Welcome to another episode of True Love Knots! A woman will go on 25 dates before she will go on a second date. And there are 5 REASONS why women do not go on a second date and what you should do. Join Maria as she shares how to make your first date impressionable and memorable and get that second date!
Putting out a Positive Attitude
[2:56] First dates are impressionable. It’s like going on an interview where you are nervous. You want to put your best foot forward, and you do that by making sure that you go on that first date with a positive attitude because a positive attitude and having the right frame of mind are so important before you start any date.
[4:04] Sometimes talking too much could be that someone’s nervous. What they do is they are just filling the gap. However, talking too much and asking inappropriate questions.
[4:56] Asking someone how many people they have slept with will never get you far. Don’t ask personal questions. Don’t ask about their financial status.
[5:48] If you’re going out with somebody for financial reasons, you shouldn’t be in the dating world. Don’t cross the line, and don’t talk too much. Allow the other person to share a little bit about them. You don’t just tell them how wonderful you are. Ask them a little bit about themselves.
[6:16] Make sure you’re interacting, exchanging, and asking fun questions. Don’t talk too much, and don’t ask inappropriate questions.
[6:37] Drinking too much happens because of nervousness. If you get to know somebody and you go out, you might have two drinks, but you need to make sure you can drink where you can safely drive. When you are drinking too much, then you’re over-sharing, and you’re going back to doing too much talking.
[7:38] Drinking too much says that somebody lacks control about eating and drinking, and there’s some emotional instability going on. So do not drink too much on a first date.
#3 – Being Rude to Waiters and Staff
[7:57] When somebody is rude or just playing right not paying attention to the staff, it indicates how empathetic or compassionate they are.
[8:28] How you treat the people serving you is crucial because that gives you an indication of how you are around others. Somebody like that could wind up treating you that way. They’re trying to do their job, and they help make sure that you’re having a good time.
#4 – Getting distracted by their Phones
[9:02] Somebody who is constantly looking at their cell phone, someone who is distracted, and they’re not paying attention is a red flag on the first date. A first date should be where you are. You need to engage with that person.
[9:39] Act and engage. Somebody who pays attention is somebody you want in your life, especially on a first date.
#5 – Don’t talk about your ex
[10:01] Don’t talk about your ex. Don’t talk about your past relationships. Those are things you should avoid on a first date on a second date.
[10:29] When someone talks about their ex, and they badmouth their ex, it could be you. They shouldn’t be sharing anything about their ex with you early on because you need to trust somebody when you have a relationship with them. And sharing that information can be very private, and somebody has to earn your trust for you to share that.
[11:26] Don’t talk too much. Don’t ask personal questions. Don’t drink too much. Don’t be rude to the waiters and staff. Put your phone away. And do not bad mouth your ex.
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