Heavily inspired by Bell Hooks, today we talk about love, the responsibility of love and harm within and by our communities.

Part one of the fatphobia results on social media and mainstream media. What's happening with clothing sizes, the pro-ana community and being happy while fat.

Today we speak about undesirability, dating again, the experiences that come with it and the few lessons I've picked up. There is laughter, tears and frustration.

Taking a look at South African political parties manifestos as we gear up to vote in 2023.

Looking at femininity, the packaging and selling of femininity and how being denied femininity as a undesirable human impacts my thoughts on this discussion.

Let's talk about friendship, making friends as you get older, desirability in friendships and friends who break your heart.

Let's talk about sex, touch on the depictions of black women in mainstream pornography and how I feel about sex in the modern tim. TW// SA

Speaking about navigating being single for the first time since my teens, navigating what it means to move on, how to move on and breaking up with no tangible reasons.

Let's talk about money, how growing up affected our financial "literacy" and how we deal with money as adults and changes we'd like to make and healing our relationship with money

Part 2 of the Y2K resurgence, pro ana and social media. We talk about getting help and some underlying issues and experiences.