Love, Girl Talk

As we enjoy our last bites of chocolate and savor the red roses of Valentine's Day, Love, Girl Talk host, Julie Larkin, and special guest, Monica Hinderer, LCPC, reflect upon our heart's deepest desires. Monica offers the therapeutic lens into our self-limiting core beliefs--our fears of being unwanted, unworthy, and unloved. Take a listen to reflect on the truth of your value...

BIO

Monica Hinderer, LCPC

Monica is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC), who truly believes in the healing and restorative nature of therapy. She enjoys working collaboratively with clients helping build, maintain, or restore relationships in their lives; whether this be the relationship with themselves, their spouse, or children. Monica believes healthy relationships are the key to happy lives. With a client-centered approach, she provides evidence-based interventions such as CBT, DBT, mindfulness, and motivational interviewing in conjunction with faith-based practices allowing the client to receive a well-rounded and holistic approach to healing.

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As we implement our new year’s resolutions, we can get hung up on perfecting our lives. Julie shares how we can let go of perfectionism and become truly confident this year.

True confidence is the inner conviction of our inherent dignity and the outward manner in which we live that out. 

QUOTES

“It’s terrifying to risk when you’re a perfectionist; your self-worth is on the line.” - Atlas of the Heart, Brené Brown

“Less of who you should be, more of who you are.” - Verily

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Learn More About Our Mission:
www.ourgirltalk.org
@ourgirltalk

Join the Girl Talk Community to provide young women friendship, resources, and tools to build true confidence.

Questions or Comments: 
Contact us at [email protected]

Girl Talk is a 501(c)3 non-profit organization (EIN: 47-5334989), and all gifts are tax-deductible.

This heart-tugging episode brings forth a blend of trusting friendship, finding hope and struggling through healing.  Our guest, Mary Reilly, shares her experiences about living with a neurological disability called spinocerebellar ataxia (SCA).  Having to transition from running to using a walker challenged Mary to experience the reality of her family’s mantra to “let go and let God.”  The mentally heavy burden of dealing with many difficulties drew her to seek the help she needed.  She wants every person to know God is with you, you are not alone, and you can trust the process of day by day surrendering and acceptance. 

“Come as I am.” - Mary Reilly

“Filling my cup up with good people.” - Mary Reilly

“Be as open as possible, you’ll get there, just trust the process.” - Mary Reilly

Mary is a High School Religion Teacher at St. Francis in Mountain View, CA. She is originally from Springfield, Pennsylvania (Delco!) and attended the Catholic University of America for undergrad. After growing up on the East Coast, she traveled to the West Coast for Jesuit Volunteer Corps (JVC) (#ruinedforlife) and then got her Master of Divinity from the Jesuit School of Theology in Berekely. Now, she has her dream job and although she misses her Family in Delco she is really happy living on the West Coast!

Girl Talk Gala 2021:

Come “fill your cup” with an evening of dinner, dancing, and dreaming as we help moms, middle schoolers, and all women in between recognize and radiate their inherent dignity.  The Gala is September 10, 2021 in Potomac, Maryland.  To register, sponsor, or donate, please go to: GirlTalkGala21.givesmart.com

Girl Talk is a 501(c)3 non-profit organization.  All donations are tax deductible.

Our hearts were made to give and serve, especially to those whom we most love.  However, sometimes our sincere charity forgets its own needs, and we become frustrated and depleted. Julie explains how in order to best pour into the people who need us most, we first must fill our own cup! In light of this mantra, we invite our listeners to celebrate with us at our second annual Girl Talk Gala to “fill your cup!” Friday, September 10th. More details can be found at GirlTalkGala21.givesmart.com.   

“You cannot pour from an empty cup.” 

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Girl Talk Gala 2021:

Come fill your cup with an evening of dinner, dancing, and dreaming as we help moms, middle schoolers, and all women in between recognize and radiate their inherent dignity.  The Gala is September 10, 2021 in Potomac, Maryland.  To register, sponsor, or donate, please go to: GirlTalkGala21.givesmart.com

Girl Talk is a 501(c)3 non-profit organization.  All donations are tax deductible.

Life comes with challenging and uncertain choices. When the pressure seems overwhelming, we can remind ourselves to be gentle and intentional, and allow time to simply observe the good and bad “data points” on the graph of life. Julie chats in this Girl Talk 101 episode about how to look at the whole picture!

Reflection: Is there a relationship, a move, or a big decision that you’re trying to make? Imagine that graph - what are your data points?

When it comes to the field -- the competition, the practice, and the fellowship make an impact in the heart of the game.  Our guest, Meg Gargulinski, shares her passion for lacrosse and how her life has been transformed as a player and coach.  Her rooted humility shines through owning her mistakes and celebrating the sisterhood in her teams.  Listen to this sporty episode about mentorship, living out values, and fierce determination. 

Meg is a financial planner at Morgan Stanley by day and a lacrosse coach by night. She graduated from Franciscan University of Steubenville and was a 4 year letterman and 3 time captain of their NCAA Division III lacrosse team. Meg is a Maryland native and loves living in the DC area close to her family. Meg loves anything health and fitness related and is a big Orangetheory Fitness fan. She also gets excited when she’s going to bed because it means she gets a cup of coffee in the morning.

“Take a step back, Macro it out. Recognize the things you are doing should relate to your deep rooted values and beliefs, whether you are winning or losing.” — Meg Gargulinski

“Humility is being yourself for who you are.” — Meg Gargulinski

One tear, two tear, sad tear, happy tear!  Why do we cry sometimes at the most unexpected and unwanted moments -- if only we could control it?  Letting those precious tears come out bonds us as sisters and can shine a light on things that are unknowingly building deep inside us.  Shannon and Julie open up about some of their most embarrassing crying moments, while also exploring there’s more going on than what meets the eye.  

“The cure for anything is salt water — sweat, tears, or the sea.” — Isak Dinesen

When brokenness seems so big and the desire to be back to normal dangles just out of reach, healing can still be present.  Shannon shares that our sense of self can endure while struggling through healing. 

Healing does not necessarily mean the remission of symptoms. It is the restoration of a sense of meaning, purpose, and sense of self despite the struggle.”  - Dr. Estes

Beauty products such as moisturizer and conditioners can make our skin and hair feel healthy, silky, and smooth.  On the other hand, placing conditions on our happiness can have the opposite, tangled effect. Julie shares the perfect conditioner for a thriving life.  

“Happiness is not dependent on circumstances being exactly as we want them to be, or on ourselves being exactly as we’d like to be. Rather, happiness stems from loving ourselves and our lives exactly as they are, knowing that joy and pain, strength and weakness, glory and failure are all essential to the full human experience. ” - Dr. Kristen Neff

Julie and Shannon speak to the topic of empathy; how to see, listen, and feel deeply connected to others. We go through heartaches and headaches in life, and how relieving it is to feel heard and accepted in your current place. Our relationships are strengthened with a healthy dose of empathy, where our vulnerable moments become cherished connections.

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Questions or Comments:  Contact us at [email protected]