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Love via HaShem
By HeziEducation
Love via HaShem episodes
- E045 - How to be Mindful about Your First Date 💚
If you are meeting, you may know some things already. Know at least the basics of what you want. Usually dating sites can help with this, but they might not provide everything you’re looking for in terms of information. If you can get a picture of the person in the context of what you’re looking for before meeting up …. without being too unnatural in conversation …. then go for it. Having someone (like a shadchan/matchmaker or a genuine friend) makes getting intellectual questions like “how many kids” easier because they can ask in a more formal way and it feels like a screening which is an honest approach when what you're doing is actually, openly, and honestly screening. Don’t feel bad to perform screening by these means, keeping it natural and polite, because what you’re looking for is YOUR HUSBAND / YOUR WIFE / YOUR BESHERT!
So why meet? To find out if you’re comfortable around this person. ALSO, to ask any of these intellectual questions which are perhaps too personal to ask online and without full context.
Questions like
“Do you want kids? How many kids do you wish to have?”
-- should not be coming up 2 months later because what you’re aiming for is clarity.
Make a list of everything that you value. Include points within the physical, emotional, and especially intellectual categories.
Finally, how do you feel? The first moment may have a bit of unease, but it shouldn’t be long lasting at all, and in fact - that person should make you comfortable with who you are. Be mindful during the meeting to notice how you feel, and how the other person interacts with you and those around them. “Are they gentle, kind, funny, lively etc…?”
Afterwards, go introspective and ask yourself, how did the other person make you feel? Write it down, keep it so that you can make decisions off of it. Remember, you’re looking for the one who will be the closest to you, forever -- so, all of it matters.
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LVH 45 Ahava 23 DatingF5
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8 min - E044 - Support Those Who are Balanced and Honest
Money Money Money is a famous song which Abba sang some time ago. It’s reflective of the sad situation that many organizations are in. Rabbi Paul noticed the horrible imbalance of how money is handled and asked for. There was fiscal abuse, and he was addressing it of the freedom to ask for money.
Indulgences was practice that was akin to stealing money under the pretense that it was giving salvation to those souls who had passed away. This is very similar to how things are these days with preachers saying “Come give money, plant the “seed” … and get your blessing.” Practices like that affect us all, and we have to be careful to protect each other when it comes to cheats and frauds who are in it for themselves, the lavish life, money, and all else aside from HaShem’s purposes which greatly involves being OTHERS focused. A great example of the proper way to treat money is the organization - Ephrata Ministries (of Pennsylvania)
http://www.ephrataministries.org (I’m in not fiscally associated in any way btw)
A the beginning of November annually, and for a full week …. you receive room and board PLUS Torah learning, song singing, fellowship. BTW the food is amazing! It’s called Youth Bible School. Guess how much all of this is? $100 …. Yea, one can hardly get a great hotel stay at that price, let alone a get-away all-expenses-paid growth-oriented week-full of blessed Torah study. It’s beautiful. They're an example of how organizations striving to be godly should be run. Check out the school as November approaches. (or just stop in in general)
Here’s an example of the 2018 Youth Bible School registration - http://www.ephrataministries.org/announcements-ybs.a5w
LVH 44, Torah 22, 1 Cor 9 Part 3
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DONATING or SHARING …. The two biggest things that you can do if you want to support and/or be involved in some way. I want to keep doing this, and with your help, I can keep on keep’n on ;D Here’s the donation link: https://anchor.fm/LoveHaShem/support
If you share via Instagram, feel free to tag @flowmindset: Thanks for listening!
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8 min - E043 - It's OK to Be a Little SelfishYou’re looking for your Beshert - the one you want to be with forever. Here you come across someone and they have a lot of what you like - personality, ideas, but there’s something off. This other person has dreams and aspirations which are in other direction than where you are going. (btw, try to talk about dreams and bigs ideas early on in the getting-to-know-you phase) When you do see an big aspiration gap, be careful. Take this as an example - You're getting on two separate buses going in two separate directions. Being joined with someone on the other bus, is like hopping on a one way bus to Texas, when you really wanted to get to Canada. If your date definitely wishes to live in Israel in 4 years with no wiggle room, and you definitely do now, then don’t feel bad to walk away. Look at the little things, if they are big to you, if it bothers you, take your unmarried single-hearted liberty and roll out. You'll be glad you did.Here’s a nice resource I found on values. Perhaps you could adapt them to find out more about your date / spouse.https://scholarworks.gvsu.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1116&context=orpc'LVH 43 Ahava 22 DatingF4------------DONATING or SHARING …. The two biggest things that you can do if you want to support and/or be involved in some way. I want to keep doing this, and with your help, I can keep on keep’n on ;D Here’s the donation link: https://anchor.fm/LoveHaShem/supportIf you share via Instagram, feel free to tag @flowmindset: Thanks for listening!--------------------(^_^) Stay connected viaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/flowmindset/YouTube: www.youtube.com/user/TheLinguisticFightTwitter: https://twitter.com/LinguisticFightTumblr: linguisticfight.tumblr.com/Duolingo TinyCards Flashcards - tinycards.duolingo.com/users/IcystriderMy Blog - http://flowmindset.wordpress.com8 min
- E042 - A Modest Return for a Spiritual Service
Asking for money is OK. Don’t muzzle an ox while it’s treading the grain. The ox is doing a work, let it take in some of that sustenance. We have the right to ask for money for our services, even if they’re spiritual. You can consume part of the offering, and that’s your right.
There’s tons of tv-evangelists and other folks who just after the money. They make it their biggest thing. Jets, fancy cars, and big houses quickly become their trademark. And, although asking for $ is allowable, these people, while doing a spiritual service, take it too far. They seek all these rich-type items to show off their wealth and to feel big. Rather than spending it lavishly, it’s far greater to put it back into the mechanism that directly affects the people being served, and reserving some to modestly sustain and improve your life.
Rabbi Mike Stern is the perfect example of this. He used whatever he got from donations to upgrade his work for us, while still modestly sustaining his family and improving himself.
(I mention my dear Rabbi … and, after this episode was made, he has since passed on. RIP)
LVH 42, Torah 21, 1 Cor 9 Part 2
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DONATING or SHARING …. The two biggest things that you can do if you want to support and/or be involved in some way. I want to keep doing this, and with your help, I can keep on keep’n on ;D Here’s the donation link: https://anchor.fm/LoveHaShem/support
If you share via Instagram, feel free to tag @flowmindset: Thanks for listening!
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(^_^) Stay connected via
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My Blog - http://flowmindset.wordpress.com
8 min - E038 - Guard the Consciousness of Your BrotherWatching out for your fellow human is not an attribute that you can put on a resume, but it’s certainly a spiritual plus. If you’re cool about doing something, and your friend or fellow companion isn’t ok with that, what should you do? Where should we draw the line when it comes to not offending someone? One thing is for sure, everything that we do should be marked with love, humility, and care.LVH 38, Torah 19, 1 Cor 10 Part 5DONATING or SHARING …. The two biggest things that you can do if you want to support and/or be involved in some way. I want to keep doing this, and with your help, I can keep on keep’n on ;D Here’s the donation link: https://anchor.fm/LoveHaShem/supportIf you share via Instagram, feel free to tag @flowmindset: Thanks for listening!--------------------(^_^) Stay connected viaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/flowmindset/YouTube: www.youtube.com/user/TheLinguisticFightTwitter: https://twitter.com/LinguisticFightTumblr: linguisticfight.tumblr.com/Duolingo TinyCards Flashcards - tinycards.duolingo.com/users/IcystriderMy Blog - http://flowmindset.wordpress.com8 min
- How to Find the One? - Interview with Zara
There's plenty of ways people talk about for winning in the "game" of finding your beshert (the one aka soulmate). To put it simply, after consistently using the tools of the web (for example: Coffee Meets Bagel) you need to KNOW yourself. Looking inwardly, the introspective intelligence, puts you on the path of self-understanding. What are your values? With whom do you get along with? What future do you dream of? Do you see kids? (intellectual category) Do you see a partner who goes snowboarding with you? Or, maybe you just want a chill-on-the-couch partner? (emotional category)
PIE - Physical, Intellectual, and Emotional.
-- Physical is the easiest, but can be the most superficial (gotta have someone with strong arms right?)
-- Emotional, medium in difficulty, and you may not want to compromise. (like a partner who likes to surf like you do :)
-- Intellectual, hardest to determine, and you definitely don't want to compromise. (like whether you want to have kids together)
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DONATING or SHARING …. The two biggest things that you can do if you want to support and/or be involved in some way. I want to keep doing this, and with your help, I can keep on keep’n on ;D Here’s the donation link: https://anchor.fm/LoveHaShem/support
If you share via Instagram, feel free to tag @flowmindset: Thanks for listening!
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(^_^) Stay connected via
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YouTube: www.youtube.com/user/TheLinguisticFight
Twitter: https://twitter.com/LinguisticFight
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Duolingo TinyCards Flashcards - tinycards.duolingo.com/users/Icystrider
My Blog - http://flowmindset.wordpress.com
13 min - E041 - Be Considerate, Not Overly Honest
Ever heard the old adage “Honesty is the best policy.”? In relationships, this can definitely prove to be hogwash that can ruin your day, and the day of the other person. Strive for foresight and wisdom in your relationships (romantic or otherwise). Yes, you could say a truth, but is that truth guarded by love. Is it considerate? Is this the right time?
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Let’s say that you see a co-worker who is tired. Do you say, “Wow you look terrible, and like you haven’t slept!”? … Despite whatever truth those statements might have, you want to do some critical thinking to check whether that is the verbal path that you’d like to embark upon.
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DONATING or SHARING …. The two biggest things that you can do if you want to support and/or be involved in some way. I want to keep doing this, and with your help, I can keep on keep’n on ;D Here’s the donation link: https://anchor.fm/LoveHaShem/support
If you share via Instagram, feel free to tag @flowmindset: Thanks for listening!
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(^_^) Stay connected via
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YouTube: www.youtube.com/user/TheLinguisticFight
Twitter: https://twitter.com/LinguisticFight
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Duolingo TinyCards Flashcards - tinycards.duolingo.com/users/Icystrider
My Blog - http://flowmindset.wordpress.com
8 min - E040 - The Balance of Personal Freedom
We have a lot of freedom, especially in the US. But, what does it all mean? How can we harness our freedoms in the best way. How can we pick up from the mind-ways of others to learn, and maybe show them love by joining in on their schtik. In knowing yourself, you can understanding that a blend of what someone else is doing or not doing doesn’t mean that you are losing yourself or not being authentic. Be clear on your purpose for doing something - always. You want to show love, and if that means doing a little more, or something that is a little outside of your comfort zone - do it. Make it happen, and grow from it.
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DONATING or SHARING …. The two biggest things that you can do if you want to support and/or be involved in some way. I want to keep doing this, and with your help, I can keep on keep’n on ;D Here’s the donation link: https://anchor.fm/LoveHaShem/support
If you share via Instagram, feel free to tag @flowmindset: Thanks for listening!
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(^_^) Stay connected via
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YouTube: www.youtube.com/user/TheLinguisticFight
Twitter: https://twitter.com/LinguisticFight
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Duolingo TinyCards Flashcards - tinycards.duolingo.com/users/Icystrider
My Blog - http://flowmindset.wordpress.com
8 min - Music by Zechariah Mathz - Sweet Pine
This piece is called Sweet Pine, and it's by Zechariah Mathz
Check more of his music out here: @Zechariah Mathz https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsf1e1EuBQPyYAlo7ZiFcJA
Sending you sunshine and love! (^_^*
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DONATING or SHARING …. The two biggest things that you can do if you want to support and/or be involved in some way. I want to keep doing this, and with your help, I can keep on keep’n on ;D Here’s the donation link: https://anchor.fm/LoveHaShem/support
If you share via Instagram, feel free to tag @flowmindset: Thanks for listening!
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My Blog - http://flowmindset.wordpress.com
2 min - E039 - Use the Matchmaker!What is a Matchmaker (Shadchan)? And why is a Shadchan important? We cover this and more within this episode. Here’s some details from Wiki: Shadchan (Hebrew: שַׁדְּכָן, plural shadchanim or shadchonim Hebrew: שַׁדְּכֳנִם) is a Hebrew word for matchmaker. The word Shadchan often refers to Shadchanim or people who carry out Shidduchim as a profession within the religious Jewish community. However, Shadchan can also be used to refer to anyone who introduces two single Jews to one another with the hope that they will form a couple. Centuries of experience and tradition have shown that a good match is most likely to be formed between people with similar outlooks, attitudes, beliefs and backgrounds.Therefore, a matchmaker is most likely to be someone who is familiar with both sides and is in a position to introduce the interested parties to each other. The Shidduch (Hebrew: שִׁדּוּךְ, pl. shidduchim שִׁדּוּכִים, Aramaic שידוכין) is a system of matchmaking in which Jewish singles are introduced to one another[1] in Orthodox Jewish communities for the purpose of marriage. In Orthodox Jewish circles, dating is limited to the search for a marriage partner. Both sides (usually the singles themselves, parents, close relatives or friends of the persons involved) make inquiries about the prospective partner, e.g. on his/her character, intelligence, level of learning, financial status, family and health status, appearance and level of religious observance. A shidduch often begins with a recommendation from family members, friends or others who see matchmaking as a mitzvah, or commandment. Some engage in it as a profession and charge a fee for their services. Usually a professional matchmaker is called a shadchan, but anyone who makes a shidduch is considered the shadchan for it LVH 39 Ahava 20 DatingF2 DONATING or SHARING …. The two biggest things that you can do if you want to support and/or be involved in some way. I want to keep doing this, and with your help, I can keep on keep’n on ;D Here’s the donation link: https://anchor.fm/LoveHaShem/support If you share via Instagram, feel free to tag @flowmindset: Thanks for listening! -------------------- (^_^) Stay connected via Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/flowmindset/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/user/TheLinguisticFight Twitter: https://twitter.com/LinguisticFight Tumblr: linguisticfight.tumblr.com/ Duolingo TinyCards Flashcards - tinycards.duolingo.com/users/Icystrider My Blog - http://flowmindset.wordpress.com7 min
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Welcome to Love Via HaShem (LvH). Learn about love, relationships, and Gd. Join me on this journey of learning and growth as we touch upon Jewish, Christian, and even Buddhist perspectives all while…
having fun in the process. Educate and train yourself on how to date, maintain and grow a relationship, as well as gain wisdom for yourself and your family family. Enjoy music and have a good laugh as you grow and share your knowledge with others.