Dr. Mark Schoen, a sex educator and filmmaker, last here last year, returned. His website www.SexSmartFilms.com is the Netflix of sex education! Indeed, this website is a sex educator’s dream come true! There are some 600 films on the site – including sensate focus exercises, the science of orgasms, the true story of how babies are made, the science of attraction, and TRANS (about the transgendered folks dealing with discrimination and rejection). We also discussed his project with Dr. Mitch Tepper “Making Love after War.” So much more needs to be done to help vets deal with their (sexual) injuries. Consent is really important these days! Use your words. We seem to be especially unable to talk about sex when we are having it, or about to have it. Education is the key. If people felt less ambivalent about sex, they could use their words more easily and  have much better sex!