Welcome to the Love, Light and Happiness Podcast episode 16. Let's talk about forgiveness!
I can understand you. You can't forgive him because he hurt you! You felt physical pain! When you cried, he was not there to wipe your tears. He was not there when you needed him the most!!He didn't fulfill his promise.
However....
You are causing yourself more pain when you are not forgiving him. You are going back in the past. You are living that moment again and again. Every time you think of him, you go back into that moment and feel every single emotion once more.
Forgiving him does not mean you are letting him go for what he did to you. What he did was wrong but now it's time for you to let go.
Let go of the pain.
Let go of the emotion.
Free yourself!
By doing so, you are doing yourself a favor. You will feel more light. By keeping all these pains and not forgiving him, you are allowing this to weigh heavy on you. It's not on him.
He does not know how you are feeling or maybe he does know but that does not affect him in any way. This pain that you are holding onto is only controlling you.
Learn to forgive even when he did not say sorry for yourself- not for him.
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Saadiah Chowtee - Relationship Coach https://www.instagram.com/saadiahchowtee/