Knots at:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-romano-tlk/
Website: https://trueloveknots.com/
10 min
December 22, 202164 Marriage is Every Relationship's Final Goal with Evan Money
Getting married is simple, but maintaining the integrity of marriage is more complicated. How can someone stay in love with their better half while divorce rates are at an all-time high? Do couples have a chance with all the obstacles that married life throws at them? Join Evan Money as he gives some of his best advice for reclaiming control of your marriage and reviving your relationship for a happy married life.
Standout Quotes:
“I didn't know there was anything else. Growing up in my 20s and 30s was life sucks. And then you die. That was kind of the thing and, I was like, I'm not buying into that. I'm not doing that.” [Evan]

“What I thought was a burden, what I thought what was wrong with me was a gift, and that's being a visionary.” [Evan]

“It's not about the destination. And it's not about the details. But really, it's about the dedication and the devotion that we have to each other.” [Evan]

“It's such a paradigm shift for women because once you get past this first one, then it's like, oh, there are zero rules. And so the creatives, the artsy, the creative people latch on to this.” [Evan]
Key Takeaways:
This cycle of pain and difficulty can end now. It is feasible. Evan comes from a regular chaotic family. So they both come from complex households. Evan saw three options in relationships: married and miserable (his parents and even TV shows exemplified this). Then you met other married men who only talked about their miserable lives. Divorce and misery go hand in hand.

Evan and his wife both walked out with a spear in hand, looking for their happily ever after. People teased them when they discovered they watched too many Disney movies, but they persisted. They know what's out there, and they're dead set on finding it. They discovered that happily ever after wasn't a place to be found. Instead, it was a place he and his wife built together via their deeds and attitudes.

Evan and Susan hired friends to officiate their weddings because it builds a special bond between the couple and their friend. It strengthens the bonds between friends. These friends also give them advice on wedding vows, and Evan felt more convicted after reading the prepared commitment.
Episode Timeline:
[00:02] Meet today's host "Evan Money," Author and Global Entrepreneur.
[02:12] The Three Options in a Relationship
[05:17] Rediscovering Happiness in Married Life
[06:41] Rekindling Married Life
[12:10] The "evanlovesusan.com" website
[13:45] The Written Vow
[15:15] The Bikini Wedding
[19:04] The Black Sheep of the Family
[22:44] The Self Diagnosed ADD Visionary
[25:20] Rebooting the relationship: Investing in yourself
[28:45] Nuggets of Wisdom

Learn more about Maria Romano and the True Love Knots at:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-romano-tlk/
Website: https://trueloveknots.com/

Learn more about Evan Money:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/evan-money-25508519/
Website: http://www.evanmoneylive.com/ | https://evanlovessusan.com/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/EvanMoney
34 min
November 23, 202163 Officiant Jitters
Being a new officiant has certain disadvantages. You'll have wedding jitters just like the couples because you'll be worried that you'll spoil the great moment. In this episode of True Love Knots, Maria Romano provides some helpful coping strategies for anxiety and stage frights that you may employ to ensure a smooth sailing wedding.
Standout Quotes:
"We all know that sometimes getting up and speaking in front of people can be quite scary. Public speaking, for most, is worse right than flying in an airplane. It's like the top five." [Maria]

"Look over your script and make sure you have the couple's names properly inserted, especially if you're using the same template, but you're changing out the names, make sure you change out the names everywhere." [Maria]

"If you have a scent that you like, as one of my favorite scents is lavender. And I have a little vial that you roll on the lavender. And I will put it in the palms of my hands. And I'll sniff it. And that will usually calm the whole sensory system, my nervous system." [Maria]

"What you need to do is just make sure that you provide the couple with the ultimate experience." [Maria]
Key Takeaways:
Before you get up and speak, pull out your iPhone, record yourself, prop it up, videotape yourself, and then listen back. Make sure you read and rehearse whatever script you're using multiple times. It will give you a better understanding of how you sound when modulating.

Take a long, deep breath. Take a deep breath, not only a deep breath into your chest. Inhale down to your belly button and hold for four seconds before exhaling through your mouth. Do that five times, then walk away and do it again. That will make a world of difference.

You can do some warm-up exercises for your voice to ensure that it is well-rounded and has a lot of texture. You want to make sure you're not monotone, that you're not just reading; you want to provide consistency and volume; Warm-up with some exercises. Look up some vocal warm-up exercises on the internet. Many singers do the same thing. It's better to do this first thing in the morning.
Episode Timeline:
[00:03] Meet today's host "Maria Romano," from True Love Knots
[01:45] Practice Several Times
[03:06] Breathing Exercise
[04:14] Warmup Exercises
Learn more about Maria Romano and the True Love Knots at:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-romano-tlk/
Website: https://trueloveknots.com/
9 min
November 21, 202162 Are looking to be rescued or are you looking to rescue someone?
Joining this episode of the True Love Knots is the most sought out wedding officiant, Maria Romano.
Maria Romano is the founder of True Love Knots, a program she created specifically to help those looking for love later in life. An ordained minister and highly sought-after professional speaker, she has performed over 3000 marriages. Today, Maria explains how to know if you are looking to be rescued or rescue someone from a bad relationship and how it’s not an ideal place to build one.
Standout Quotes:
“It's important to examine why you choose certain relationships, depending upon your past experiences.” [Maria]

“You might be the type of person that you only want to meet somebody that you can fix that you can take care of. Because you feel Why else would I be in their life? [Maria]
Key Takeaways:
Maybe you broke up with someone you'd known for a long time. And if you're at a stage in your life when you need someone to nurture and care for you, that'd be terrific. But then, when those emotional needs are met, and you have the person who saved you, suddenly, they want to control you and do everything for you. You become resentful.

At times in a relationship, you may require rescuing. You require assistance. However, is that something you desire constantly? Do you want someone hovering over you, such as your mother, father, or guardian, who continually monitors your every move? When you begin a relationship, examine yourself to ensure that the partnership is emotionally healthy for both of you.
Episode Timeline:
[00:02] Meet today’s host “Maria Romano,” from True Love Knots
[00:54] Do you need to be rescued from your relationship?
[02:03] Rescuee: Woman in Distress
[02:37] Examine why you chose a certain relationship
[03:36] The Rescuer
[04:36] Maria’s Past Client Story
[05:36] Are you fixing the relationship?
[06:21] Maria’s Website Information
Learn more about Maria Romano and the True Love Knots at:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-romano-tlk/
Website: https://trueloveknots.com/
8 min
November 18, 202161 Tipping your wedding team
Joining this episode of the True Love Knots is the most sought out wedding officiant, Maria Romano. Maria Romano is the founder of True Love Knots, a program she created specifically to help those looking for love later in life. An ordained minister and highly sought-after professional speaker, she has performed over 3000 marriages. Today, Maria emphasizes the importance of tipping gratuity and how you can give according to your budget.
Standout Quotes:
“I've had the opportunity to meet couples and some couples tip, they don't tip, it just depends upon their budget.” [Maria]

“These people here that are working, they're working hard for you, and they're making sure your day is special. And you of course have had a good outcome. So why not? Why not tip Why not leave a gratuity that definitely demonstrates that you enjoyed this service.” [Maria]
Key Takeaways:
When a couple leaves a chapel, they are given envelopes to present to their photographer, videographer, and day-of coordinator. And they're occasionally taken aback. It would help if you kept in mind that the individuals working here are doing so for you, and they are ensuring that your day is memorable.

When you dine at a beautiful restaurant and receive excellent service, you tip generously. When you go to get your hair done, you tip generously. Perhaps you go to a golf course and tip the caddy because they assist you. Likewise, when it comes to your wedding party.

Even among your clergy, how often do you hear, "Is this all we have to pay, the fee?" You are not required to pay anything additional to the cost. If you've enjoyed the service as much as you have your entire life, make a gratuity for each member of your wedding team - From the day-of organizer to the photographer, videographer, and officiant. If there is anyone else, such as a DJ or a wedding planner, you may wish to tip them as well to show them how much they helped to make your day unique. They turned your dreams become a reality, and you are now pleased. So, why not lavishly tip them?
Episode Timeline:
[00:02] Meet today’s host “Maria Romano,” from True Love Knots
[00:53] Is it important to tip?
[01:59] Tip as a sign of gratitude
Learn more about Maria Romano and the True Love Knots at:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-romano-tlk/
Website: https://trueloveknots.com/
4 min
November 16, 202160 Cuffing Season
Joining this episode of the True Love Knots is the most sought out wedding officiant, Maria Romano. Maria Romano is the founder of True Love Knots, a program she created specifically to help those looking for love later in life. An ordained minister and highly sought-after professional speaker, she has performed over 3000 marriages. Today, Maria explains how cuffing sometimes makes people find someone they chose to settle with, even if they weren’t their ideal partner.
Standout Quotes:
“There are more people out there looking for love, quality love. And because of everything that's happened over the last year and a half, I'm finding more and more couples are really taking their time to find the right partner.” [Maria]

“It's important that you list out the five must-haves that you have in a relationship and your deal-breakers as well. You don't want to be spending a season and be stuck in a cave with somebody you don't like, right? You want to spend time with somebody that makes you laugh, that somebody makes you feel good, you make them feel good, and you have commonalities.” [Maria]

“With cuffing season, there are so many different ways to meet people. Make sure that you, you know you put yourself out there online.” [Maria]
Key Takeaways:
The phrase "cuffing" originated as a result of the approaching winter. And people prefer to hibernate, but they don't want to do so alone; they want someone to accompany them. They behave similarly to animals. They prepare for the winter when it becomes cold.

During this season, some of us understand that you may get slightly more melancholy and that you may latch on to someone who is not the ideal fit for you. Therefore, even if we are currently in cuffing season and you are venturing out, putting yourself out there, and meeting new people, do not settle.

It's cuffing season, and take time to consider the type of person you're searching for, what your relationship must-haves are, and what your deal breakers are; this is critical. And keep in mind that you want to locate the ideal individual for you.
Episode Timeline:
[00:02] Meet today’s host “Maria Romano,” from True Love Knots
[00:43] October: The Cuffing Season
[01:35] Feeling Melancholy is Common Around this Time
[01:56] Have your checklist when finding a partner
[02:56] Different Ways to meet people
[03:43] Maria’s Website Information
Learn more about Maria Romano and the True Love Knots at:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-romano-tlk/
Website: https://trueloveknots.com/
5 min
November 15, 202159 Will You Marry Me
Do you have no idea how to ask your significant other the most anticipated question of your life? You're sure you want to spend the rest of your life with your spouse, but you are worried things won't go according to plan? In this episode, Maria Romano talks about tips on what you can do to ensure that everything goes smoothly.
Standout Quotes:
"When I'm getting ready to start a ceremony, one of the things I do say is a very common phrase by Maya Angelou: It doesn't matter how many breaths you take in life, it's the moments in life that take your breath away." [Maria]

"When couples get married, when they plan to get married, planning a wedding ceremony is so stressful. But when you ready to pop the question to the love of your life that is not as stressful." [Maria]
Key Takeaways:
Take into account your partner's personality characteristics. For instance, if you prefer being the center of attention and your partner is more on the introvert side, you might want to reconsider throwing a big party or gathering only to ask your partner the final question. It might not be the best option and would appear weird.

You may have planned a romantic dinner for the two of you, or you may have cooked a special meal for the two of you as a date, and you've decided to hide the ring in the champagne. Avoid doing so at all costs, as your companion may inadvertently swallow it and choke on it.
Episode Timeline:
[00:07] Meet today's guest "Maria Romano," A wedding officiant in Las Vegas
[00:49] How can you propose to your partner?
[01:58] Know your partner's personality before planning a proposal
[02:58] Why should you hire people to capture your special moment?
[03:49] What are the ways you can propose in Las Vegas?
[05:43] Ideas to avoid during a proposal
[06:25] Do you have your wedding proposal ideas?
Learn more about Maria Romano and all about her offered services at:
Website: http://trueloveknots.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-romano-tlk/
8 min

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Join Maria Romano, the dynamic host of Love And Legacy (Formerly True Love Knots), as she guides you through the exhilarating journey of finding love again after 40. Whether you're a widow, widower, or divorced, this podcast is your compass in the world of dating and relationships. Maria, an ordained minister who has officiated over 4,000 marriages, shares her wisdom and expertise to help you navigate modern love.

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