Host Jake Deptula is joined by family law attorney Michele Locke and Gabi Conti, an author, producer, and TV host known for her candid discussions on dating and relationships.

This episode explores the challenges of workplace romances, the impact of dating apps, and how to recognize and address emotional and physical abuse. Gabi, who previously shared her own toxic dating story in LoveLustFear Episode 4, "We Can’t Break Up," offers valuable insights on spotting red flags and empowering others through her work, including her book 20 Guys You Date in Your 20s and her podcast Bad Influencer. Michele reflects on her own hesitations about reentering the dating scene after two decades post-divorce, while Gabi provides practical advice for navigating modern relationships—emphasizing the importance of practice, staying open-minded, and prioritizing personal well-being. The discussion also features workplace anti-fraternization policies, celebrity relationship dynamics, and essential steps for identifying and escaping toxic situations.

Gabi - Episode Link
"We Can’t Break Up"
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear-gabi-we-cant-break-up/id1735876283?i=1000654153175
https://open.spotify.com/episode/3GFc3ga6PgAKaAOGqySQFY

links

Live Event 12/6 Los Angeles, CA
See Gabi in Holy Cannoli Comedy at the Hollywood Improv Lab on 12/16
https://improv.com/hollywood/event/holy+cannoli+comedy+with+jaclyn+marfuggi+caprio+and+gabriella+maria+conti%21/13938693/

Gabi Conti
personal website | https://www.gabiconti.com/
instagram | https://www.instagram.com/itsgabiconti/
tiktok | https://www.tiktok.com/@itsgabiconti
twitter | https://twitter.com/itsgabiconti
book | https://www.gabiconti.com/book-twenty-guys-you-date-in-your-twenties-by-gabi-conti
bad influencer | podcast | https://link.chtbl.com/LdLb8v6u

Michele Locke
https://www.michelelocke.com/
https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/

Additional Links 
National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)
Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
Text: START to 88788 
https://www.thehotline.org/
https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline
https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/

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Former judge and veteran divorce attorney Michele Locke pulls back the curtain on the world of family law. From messy divorces to high-stakes custody battles and domestic violence cases, Michele brings her courtroom experience to the mic—sharing personal stories, legal insights, and real-world advice. Whether you’re facing family court or just curious about how it all works, this episode delivers a powerful, no-nonsense introduction to the emotional and legal terrain of family law.
lovelustlaw premieres July 1st!
**DISCLAIMER** The information shared in this podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. It should not be considered as professional legal advice or a substitute for seeking professional legal advice. 
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Credits
lovelustlaw is hosted by Michele Locke
Jake Deptula is Executive Producer
Haley Gray is Producer, Writer, & Researcher
Jared Landis is Sound Editor & Mixer 
Links
Michele Locke
https://www.michelelocke.com/
https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/
Jake Deptula
www.instagram.com/jaked3000
lovelustfear
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283
https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec
https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/
Strictly Stalking
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083
https://open.spotify.com/show/5dw1NJIObaOsj0o7JdruVQ
https://www.instagram.com/strictlystalkingpod/
Haley Gray | Producer & Researcher
https://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearch
www.HaleyGrayResearch.com 
National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)
Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
Text: START to 88788 
https://www.thehotline.org/
https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline
https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/
topics | #FamilyLaw #DivorceAttorney #MicheleLocke #CourtroomInsights #LegalAdvice #FamilyCourt #LegalPodcast #TrueCourtStories #BehindTheBench #LawUnfiltered #NoNonsenseLaw #RealTalkLaw #DivorceSupport #CustodyBattles #MessyDivorces #ChildCustody #DivorceDrama #FamilyLawMatters #DomesticViolenceAwareness #SurvivingFamilyCourt #EmotionalJustice #CourtroomRealities #FamilyLawTruth

Jake, Michele, and Haley team up with Lauryn (lovelustfear) for an epic battle between Galentine’s Day and Valentine’s Day, sharing awkward dating experiences that have shaped their views on the holiday. They dive into the communication struggles between men and women, the decisions behind regifting, and how their understanding of love languages has changed over the years. Their conversation also touches on classic Valentine’s Day topics—proposals, gifts like chocolates and stuffed animals, and the pressure to make the day unforgettable. To wrap it up, they get playful with games like ‘Never Have I Ever’ and ‘Love it or Leave it.’

Discussion Links 
https://rosetoyofficial-us.com/ (Tell them Michele sent you!)
https://stlzoo.org/give/zoo-parents-program/valentine 
https://www.farmsanctuary.org/news-stories/2025-valentines-day/?utm_source=chatgpt.com
https://www.walmart.com/ip/DesignPac-Jack-Links-Valentine-Meat-Fur-You-Heart-Box-0-625oz/2465067498
https://manlymanco.com/products/meathearts?variant=31479920951379
https://www.etsy.com/market/valentines_coupons 
Series Links
lovelustfear
https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/
lovelustfridays
https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfridays
Jake Deptula
www.instagram.com/jaked3000
Michele Locke
https://www.michelelocke.com/
https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/
Haley Gray | Producer & Researcher
https://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearch
www.HaleyGrayResearch.com 
National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)
Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
Text: START to 88788 
https://www.thehotline.org/
https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline
https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/
music | sounds
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topics | #ValentinesDay #Relationships #RealityTV #Psychology #GalentinesDay #Love #SelfAcceptance #Pressures #Dating #Friendship #Intimacy #Vulnerability #ChildhoodExperiences #GenderDifferences #Communication #Expectations #Celebrations #Midwest #Chicago #Boston #LoveLanguages #GiftGiving #SelfLove #Design #Events #PersonalConnections #ThoughtfulGifts #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalConnections #CreativeIdeas #SelfReflection #Compatibility #Nostalgia #PopCulture #EmotionalBaggage

In this episode of lovelustfridays, host Jake Deptula and producer Haley Gray discuss the importance of National Stalking Awareness Month. They discuss the legacy of Peggy Klinke, whose tragic murder led to the establishment of National Stalking Awareness Month, and discuss the significant work done by advocates like her sister, Debbie Riddle, and organizations such as SPARC. They delve into the often-overlooked crime of stalking, its relationship with domestic violence, and the misconceptions surrounding it. Haley shares her personal experience with stalking, highlighting the realization and challenges faced by victims. The conversation emphasizes the need for awareness, better legal support, and community resources for stalking survivors. Resources and contact information for further support and advocacy are provided.
Stalking Support | Links 

https://www.stalkingawareness.org/  

https://www.standupresources.com/ 

https://www.actionagainststalking.org/ 

www.womenslaw.org 

www.victimconnect.org 

Additional Links
Peggy’s Strictly Stalking episode https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083?i=1000556692586 Haley’s Strictly Stalking episode https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083?i=1000683900247
Strictly Stalking Podcast
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083
https://www.instagram.com/strictlystalkingpod
Moms And Mysteries Podcast
https://www.momsandmysteries.com/ 
National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)
Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
Text: START to 88788 
https://www.thehotline.org/
https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline
https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/

Case Source Links
https://web.archive.org/web/20230115111213/https://www.cdc.gov/injury/features/prevent-stalking/index.html
https://spu.edu/-/media/administration/safety-and-security/documents/History-of-Stalking-Awareness-Month.ashx#:~:text=NSAM%20began%20in%20response%20to,to%20stalking%20and%20save%20lives 

links
lovelustfear
https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/
lovelustfridays
https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfridays
Jake Deptula
www.instagram.com/jaked3000
Michele Locke
https://www.michelelocke.com/
https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/
Haley Gray | Producer & Researcher
https://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearch
www.HaleyGrayResearch.com 

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topics | #relationships #lawenforcement #dating #trauma #domesticviolence #trust #intimatepartnerviolence #caseanalysis #accountability #emotionalresponses #legalanalysis #officerbehavior #patternsofabuse #investigativestrategies #communication #casestudies #nsam2025 #nationalstlakingawarenessmonth #peggyklinke #debbieriddle

In this episode of lovelustfridays, hosts Jake Deptula and Michele Locke are joined by Debra, who shared her harrowing story in lovelustfear Episode 12, “I’ve Always Seemed To Attract The Crazy Type.”

Debra talks about her journey to get sober after a tough first marriage and dealing with toxic relationships. They dive into the challenges of staying sober, how addiction can impact relationships, and how important it is to have self-worth and resilience in recovery. Michele and Jake also share their own experiences with alcohol and dating and the pressure to drink at social events. They also discuss online dating, dating age gaps, narcissism, and the rise of professional matchmaking services.

guest links | debra

The Alternative Hair Alchemist | Podcast
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/alternative-hair-alchemist-a-podcast-about/id1627588998

links

Michele Locke
https://www.michelelocke.com/
https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/

Haley Gray | Producer & Researcher
https://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearch
www.HaleyGrayResearch.com 

Additional Links 
Three Day Rule - Matchmaking Service
https://www.threedayrule.com/

National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)
Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
Text: START to 88788 
https://www.thehotline.org/
https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline
https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/

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topics | #sobriety #addiction #relationships #personalgrowth #alcohol #recovery #dating #selfdiscovery #support #empowerment #onlinedating #narcissism #relationships #matchmaking #selfdiscovery #datingprofiles #threedayrule #agedynamics #personalgrowth #empowerment #love

In this episode of lovelustfridays, hosts Jake Deptula and Michele Locke explore the intersection of spirituality, relationships, and personal transformation with guest Amber Rasmussen, host of Next Realm and Ex-Wives Undercover. Jake opens up about his intense connection with a karmic soulmate, while Michele shares her deep-seated fear of visiting a psychic. The conversation unpacks the role of psychics, spiritual mediums, and the often-misused concept of twin flames, exploring cosmic and karmic connections. Amber shares how the death of her nephew ignited her spiritual curiosity, leading her to uncover signs and experiences that shaped her beliefs. The discussion also highlights how spirituality and religion can influence relationships, helping individuals set boundaries and recognize toxic patterns. Amber details the real-life story behind Ex-Wives Undercover, revealing how she and her co-host exposed a serial manipulator, ultimately saving a woman’s life. The episode includes a thought-provoking discussion on the contrast between spirituality and organized religion and their impact on love, trust, and personal growth.

Amber Rasmussen + Next Ream | Links
Website: https://www.nextrealmpod.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nextrealmpod/
Story Submissions: [email protected]

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Discussion Links 
https://www.thehotline.org/
Spiritual Abuse: https://www.thehotline.org/resources/what-is-spiritual-abuse/#:~:text=Regardless%20of%20either%20partner's%20religious,creating%20an%20emotional%20safety%20plan 
Ex-Wives Undercover: https://linktr.ee/Exwivesundercover  
Next Realm: https://www.nextrealmpod.com/ 
Jake’s Episode of Next Realm: https://www.nextrealmpod.com/8-beyond-the-veil-a-grandmothers-last-goodbye-and-life-lessons/ 
Reach Amber at [email protected]
“Extraordinary Measures” Movie https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1244659/ 
Crystal’s LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/CrystalJCorl 
The Visitation Podcast: https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/the-visitation-the-visitation-podcast-JDzQ82-hGKs/
Jake’s Karmic Soulmate interview: (Jake is credited as “Charlie M.”)
https://www.getmegiddy.com/dating-karmic-soulmate
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma (Book)
https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Healing-Trauma/dp/0143127748
More about Twin Flames from Medical News Today: https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/twin-flame-meaning#Summary 

Series Links
lovelustfear
https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/
lovelustfridays
https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfridays
Jake Deptula
www.instagram.com/jaked3000
Michele Locke
https://www.michelelocke.com/
https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/
Haley Gray | Producer & Researcher
https://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearch
www.HaleyGrayResearch.com 
National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)
Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
Text: START to 88788 
https://www.thehotline.org/
https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline
https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/

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topics | #spirituality #personalgrowth #relationships #karma #energy #crystals #intuition #familylaw #podcasting #emotionalhealing #psychics #twinflames #soulmates #familyconnections #emotionalintelligence #spiritualawakening #cosmicsoulmate #karmicrelationships #spiritualconnections #toxicrelationships #storytelling #wisdom #lifeexperiences #love #personalstories #connection #meditation #celebrityencounters #sharingexperiences #signsfrombeyond

Host Jake Deptula speaks with Danielle, a caregiver and spiritual healing advocate, who shares her traumatic experiences with domestic violence in high school. 

Danielle details the verbal, physical, and sexual abuse she suffered at the hands of her then-boyfriend, along with the stalking that ensued. Danielle highlights the critical support from her family, especially her mother, which helped her escape the abusive relationship and reveals the challenges of rebuilding her life in a new school, finding supportive friends, and learning to trust again. Inspired by her role as a caregiver for her mother, who is battling cancer, Danielle emphasizes the importance of spiritual wellness in her healing journey and aims to raise awareness about domestic abuse and spiritual paths to recovery.

**This episode of lovelustfridays contains topics including the sexual assault of a minor. Please listen with caution.**

topics | domestic violence, abuse, sexual assault, teen dating violence, stalking, healing, relationships, support systems, spiritual wellness, caregiving, mental health, awareness, cancer, cancer patient, domestic violence awareness month

links

Danielle Gray
Newsletter:
https://daniellegray.substack.com/
Awaken with Danielle Gray YouTube Channel: 
https://youtube.com/@awakenwithdaniellegray?si=HpHa_D653N7oAAOZ
Link To Danielle Gray's Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/iamdanielleegray/profilecard/?igsh=MXJsYjRvbGl4ZDVodg==

Additional Links (Topics Discussed)
Strictly Stalking Episode 157 “Stalked At School: A Campus Confrontation”
https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083

National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)
Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
Text: START to 88788 
https://www.thehotline.org/
https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline
https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/

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Host Jake Deptula and former associate family court judge and family law attorney Michele Locke sit down with Lena, an abusive marriage survivor from episode nine of lovelustfear, “He’s Your Problem Now.”

They discuss Lena's toxic marriage and the influence of cultural obligations in her Armenian community, the nuances of recognizing abuse, and how she found her voice and empowerment through her second husband's supportive and matrilineal Native American culture. The conversation also highlights the themes of coercive control, gaslighting, financial manipulation, and the emotional toll these experiences have on physical health, including the long-term effects of trauma. Also, they discuss the importance of support systems and reflect on the necessity of self-care in the healing process.

topics | cultural obligations, empowerment, trauma recovery, self-care, mental health, women's rights, love, relationships, trauma, abuse, relationships, cultural expectations, toxic traits, vulnerability, healing, hashimoto's disease, independence, personal growth, podcasting, toxic relationships

Lena - Episode Link
"He’s Your Problem Now"
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear-lena-hes-your-problem-now/id1735876283?i=1000657913302
https://open.spotify.com/episode/3VuTd9CszCR6CyVMNmddRW?si=zHN5QTHhRXGe-VK61UY9jg

links

Michele Locke
https://www.michelelocke.com/
https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D. (Author) (Book Recommended By Michele)
https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Healing-Trauma/dp/0143127748
More About Hashimoto's Disease
https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/hashimotos-disease/symptoms-causes/syc-20351855
Music Playing During Lena’s Freedom Ride, aka “The Grapevine”
Siouxsie and the Banshees (Spotify Playlist)
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/37i9dQZF1DZ06evO0KJgF1?si=k68HOnZbQVSZRBxD9OSVuQ

National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)
Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
Text: START to 88788 
https://www.thehotline.org/
https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline
https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/

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Host Jake Deptula and former family court judge and family law attorney Michele Locke sit down with Terra Newell, a victim advocate, public figure, and survivor of multiple toxic relationships.

They explore the complexities of toxic relationships and the expectations placed on survivors who become public figures. They also confront misconceptions stemming from media portrayals that often oversimplify these experiences, particularly beyond the sensational headlines of “Dirty John.” Additionally, they discuss the responsibilities of true crime content creators, focusing on the glorification of serial killer culture and the ethical considerations that come with storytelling. Also, how advocating for a victim-centered approach is essential for fostering safe spaces for survivors and recognizing that each individual's journey through trauma is uniquely their own.

topics | terra newell, domestic violence, toxic relationships, true crime, survivor stories, ethics in media, accountability, red flags, healing, victim support, dirty john, survival, podcasting, serial killer culture, responsibility, survivor, domestic violence awareness month

Terra Newell - Episode Link
"I Want You To Always Be Available To Me”
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear-terra-i-want-you-to-always-be-available-to-me/id1735876283?i=1000663173031
https://open.spotify.com/episode/2H7GJVeaVXV3cLvCsBTuC7?si=TlkZexWPT5WsIVcbm4I5Nw

links
Terra Newell
https://www.terranewellsurvival.com
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Host Jake Deptula and former associate family court judge and family law attorney Michele Locke sit down with Mira, a survivor and parent, from episode five of lovelustfear, “A F**king Broken Mess.”

They discuss the challenges of co-parenting with a narcissistic ex-partner, the complications substance abuse brings to custody battles, and how custody laws can prioritize parental rights over child welfare. The discussion also touches on why therapists might be reluctant to testify in custody cases. Strategies for handling high-conflict situations include documenting interactions, careful planning, and setting boundaries. Additionally, they examine the appeal of toxic relationship patterns and the warning signs to watch for. 

topics | custody, co-parenting, substance abuse, family law, child welfare, parental rights, therapy, legal advice, family dynamics, psychology, custody battles, personality disorders, toxic relationships, red flags, mental health, empathy, codependency, legal representation, domestic violence 

Mira - Episode Link
"A F**king Broken Mess"
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Narcissistic Trauma Healing (Recommended By Mira)
https://carolinestrawson.com/

Caroline Strawson is a multi-award winning Qualified & Accredited Trauma Therapist & Coach, Founder of The School of Trauma Informed Positive Psychology - a school with a mission to create a wave of change around trauma healing and education both personally and professionally.

National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)
Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
Text: START to 88788 
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