Marc Gilmartin (www.MarcGilmartin.com)

has a unique specialization: working with adult men with sexual abuse

histories, who may be erotically conflicted. The focus for this show was

on porn literacy. We discussed: why call it porn; is it

bad or good; is it sex education or entertainment; what does porn teach

us? Dr. Diana and Marc talked about all of this and more! Porn may be a

little like gun control – we should mainly be concerned with the state

of mind of the guy pulling the trigger. If a man is feeling turned on,

porn becomes a way of escaping from the relationship rather than just a

harmless way to blow off some sexual steam.