Introducing: Ice Cold Case — In 2002, Madison McGhee’s father, John McGhee, was shot and killed in his own home in Belmont County, Ohio. Driven by her desire to find justice she began conducting her own investigation into his murder that remains unsolved to this day. The police investigation did not yield any significant leads, leaving Madison and her family with more questions than answers - until now. Join her not only on a quest for justice, for closure, for answers and she stops at nothing to answer this question: Who Killed J.C. McGhee? It doesn’t get more personal than this.

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EPISODE TITLE: A Case as Cold as Ice

This is the story of what happened to J.C. McGhee on July 11, 2002 according to police records — some of which may not be entirely accurate nor adequate. Twenty years later, the search for answers begins.

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In this episode of lovelustfridays, hosts Jake Deptula and Michele Locke are joined by Heather, who previously shared her emotional journey in episode 18 of lovelustfear, titled "I Did Not Want to Lose This Man." Heather opens up about her battles with self-worth, controlling relationships, and emotional and psychological abuse, revealing how she found the courage to break free and rebuild her life. Heather and Michele also discuss their unique rivalry-turned-friendship, shedding light on the complexities of love, vulnerability, and personal growth. The conversation delves into Heather's experiences navigating the worlds of fitness competitions and the legal community, highlighting how predatory attitudes, misogyny, and gossip have impacted her life.

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Haley Gray | Producer & Researcher

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topics | #LovelustFridays #SelfWorth #TraumaRecovery #HealingJourney #EmotionalAbuse #FindingYourVoice #FreedomFromControl #PsychologicalHealing #SupportNetworks #RebuildingTrust #Faith #PersonalGrowth #OvercomingAdversity #HopeAndHealing #SurvivorStrength #HealthyBoundaries #ToxicRelationships #Recovery #SelfReflection #Fitness #Bodybuilidng

After enduring sexual harassment in her early teens, Lynn turns to older men for comfort as she enters adulthood. She becomes pregnant by an abusive partner, faces the heart-wrenching decision of abortion, and suffers further assault. Despite her longing to heal, she becomes caught in toxic cycles, growing increasingly isolated and trapped. Driven by the need to end the cycle of abuse, she fights to break free.

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“I developed very fast. I felt like I almost went from being a little girl to being a young woman, who was leered at and gawked at…” - Lynn

“They became abusive…you never knew what kind of person you were gonna get with him.” - Lynn

“…there's no way that I'm gonna get pregnant. and that's exactly what happened.” - Lynn

“A few months later I got a phone call from the father of the baby, from my previous boyfriend, He broke into the house in the middle of the night. He walked into my bedroom, scared the hell out of me. And then in the morning he had left me this incredibly creepy note that said, amongst other things, I just wanted to watch you sleep.” - Lynn

“…that was his way of getting me away from everything that I knew, my job, my friends, my hometown, any connection that I had to anyone to get me alone in a new state to isolate me.” - Lynn

“I encourage everyone out there who has experienced any type of abuse, whether it be emotional or physical, psychological, sexual, to find a good outlet.” - Lynn

“I feel like every time I tell the story, now that I gain a little bit of myself.” - Lynn

topics | #Relationships #EmotionalAbuse #ToxicDynamics #Trust #SelfWorth #AbusiveRelationships #EmotionalManipulation #SexualAssault #ToxicRelationships #RedFlags #Support #Silencing #Fear #Trauma #Reporting #Assault #GenerationalTrauma #Healing #Partner

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National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)

Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)

Text: START to 88788 

https://www.thehotline.org/

https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline

https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/

https://www.hopealliancetx.org/

To assist those whose lives have been affected by family and sexual violence by providing safety, services, and developing partnerships that lead to hope, healing, and prevention.

To provide hope of future generations through prevention and be a leader in saving and transforming lives affected by family and sexual violence.

https://evawintl.org/

We confront interpersonal violence against adults and adolescents of all genders. We specialize in trauma-informed law enforcement responses—from the first interaction with a victim through the investigation and potential prosecution. Positive outcomes for survivors require everyone working together, so we also champion collaborative practices, with multidisciplinary training for health care providers, prosecutors, advocates, and others who respond to survivors.

https://trainingcaw.org/

The National Training Center on Crimes Against Women (NTC) is a state-of-the-art facility in Dallas, Texas that provides year-round training for those addressing violence against women. Leveraging the rich history of the Conference on Crimes Against Women, NTC offers learning opportunities ranging from basic to advanced levels. Additionally, NTC builds community in the region by hosting free events, even those outside its primary focus areas.

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In this episode of lovelustfridays, hosts Jake Deptula and Michele Locke explore the intersection of spirituality, relationships, and personal transformation with guest Amber Rasmussen, host of Next Realm and Ex-Wives Undercover. Jake opens up about his intense connection with a karmic soulmate, while Michele shares her deep-seated fear of visiting a psychic. The conversation unpacks the role of psychics, spiritual mediums, and the often-misused concept of twin flames, exploring cosmic and karmic connections. Amber shares how the death of her nephew ignited her spiritual curiosity, leading her to uncover signs and experiences that shaped her beliefs. The discussion also highlights how spirituality and religion can influence relationships, helping individuals set boundaries and recognize toxic patterns. Amber details the real-life story behind Ex-Wives Undercover, revealing how she and her co-host exposed a serial manipulator, ultimately saving a woman’s life. The episode includes a thought-provoking discussion on the contrast between spirituality and organized religion and their impact on love, trust, and personal growth.

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Spiritual Abuse: https://www.thehotline.org/resources/what-is-spiritual-abuse/#:~:text=Regardless%20of%20either%20partner's%20religious,creating%20an%20emotional%20safety%20plan 

Ex-Wives Undercover: https://linktr.ee/Exwivesundercover  

Next Realm: https://www.nextrealmpod.com/ 

Jake’s Episode of Next Realm: https://www.nextrealmpod.com/8-beyond-the-veil-a-grandmothers-last-goodbye-and-life-lessons/ 

Reach Amber at NextRealmPodcast@gmail.com

“Extraordinary Measures” Movie https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1244659/ 

Crystal’s LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/CrystalJCorl 

The Visitation Podcast: https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/the-visitation-the-visitation-podcast-JDzQ82-hGKs/

Jake’s Karmic Soulmate interview: (Jake is credited as “Charlie M.”)

https://www.getmegiddy.com/dating-karmic-soulmate

The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma (Book)

https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Healing-Trauma/dp/0143127748

More about Twin Flames from Medical News Today: https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/twin-flame-meaning#Summary 

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National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)

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topics | #spirituality #personalgrowth #relationships #karma #energy #crystals #intuition #familylaw #podcasting #emotionalhealing #psychics #twinflames #soulmates #familyconnections #emotionalintelligence #spiritualawakening #cosmicsoulmate #karmicrelationships #spiritualconnections #toxicrelationships #storytelling #wisdom #lifeexperiences #love #personalstories #connection #meditation #celebrityencounters #sharingexperiences #signsfrombeyond

After escaping a series of turbulent relationships, Heather finds hope in a charismatic and attractive bodybuilder. However, she soon becomes ensnared in a web of drug addiction, sex, pornography, and psychological manipulation. The relentless abuse drives her to multiple suicide attempts, leaving Heather's life hanging in the balance.

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“I had a boyfriend, he cheated on me…I was so devastated. I just hated men. I hated what they did to me. I hated how they made me feel. I hated who I was trying to please them.” - Heather

“I ended up dating again because I love relationships. I do. I like to be in one. I like to feel special to somebody.” - Heather

“We were married. And he told me that one of his fantasies was to have two girls and a guy.” - Heather

“When he found out that I had this emotional relationship, I allowed him to do certain things that were very humiliating…but I felt like I deserved it because of what I did.” - Heather

“At one point I prayed. I'm like, God, listen, Just make me okay with being alone and then, a month later is when I met (him).” - Heather

“I found my perfect man, like in every sense of the word, this man was everything I didn't think I deserved, but knew I deserved.” - Heather

“He had to tell me what kind of relationship he wanted. And he presented to me something called the hot wife lifestyle.” - Heather

“Every single time that we did anything, it would just suck another piece of my soul 80 percent of our conversations only revolved around sex, only revolved around who he wanted me to sleep with.” - Heather 

“We're doing drugs so much we couldn't communicate unless we were fucked up, unless we were high.” - Heather

“I would succumb to whatever he wanted to do. My anxiety was through the roof. My depression was just getting worse and worse And so that's when I actively tried to commit suicide.” - Heather 

#ToxicRelationships #LoveAndPain #SelfWorthJourney #MentalHealthAwareness #SelfDestruction #HotWifeLifestyle #RelationshipTrauma #DepressionAndAnxiety #OvercomingAddiction #FindingStrength #SuicidePrevention #RecoveryJourney #LoveAndLoss #ToxicLove #AbusiveRelationships #EmotionalPain #RecoveringFromAbuse #FindingSelfLove  #RelationshipHealing #AnxietyAndDepression #OvercomingTrauma #HopeAndHealing #InsecurityAndHealing #TurbulentRelationships #EmotionalPain #Bodybuilding #SelfWorthJourney #OvercomingAddiction

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Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)

Text: START to 88788 

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From his grandmother’s unwavering support during his childhood to the vivid dream that coincided with her final goodbye, Jake reflects on love, loss, and the mysterious signs that transcend this realm.

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You can also check out Amber Rasmussen’s other podcast Ex-Wives Uncover: Liars, Cheaters, & Love Cons where she and co-host Athena go undercover’ to help women understand the seedy tactics of love criminals so you can live happily ever after, Psychopath Free! If you love stories about romance scams, catfishing, cheaters exposed, gaslighting, and people who live double lives, this podcast is right up your alley – where the line between true crime and matters of the heart blurs. Ex-Wives Undercover shares chilling tales of survivors who conquered the ultimate crime of toxic love. Learn to spot the red flags, protect yourself, and find solace in the stories of those who've walked away from the brink. Subscribe now to join our community and become an undercover detective in pursuit of healing and justice. Every Tuesday, the investigation continues.

Ex-Wives Undercover: Liars, Cheaters, & Love Cons

https://www.exwivesundercover.com/

https://www.instagram.com/exwivesundercover/

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ex-wives-undercover-liars-cheaters-love-cons/id1536067021

https://open.spotify.com/show/5goyIEk4DkTi79WFl0fg29

Jake, Michele, and Haley team up with Lauryn (lovelustfear) for an epic battle between Galentine’s Day and Valentine’s Day, sharing awkward dating experiences that have shaped their views on the holiday. They dive into the communication struggles between men and women, the decisions behind regifting, and how their understanding of love languages has changed over the years. Their conversation also touches on classic Valentine’s Day topics—proposals, gifts like chocolates and stuffed animals, and the pressure to make the day unforgettable. To wrap it up, they get playful with games like ‘Never Have I Ever’ and ‘Love it or Leave it.’

https://rosetoyofficial-us.com/ (Tell them Michele sent you!)

https://stlzoo.org/give/zoo-parents-program/valentine 

https://www.farmsanctuary.org/news-stories/2025-valentines-day/?utm_source=chatgpt.com

https://www.walmart.com/ip/DesignPac-Jack-Links-Valentine-Meat-Fur-You-Heart-Box-0-625oz/2465067498

https://manlymanco.com/products/meathearts?variant=31479920951379

https://www.etsy.com/market/valentines_coupons 

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Haley Gray | Producer & Researcher

https://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearch

www.HaleyGrayResearch.com 

National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)

Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)

Text: START to 88788 

https://www.thehotline.org/

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On Hold for You Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

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topics | #ValentinesDay #Relationships #RealityTV #Psychology #GalentinesDay #Love #SelfAcceptance #Pressures #Dating #Friendship #Intimacy #Vulnerability #ChildhoodExperiences #GenderDifferences #Communication #Expectations #Celebrations #Midwest #Chicago #Boston #LoveLanguages #GiftGiving #SelfLove #Design #Events #PersonalConnections #ThoughtfulGifts #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalConnections #CreativeIdeas #SelfReflection #Compatibility #Nostalgia #PopCulture #EmotionalBaggage

In this episode, Jake and Michele are joined by Gina and Amber from the Weird True Crime podcast to discuss the tragic story of Judy Malinowski, a mother of two who was set on fire by her abuser, Michael Slager, and bravely fought for 696 days to survive—ultimately making legal history by testifying against him.

The discussion delves into the devastating impact of domestic violence, the legal significance of Judy’s case, her brave testimony, and the historic role she played in speaking out against her abuser. The panel also explores the warning signs of abusive relationships, the difficulties victims face when trying to escape, and the lasting legacy of Judy’s Law. They emphasize the importance of raising awareness about domestic abuse and the vital work Weird True Crime is doing to highlight lesser-known cases and bring attention to critical issues in the true crime world.

**PLEASE NOTE** The topics discussed in this episode are dark in nature and may be distressing to some listeners. We will be exploring sensitive subjects, including domestic violence, severe fire burns, and murder, which may not be suitable for all audiences. Listener discretion is strongly advised. 

https://www.thehotline.org/

https://www.thehotline.org/resources/get-help-50-obstacles-to-leaving/ 

https://www.facebook.com/Judysfoundation.org 

https://www.weirdtruecrime.com/

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/weird-true-crime/id1642363009

https://open.spotify.com/show/3BHNffWPPzW79m0s5phIWM

https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/9d0c54e2-1ec0-4994-bc3c-33c8a0c3dcaf/weird-true-crime

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcAPlqQ1t9nzA9B6kAKifmA

https://lawandcrime.com/crime/michael-slager-pleads-guilty-to-murder-after-dousing-girlfriend-with-gas-setting-judy-malinowski-on-fire/ 

https://www.judysfoundation.org/about/

https://people.com/judy-malinowski-woman-set-fire-ex-testified-grave-behind-bars-life-7503471

https://people.com/crime/the-fire-that-took-her-judy-malinowski-case/

https://people.com/crime/judy-malinowski-set-fire-fiance-heroic-fight/

https://people.com/judy-malinowski-last-moments-fire-that-took-her-exclusive-7503538

https://appgateway.drc.ohio.gov/OffenderSearch/Search/Details/A731261

https://www.nbc4i.com/news/judy-malinowski-dies-nearly-two-years-after-being-set-on-fire/

https://www.10tv.com/article/news/local/gahanna-man-pleads-no-contest-charges-setting-woman-fire/530-bebe39bc-62ac-43a7-b42a-50e121da7965

https://people.com/crime/judy-malinowski-set-on-fire-fiance-5-things/

https://www.10tv.com/article/news/local/judy-malinowski-attack-survivor-who-fought-change-ohio-law-dies-33/530-1fe7ee85-aa78-499e-bad3-f065fae1bbcf

https://web.archive.org/web/20190702053044/https://www.10tv.com/article/find-help-run-woman-set-fire-shares-message-abused-women

https://web.archive.org/web/20190702083142/https://www.10tv.com/article/woman-set-fire-i-want-fight-live

https://web.archive.org/web/20171002181027/http://www.10tv.com/article/woman-set-fire-attackers-punishment-doesnt-fit-crime

https://web.archive.org/web/20190702051023/http://www.10tv.com/article/judge-woman-set-fire-allowed-record-testimony-potential-murder-trial

https://www.egan-ryan.com/obituary/Judith-Malinowski

https://www.gofundme.com/f/hope-and-help-for-judy

https://www.wdtn.com/news/u-s-world/slager-sentenced-to-life-in-prison-after-pleading-guilty-in-judy-malinowski-murder-case/

https://www.dispatch.com/story/news/crime/2018/07/05/slager-pleads-avoids-death-penalty/987168007/

https://web.archive.org/web/20190705225458/http://www.10tv.com/article/judy-malinowskis-daughters-our-mommy-didnt-suffer-vain 

https://people.com/crime/judy-malinowski-murderer-michael-slager-pleads-sentenced/

https://people.com/judy-malinowski-fire-took-her-exclusive-dying-wish-daughters-7505022

Judy’s deposition https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IBapvOaUjj4 

The Fire That Took Her (2022), https://www.imdb.com/title/tt21995004/ 

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Haley Gray | Producer & Researcher

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National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)

Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)

Text: START to 88788 

https://www.thehotline.org/

https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline

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Introducing: You Probably Think This Story’s About You — This isn’t your typical true crime story. Brittani Ard steps back into the shadowy labyrinth of memories, scars, and fragile ties that bind us to our past. Where wounds still ache and the bonds of connection blur between salvation and entrapment. After revealing her own story in the first 8 chapters, she’s pulling at the threads of the past—threads so delicate they threaten to unravel everything. This time, it’s not just her story. It’s the stories of others whose lives intertwine with hers in ways no one could have predicted. A woman searches for a photograph of her abusive ex, but the picture holds more than just memories. A foster youth exchanges black trash bags for a voice that refuses to be silenced anymore, revealing a haunting past that demands to be heard. And a story of rekindled love, as strength and vulnerability collide to reveal what was always meant to be. You Probably Think This Story’s About You is raw, haunting, and achingly human—a tapestry of messy, beautiful lessons stitched together by the lives we touch and the stories we share. The secrets we carried no longer have power over us.

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EPISODE TITLE: It Started as a Love Story  

*Some names and details have been changed to conceal the identities of those who wish to remain anonymous.* When Brittani Ard matches with Kanon on Hinge sparks fly. Their first date revealed an instant connection and chemistry. Kanon is devastatingly handsome with a charm that disarmed even the most guarded heart — plus he is surprisingly emotionally available for a man in his forties. It’s as if the universe has conspired to bring them together, two soulmates destined to find each other. The couple spends the next five months diving fast into a whirlwind romance. Their connection so intense and their bond so deep that it seems like Brittani’s fairytale has finally found its happy ending. Until one weekend that changed her life forever. 

Executive Producer Brittani Ard

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This episode contains mentions of suicide. 

If you are having thoughts of suicide, please reach out to the resources below.  

Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Call or Text 988  

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In this episode of lovelustfridays, host Jake Deptula and producer Haley Gray discuss the importance of National Stalking Awareness Month. They discuss the legacy of Peggy Klinke, whose tragic murder led to the establishment of National Stalking Awareness Month, and discuss the significant work done by advocates like her sister, Debbie Riddle, and organizations such as SPARC. They delve into the often-overlooked crime of stalking, its relationship with domestic violence, and the misconceptions surrounding it. Haley shares her personal experience with stalking, highlighting the realization and challenges faced by victims. The conversation emphasizes the need for awareness, better legal support, and community resources for stalking survivors. Resources and contact information for further support and advocacy are provided.

https://www.stalkingawareness.org/  

https://www.standupresources.com/ 

https://www.actionagainststalking.org/ 

www.womenslaw.org 

www.victimconnect.org 

Peggy’s Strictly Stalking episode https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083?i=1000556692586 Haley’s Strictly Stalking episode https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083?i=1000683900247

Strictly Stalking Podcast

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083

https://www.instagram.com/strictlystalkingpod

Moms And Mysteries Podcast

https://www.momsandmysteries.com/ 

National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)

Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)

Text: START to 88788 

https://www.thehotline.org/

https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline

https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/

https://web.archive.org/web/20230115111213/https://www.cdc.gov/injury/features/prevent-stalking/index.html

https://spu.edu/-/media/administration/safety-and-security/documents/History-of-Stalking-Awareness-Month.ashx#:~:text=NSAM%20began%20in%20response%20to,to%20stalking%20and%20save%20lives 

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Michele Locke

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https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/

Haley Gray | Producer & Researcher

https://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearch

www.HaleyGrayResearch.com 

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