Tonight’s episode is deadbeats. I really didn't want to use that word but how else could I explain it? I actually didn't use the word in my original draft of the description of the episode. This is my very own personal experience. This is from what I have seen with family and friends. It's so very painful and private but I had to share my story. So I will be discussing fathers who have kids of their own but for whatever reason had walked out on them. OK! So are you following me here? The same man that will not be a father to his children will however be a father and provider to other children. He goes off and somehow knows how to be a nurturing father to other children. He is now spending time and providing financially for children that he may or may not have created. This is such a touchy topic but I had to put it out there. This is why you should really consider who You are having children with. If you didn't want her to be the mother of your child why did you have sex with this person? Now, just to be fair there are deadbeat mothers out there. I don't know any personally but I have heard a few men talk about raising children on their own. Ok, wait a minute! I have a friend who married a woman and she left him to raise her kids. That's right, her kids. These are not his biological children. He has never had children of his own. This is what he told me! I have to say this sounds so unbelievable. She ran off to be with another man but I don't know if she raised his children or if he has children. Wow! Just wow! I could never leave my children at the babysitter and be in complete comfort. I couldn't wait to see my children at the end of the day.  Let’s talk about it tonight on love, lies, life.