Love Sex & Magic

Like most women in the public eye today, Ashley has many strings to her bow. Not only a highly sought-after DJ, an accomplished television presenter and a popular model, she is also an articulate social commentator, activist and empowerment coach whose quick-wit, but a goofy sense of humour and authenticity have also won her a legion of fans and an impressive social media following of over 346,000.

Today is a lush and honest conversation with an old friend of mine. We talk about the toxicity of social media, the celebrity world, dating and being single in your thirties, the pressure women face to have a certain amount of things by a certain age, and Ashley’s journey into motherhood.

1:48 Fame without fulfilment

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Ashley’s Instagram

Kelsey Grant is a love alchemist and relational educator in service to love, truth, magic and the mysteries of the feminine. She is passionate about living in a world where people are open to the possibility of creating fulfilled, balanced and happy intimate relationships while maintaining deep connection to their own sacred system.

With 15 years of experience in this industry as a love, intimacy and relationship educator, she delivers mystical transmissions through her writing, mentoring, public speaking and relational teachings. Her devotional service to the truth of love, unlocks the art of deeper alignment, soulful magic and pleasure within one's self, and serves to activate her clients personal mastery in all their relational dynamics.

We spent this whole episode talking about being in the dating world and noticing patterns of codependency codes, identifying the green and red flags, and how to keep your standards high when it comes to looking for your next partner. We also dive into navigating post-breakups and healing the heart.

3:02 Codependency codes

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Kelsey’s Instagram

The Pleasure Portal podcast

Sami Wunder is a leading international dating and relationship coach who specializes in helping high-achieving women attract and keep romantic love. Her comprehensive approach shows her clients how to embrace strong relationship boundaries, while still emanating an inviting feminine energy. Sami has enabled more than 237 single clients to get married and more than 300 partnered clients to bring their marriages back from divorce in the past five years.

Sami founded her multi-seven figure relationships brand after exiting a successful career as a gold medalist economist with a Masters in public policy. Since then, she has improved the love lives of thousands of women, including celebrities, senior executives and entrepreneurs, in over 55 countries across the globe. Her expertise has been featured on media outlets including Forbes, Glamour, TIME, Marie Claire, Business Insider, and the BBC. She lives in Germany with her adoring husband, Chris, and their two boys.

In this episode, we go deep into dating –especially if you are a woman who is very much in her masculine energy or an extremely high achiever – and talk about finding those solid relationships, polarity shifts, emasculation and so much more.

And, Sami has sent us an exclusive freebie for our podcast listeners to empower both single and partnered women in their love lives! Scroll down for the links…

1:15 Why the high-achieving woman is struggling with dating and relationships

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Sami’s website

Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist and global relationship and empowerment expert. For over two decades, Terri has worked with a diverse group of clients that includes everyone from stay-at-home moms to celebrities and Fortune 500 CEOs. She has a gift for making complex psychological concepts accessible and actionable so that clients and students achieve sustainable change.

She inspires over 250,000 people weekly through her blog, social media platform, signature courses, and her popular podcast, The Terri Cole Show. For more, see terricole.com.

In this episode, we explore how to set boundaries with yourself, family, and friendships, and we dive into boundary dynamics in codependent relationships. Terri is truly a wealth of wisdom and knowledge and I’m so excited for you to listen today.

1:14 About Terri’s book, Boundary Boss

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A monthly workshop and workbook

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Boundary Quiz

Nyasha and Reuben are a twin flame couple who work together as The Ascension Seed to spread healing and unity consciousness to support collective liberation.

They offer their work in service to the multidimensional manifestation of unconditional love on Earth. They are passionate about dismantling all forms of separation and oppression to envision and co-create a world where all people are free to live equally in their power and sovereignty.

Nyasha and Reuben offer a diverse range of healing practices for spiritual awakening and soul essence embodiment. They offer their frequency through potent, love-filled, decolonial spaces for inner alchemy, soul remembrance and activation in the form of online courses, retreats, workshops and sound transmissions.

In this episode, we dive into shadow work, discuss what it means to be a paradigm-shifter as we transition to the new earth, plus so much more juicy wisdom and magic throughout.

1:52 Nyasha & Reuben’s journey of co-creation

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A monthly workshop and workbook

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The Ascension Seed Instagram 

Denise Duffield-Thomas is the money mentor for the new wave of online entrepreneurs who want to make money and change the world. She helps women charge premium prices, release the fear of money and create First Class lives.

Her books Lucky Bitch, Get Rich, Lucky Bitch, and Chillpreneur give a fresh and funny roadmap to living a life of abundance without burnout. Her Money Bootcamp has helped over 6,000 students from all around the world. She’s a lazy introvert, a Hay House author and an unbusy mother of 3. She owns a rose farm and lives by the beach in sunny Australia.

This episode is so packed with a ton of juicy money stories, shifts and blocks from both Denise and me, and ways in which we can start to change our relationship with money so that we can step into more abundance and more freedom in our lives. You’re going to love this one.

02:02 How Denise helps women get rich

Then be sure to join my monthly membership for your soul, The Goddess Collective. Goddess Collective members unlock access to extra “after the cut” content from each and every interview I host. During this segment of the podcast (which is recorded only for Collective members, and hosted inside the Collective website), questions that are submitted by the Goddesses are answered by podcast guests.

The Goddess Collective also includes:

A monthly workshop and workbook

…all for $67.

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Denise’s website 

Denise’s Free Money Mindset Training

Denise’s Instagram

Denise’s books

Suzy Ashworth is a seven-figure entrepreneur and a quantum transformation and embodiment coach with the superpower to help female entrepreneurs create six-figure breakthroughs in their business so that they too can expand into limitless living, and create an incredibly positive difference in the world.

In this episode, we talk about all things quantum living, the success mindset you need to create these results in your business and your life, we talk all about love, family, expansion, and we share candidly about both of our experiences in our years inside this industry.

3:30 Suzy’s experience speaking at The Self Love Summit

Then be sure to join my monthly membership for your soul, The Goddess Collective. Goddess Collective members unlock access to extra “after the cut” content from each and every interview I host. During this segment of the podcast (which is recorded only for Collective members, and hosted inside the Collective website), questions that are submitted by the Goddesses are answered by podcast guests.

A monthly workshop and workbook

…all for $67.

Suzy’s website https://suzyashworth.com/

Suzy’s podcast https://suzyashworth.com/podcast/

Ben Bidwell is a mindset & purpose coach, writer & public speaker who is stripping back the conversation to change the stigma about mental health.

He once lived uninspired, driven by other people’s expectations at the cost of his own unique authenticity, but what he now knows is that external validation doesn’t bring an internal sense of fulfillment. Whilst he was ticking boxes that society deemed successful, the empty feeling he felt on the inside often led him to ask himself, “Is there more to life?”.

Having been on his own journey, his goal is very clear. Every day he aims to show up authentically to inspire his audience to connect more with who they are at their best, the person their heart craves them to be.

In this episode, we talk all about masculine and feminine energy, toxic masculinity (or, toxic conditioning), wounded masculine traits, sex and intimacy, feeling our feelings and what we can do to help the men in our lives be more authentic.

2:02 Ben’s journey from the wounded to the divine masculine

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Ben’s website

Ben’s Instagram 

Ben’s mentorship 

Heart Space Community 

Dr. Nicole LePera was trained in clinical psychology at Cornell University and the New School for Social Research. She also studied at the Philadelphia School of Psychoanalysis.

As a clinical psychologist in private practice, Dr. Nicole LePera often found herself frustrated by the limitations of traditional psychotherapy. Wanting more for her patients— and for self— she began a journey to develop a united philosophy of mental, physical, and spiritual health that equips people with the tools necessary to heal themselves.

She is the creator of the #SelfHealers movement where people from around the world are joining together in community to take healing into their own hands. Her first book, How to Do the Work, is currently available and already a New York Times bestseller.

We dive into trauma, relationships, betrayal, attachment styles and how we can really truly old patterns and change the world.

2:00 On Nicole’s new book

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How To Do The Work by Dr. Nicole LePera

Dr. Nicole’s Instagram 

SelfHealers Soundboard

Dr. Nicole’s YouTube

Dr. Nicole’s website

For this very special episode, I was joined once again by Gabby Bernstein on my Instagram Live to discuss the impact of writing a book, sharing your message with the masses, and how to make the process as seamless and smooth as possible!

If you’ve ever considered writing a book or sharing a story, I can’t recommend Gabby’s Bestseller Masterclass program enough. It contains a library of tools, lessons and practices that I wish I had under my belt when I wrote my first two books, and one that I’m so grateful to have whilst I write my third.

You have a story to share… and the world needs your book now more than ever.

In the course, you will:

PLUS, when you sign up with my unique link, you’ll receive $2,000 in bonuses from me which will help you amplify your book writing and publishing experience.

Doors close: Friday 28th May, 9pm ET

Bestseller Masterclass with Gabby Bernstein