Have you ever felt you had to be all-or-nothing? Or if you're not The Best, then it's not worth doing?  Recognize that there is Joy and value in the middle, and a mission can still be served from there.  Give yourself permission to have joy by releasing extreme standards- Things don't have to be just right, or best ever.  By getting out of our own way and being present, then the middle is where we all can meet and connect, rather than dangling alone at polar ends.