What do Millennials really want in relationships? We seem to have been pegged as a generation that doesn't want to settle down and doesn't want to commit. But is that really true? Today we talk about the HuffPost article What Millennials Want Most In Love, According To Therapists. Also discussed:

-Millennial Dating Term: Pie Hunting

-The definition of Gay

-What it means to be a power couple

-And more!

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We love hearing from you all! It honestly makes our day to hear from listeners. The best part about doing this podcast is getting to hear YOUR stories and relating to you. Today we do some much needed housekeeping and read/answer your questions. On this episode:

-Update on Cho's live Twitch stream

-What to do when you're a giver in relationships

-A defense of checklists 

-Millennial dating term of the week: Monkeying

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Thank you to everyone who has been listening and following our podcasts's journey: We've reached 1000 listeners!! To celebrate, we have a special episode all about our most embarrassing dates. And trust me, it gets pretty messy. Listen in for:

-Millennial dating term of the week: Dick sand

-Cho's reaction to plastic bedsheet covers

-Lisa surviving a sensory deprivation tank

-When you realize halfway into the night that your date already has a partner

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Last week we only got through the first half of this amazing article 8 Reasons You’re Still Single When You Don't Want to Be by Dr. Suzanne Lachmann. This week we get into the next 4 reasons why you're #eternallysingle.  In this episode the topic of trauma comes up. For more info on the ACEs study look here:

What is your ACE score?

CDC information on ACEs

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Been single? ... For a while?  We're here for you. Cho and Lisa dig in to a poignant article from Psychology Today: 8 Reasons You’re Still Single When You Don't Want to Be by Dr. Suzanne Lachmann. This article was so good that we only got through half of the reasons! So tune in for part 2 next week.

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This is a juicy one, guys. In this episode we talk with musician/streamer/marketer Kisos about being obsessed with his ex.  We get pretty vulnerable and real.. so sit back with your beverage of choice and commiserate about break-ups with us!

 Also discussed:

-How break ups affect your mental health.

-Can we really get away from people in the age of social media?

-Do you stay friends with your ex?

:::More info about our AMAZING guest:::

The article that we discuss in the episode: https://www.gaystarnews.com/article/ex-fell-in-love-again-i-stalked-his-new-relationship-online-for-a-year/#gs.zkj8kx

Don't walk, RUN to check out Kisos' music: http://www.kisosmusik.com

Also find Kisos on Spotify!

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Apparently millennials have been spending all of their coins on dates! This is leading some folks to feel that they can't afford to date. We do a deep dive today into the real cost of dating and how to deal with the people who want you to put out financially. Also discussed:

-How much millennials are spending on the average date

-Who pays for the first date

-How soon do you need to know someone's financial situation

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Have you ever been blinded by love? For better or worse this is a real phenomenon that we discuss.  In this episode:

-We discuss "drafting season."

-Cho has story time about a bad date.

-We discuss being blinded by love-how we tend to rate our partners as more attractive, funnier, smarter, than they really are. 

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Ya'll know about Catfishing and Ghosting right? But have you heard about the latest millennial dating terms? ... Listen in to hear about Kittenfishing and more.  In this episode:

-Cho guesses what the newest millennial dating terms mean.

-Lisa learns what Read Receipt is.

-We learn about Orbiting, and we're not happy about it. 

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Relationship OCD... It's not a 'real' diagnosable condition or anything, but it's an interesting idea out there that relates to modern dating culture. In this episode we discuss:

-Cho's skincare routine

-What even is ROCD?

-Codependent relationships

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