Love Bites with Laura & Guests

On this week's episode we talk to Vista Wife who is the face of swinging in the UK. A self-proclaimed Swinging Ambassador & Educator, Vista Wife rose to fame when she Tik Tok by storm in 2021 to normalize and destigmatize the "lifestyle." She is a wife, mother, and brilliant business woman who is living the life she has always wanted. 

We also hear from a reader who is toying with the lifestyle, and advise her how to move forward.

Website - https://vistawife.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/vista.wife/?hl=en

Tik Tok - https://www.tiktok.com/@vista.wife?lang=en 

Discord Swinging App - https://apps.apple.com/gb/app/discord-chat-talk-hangout/id985746746 

This week Fi is recovering from Covid, so Laura is joined by her soul sister and all round wonderful human being Ciara Daly. Ciara is publicly known as one of Ireland's best MUA with a booming business empire but there is much more to her than meets the eye. Ciara opens up with a tsunami of wisdom about dating in your 30s. 40s & beyond, her incredible struggle to strength journey, and how plant medicines transformed her life. We could listen to her all day! 

Sponsors

Huge shoutout to our incredibly empowering sponsors L'Couture. Click HERE to check out their stunning products and use Discount Code LOVEBITES20 when you check-out for 20% off!

L'Couture recommends: 

• Attached by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller HERE 

Ciara recommends: 

• Many Lives, Many Masters by Dr Bian Weiss HERE 
• I am Enough by Marissa Pier HERE 

Laura recommends:

• Midnight Library by Matt Haig HERE 
• I am Pilgrim by Terry Hayes HERE 

You can follow Ciara on Instagram HERE.

This week we talk about how to feel confident with your vulva. It’s one of the hardest things to do as females as we can so often put ourselves down about how our vulva looks. Realistically though every vulva is different, which means that no one vulva is perfect or the right way to be. Pornography and being socialised in a sadly very patriarchal society has conditioned us to believe that we need our bodies to be “perfect” and that is just not the case. Let’s talk about it!

 Sponsors

Huge shoutout to our incredibly empowering sponsors L'Couture. Click HERE to check out their stunning products and use Discount Code LOVEBITES20 when you check-out for 20% off!

L'Couture recommends:

Laura:

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Seven-Husbands-Evelyn-Hugo/dp/1501139231

 Fi:

• Love Island
• Keep Sweet, Pray Obey

L'Couture:

• Everything I know about Love – BBCiPlayer

On this week’s episode we have a special guest, Jo Westwood. Jo is an incredible co-dependency coach, host of The Anti-People Pleasing podcast and one of the most knowledgeable people that we’ve ever met. Her non-judgemental and eloquent advice on what co-dependency is, was wonderful to listen to. Thank you so much Jo for your time, your words of wisdom knows no bounds and we know you will help so many people realise their own co-dependency and get on the path to recovery.

 Sponsors

Huge shoutout to our incredibly empowering sponsors L'Couture. Click HERE to check out their stunning products and use Discount Code LOVEBITES20 when you check-out for 20% off!

Book recommendations from Jo:

• Should I Stay or Should I Go? By Dr Ramani Durvasula
• Sweet Relief from the Everyday Narcissist by Tina Moody and Melissa Schenker

LC Recommends:

• Stolen Focus by Johann Hari
•  Offline with Jon Favreau (podcast by Crooked Media)
•  Hacks on HBO
•  Why Social Media is Ruining Your Life by Katherine Ormerod
•  Ikigai by Hector Garcia
• Derry Girls – Netflix, BBCiPlayer

This week we delve into the world of Sugar Babies! Thank you to our amazing listener that bought this to our attention. We also discuss living with a boy for the first time and what a mine field male habits are?

• Would you ever become a Sugar Baby?
• What does being a Sugar Baby it entail?
• Why do men never fold clothes?
• New recommendations of the week!

L’Couture Recommends:

https://www.calm.com/

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/18045891-sharp-objects

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/dolly-alderton-is-done-with-people-pleasing-and-you-should-be-too-5h8cvm9mq

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/42949842-how-to-fail

Sponsors

Huge shoutout to our incredibly empowering sponsors L'Couture. Click HERE to check out their stunning products and use Discount Code LOVEBITES20 when you check-out for 20% off!

Summer is looming and maybe so are a few new romances? The first time you go on holiday with your boyfriend is for sure a test of character! What if they give you the ick because they sweat or swim strangely? We unpack what it’s like to go on holiday for the first time and how best to navigate holidays! We also discuss:

• The first time you have a poop in your boyfriend’s house?
• We talk recommendations from a Mormon Biopic to Naked Attraction

Sponsors

Huge shoutout to our incredibly empowering sponsors L'Couture. Click HERE to check out their stunning products and use Discount Code LOVEBITES20 when you check-out for 20% off!

How to get over someone you’ve never met

This week we talk falling in love with someone you’ve not met! In this day and age, it is the easiest thing to do in the world! It’s love for the modern age, but what are we to do when it ends? Should our feelings be disregarded just because we’ve not met the person but put in a lot of time and energy? We unpack this all on this week’s episode!

We also discuss:

• Is telling Fi she’s using her boyfriend for content acceptable?
• Is being too independent to the point of inconsideration a good thing?
• More recommendations this week from The Staircase to a book about grabbing life by the balls!

Sponsors

Huge shoutout to our incredibly empowering sponsors L'Couture. Click HERE to check out their stunning products and use Discount Code LOVEBITES20 when you check-out for 20% off!

We are finally back after what seems like forever! A fresh start for Season 3 as we dive head first into new beginnings and a new chapter of our lives. This week we discuss:

• Being conscious of the here and now
• A new relationship in our midst
• How soon is it to cross the poop boundary?
• What we’ve been consuming this week with our sponsor L’Couture

Sponsors

Huge shoutout to our incredibly empowering sponsors L'Couture. Click HERE to check out their stunning products and use Discount Code LOVEBITES20 when you check-out for 20% off!

What a ride Season 2 has been! We’ve laughed, we’ve cried and above all we’ve learnt a lot. A huge thank you to all our listeners, we appreciate every single one of you. For our final episode of Season 2, we dig up the dirt and you tell us your dirty little secrets:

• What’s a little sex secret you haven’t told anyone?
• Would you let someone pee on you?
• How far will you go when watching porn?
• What have we learnt this season?

 Season 3 Coming Soon!

A week of revelations, recording in the same room and the start of new chapters with a side of oral!

• What are the world’s sexiest jobs?
• Is this really the end of The Barber?
• Do you like receiving oral?
• How can you feel more confident with your partner
• Tips and techniques to get you in the mood

 Show notes:

https://www.wellandgood.com/how-enjoy-oral-sex/amp/

https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a19929017/things-we-wish-guys-knew-about-oral-sex/

Sponsors

Huge shoutout to our incredibly empowering sponsors L'Couture. Click HERE to check out their stunning products and use Discount Code LOVEBITES20 when you check-out for 20% off!