Luminous Life Force with River Roaring

Our sexuality was not meant to be repressed and ignored.
Nor was it meant to be empty or unsatisfying.
Nor was it meant to put us into performative servitude.
Or endless searching for “the one” … or endless drama spirals.

These may all seem like external issues, but they are internal.
They are inside you.

Sharing sacred sexual union is simply the highest I’ve been in my lifetime.

These encounters have enriched my life to the point that I have said many times I have the most beautiful life any human has ever lived. A life that has included so many open hearted, magical connecting experiences.

And I want this for you too if you feel called. 💞

In this episode, I share sexual secrets that can liberate us from these painful cycles and help us enjoy a whole new level of sexual experience.

We started this conversation last week in Part One, so check out last week’s episode to catch the whole story.

Today I include the spiritual, quantum physics, or multidimensional aspects.

Then I give you some fun things you can do today which I hope you enjoy.

Once each of us balances our feminine and masculine energies within by coming into true love and acceptance of our self, our partners, and our communities…. All of humanity will step into balance as will the earth herself.

Open to love and acceptance of yourself, your partners, and your groups and communities, and you will open the doors to heaven’s gate in your love and sex lIfe.

" Each time that you put yourself down, each time that you are harsh, each time that you feel so isolated and alienated that you deny your brotherhood with all that is, you close down a little bit of that channel which is bringing in infinite creative energy to your body, and each time that occurs there is less energy into the heart. So, basically, those who have not worked through the issues that confront them at these three levels—self, self with another, and self with its groups—each time that you allow these issues to come and to be feared you have shut off some of the power that you need in your heart in order to live the life that you wish to live."
~ Q’uo

Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.

🤸🏼‍♀️ Oh, and ... my gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️
✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨

Let's hop on the phone and talk about where you're going in love, sex and intimacy!
Apply here for a free call, I'd love to chat with you.

riverroaring.com

You know how some people
- repress sex?
- have lots of unfulfilling sex?
- have good sex and then … drama blows it all up?

Fortunately, there is a simple, but not easy, path out of these knots to freedom and flow.

In fact, I’ve watched hundreds of people take the journey away from these persistent challenges successfully.

I just initiated a new sexual exploration with someone, and I feel clear, open, curious what expansion is available.

As I prepared for this episode I realized what I used to feel before I knew this secret when I was moving toward a sexual experience with someone, that I do NOT FEEL now:
- fear of my own performance
- fear of their performance
- fear of shrinking to nothing
- fear of dominating and controlling
- fear of drama or arguments
- fear of possession.

In this episode I share concepts that are new to most people I meet.
It’s not a secret because it’s not findable.
It’s a secret because when you haven’t experienced it, it’s hard to even imagine it might be true, so we don’t seek it.

So I pray this information either validates you, or sends shivers up your spine with possibilities you’ve never imagined.

Check out this episode for simple things you can do today to step toward this soul-liberation in your sex life as well as your whole life.

And tune in next week for Sex from the heart Part 2 where I will share the deeper spiritual angle on this, the cosmic perspective, as well as more stories and things you can do if you are interested in the spiritual, or quantum physics, part of this story.

" Each time that you put yourself down, each time that you are harsh, each time that you feel so isolated and alienated that you deny your brotherhood with all that is, you close down a little bit of that channel which is bringing in infinite creative energy to your body, and each time that occurs there is less energy into the heart. So, basically, those who have not worked through the issues that confront them at these three levels—self, self with another, and self with its groups—each time that you allow these issues to come and to be feared you have shut off some of the power that you need in your heart in order to live the life that you wish to live."
~ Q’uo

Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.

🤸🏼‍♀️ Oh, and ... my gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️
✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨

Let's hop on the phone and talk about where you're going in love, sex and intimacy!
Apply here for a free call, I'd love to chat with you.
riverroaring.com

How did I become a … sexual healer?
What does that even mean?

In this episode, I share how it all started and how I developed my special sauce.
I share about how we face the monsters to get to the magical land.

If you are my client, we begin with your dream.
And then it’s “wings in the air” and “feet on the ground” as you expand your ability to experience ever more intense pleasure experiences, broadening your capacity to hold more of life all at once.
We will be retraining your body, liberating your wild imagination, and cultivating the way you connect with others intimately.

I talk about how I let your body set the pace.
And I answer the most common questions I get “so do you have sex with them?”
And “do you fall in love? and if so, how do you deal with the complications around that?”

I have the added pleasure of watching my clients transform and get results WAY beyond of the bedroom and sex because … once you master the most powerful energy in your body, your sexual energy, you can easily master any challenge and continue toward your dreams. Once you befriend your biggest monsters, the most hidden and vulnerable and scary parts of yourself, very few monsters will ever seem scary again - and when they do you will have potent tools to use to continue past them on your path to your dreams and desires.

And then I give you a beautiful practice that you can do today, for free, that will launch you on your own path of sexual healing if you want to!

If you feel this unique kind of healing might benefit you, let’s hop on a call and explore what’s possible. If you do not, I hope that this episode was fun and informative and supports you in your path as well. 🕊️🔥💞

Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.

Let's hop on the phone and talk about where you're going in love, sex and intimacy!
Apply here for a free call, I'd love to chat with you.
riverroaring.com

Why do you eat?
Why do you eat what you eat?
Why do you eat when you eat?
… every time you choose to eat … why?

The Standard American Diet (SAD) is indeed sad, as it’s full of toxins and poison and addictive chemicals.
What we are told is “food” in our groceries and restaurants is not actually nourishing, and thus not really “food” for the human body.

The exciting news is that every day millions of people are choosing to stand in sovereignty over their own bodies.
… To exit The Matrix.
To stop doing what’s “expected” and “normal” in our broken culture, and instead choose health and luminosity.

What you choose to put into your sacred body is … all that your body has to make … YOU!
Your body has the delightful job of taking what you put into it and creating an endlessly complex and magical creature that is you.

In this episode, I share my own journey with food and how it has impacted my life force, and my love and sex life. 
I decided to bring integrity to this area of my life 37 years ago and I “renewed my vows” to myself about 20 years ago.
I “ingest” a ton of research that helps me continue to grow on this journey every year.
I’ve learned to use food as potent medicine which I see as “youthing” my body with every bite.

I choose to eat LIFE not death.
I honor my body as a sacred temple.
I never allow something to enter my body that I don’t want in my sacred temple.
During eating, during sex, and otherwise.

Don’t miss my Pro Tips of the Day - things  you can do to increase your life force with food if you choose to! 🕊️🔥💞

Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing nonjudgmental and confidential space for erotic awareness. 

Here are the books that I mentioned in this episode:

The Sprouting Book by Ann Wigmore
https://trueleafmarket.com/products/sprouting-book-by-ann-wigmore 

Conscious Eating by Gabriel Cousens
https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/171662.Conscious_Eating 

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This is my highest form of bliss. 
My peak erotic experience.

In this episode I share my own path from disembodied trial attorney to a person who enjoys the highest form of sex and intimacy.

What is divine union?
Is it possible to actually worship in the bedroom (not just a role play)?
What is that like?
And more importantly … how do we do it? 😇

There’s a longer version of the journey, and there are many things we can do immediately to prepare for these states of being.

Tune in and learn about balancing yourself between “feet on the ground” and “wings in the air”!

And how Self Love factors in.
Can you see yourself as the divine, my friend?
Are you ready for this type of union?
Have you already experienced this?

Let’s talk about it more so it can become more of the norm in our future! 🕊️🔥💞

Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. 

Let's hop on the phone and talk about where you're going in love, sex and intimacy!
Apply here for a free call, I'd love to chat with you.

🤸🏼‍♀️ Oh, and ... my gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️ 
✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨

https://www.riverroaring.com/

This is a very high level overview of … orgasm.

Some of the questions we explore in this episode: 

- What is orgasm?
- Is orgasm the goal of sexual experience?
- What if orgasm is my goal?
- What if I love to “give them to” others?
- What’s the difference between ejaculation and orgasm?
- Are “the 11 types of female orgasm” real?
- How long should it take me to orgasm?
- What is the full body rolling orgasm?

Plus, you will get THE RECIPE for having more orgasmic energy in your body! 😇

… Are you ready to sail into the unknown? 

Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. 

Let's hop on the phone and talk about where you're going in love, sex and intimacy!
Apply here for a free call, I'd love to chat with you.

🤸🏼‍♀️ Oh, and ... my gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️ 
✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨

https://www.riverroaring.com/

What Golden Age, you might ask!
What New Earth?
Why would you want your sexuality there?

In this episode, we talk about the little matter of … humanity’s coming Golden Age!

Millions of people around the globe are actively co-creating the New Earth, our very imminent Golden Age.

But how many are bringing their powerful sexual energy with them on this epic journey?

Let’s talk about our potential together. 
Your potential in the coming few years.
Let’s walk into the next phase of human consciousness together … fully whole and authentic.
Let’s bring our most powerful force along with us!

There is a glorious magical empowered path forward for those of us who are truly ready for En-Lighten-ment!  ❤️

Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. 

Let's hop on the phone and talk about where you're going in love, sex and intimacy!
Apply here for a free call, I'd love to chat with you.

🤸🏼‍♀️ Oh, and ... my gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️ 
✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨

https://www.riverroaring.com/

It’s more common than most people want to admit -
a large percentage of Americans have experienced unwanted sexual contact as a child.

If you or someone you know has had this experience, there is a path forward.
A very tender, gentle, and beautiful process.

As someone who has facilitated healing in this realm for 15 years,
I have seen many people not only heal and recover from these traumas,
but thrive and even become leaders of empowerment and liberation.

In this episode, I outline some of the elements that support healing.
A process of healing the body, retraining, remembering, and finally reigniting. 

Of course the process begins with safety in the body,
how to come to safety within your own body.

And ultimately, what is broken in relationship must be healed in relationship.
So once it’s safe enough, some of the healing will come in relationship with others.

We no longer have rites of passage that are built into our culture to formally train us to move from childhood to adulthood.
In the modern world, our entire lives are a rite of passage, a mystery school for learning and growing.
We have to put together our own curriculum or program, find our own teachers and healers and helpers. 

Fortunately, there are many helpers out there now.
I list some options, and also invite you into my spaces which are designed for this kind of healing.

What will your hero’s journey look like?

Do you have a desire to walk through these gates to your own inner liberation?

Your healing journey might, in the future, be a beacon of light for others precisely because of your very unique experiences.

After all, it’s love that continues life, and you deserve all of the love in the world, dear one.
All of the love in the world. ❤️

Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. 

Let's hop on the phone and talk about where you're going in love, sex and intimacy!
Apply here for a free call, I'd love to chat with you.

🤸🏼‍♀️ Oh, and ... my gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️ 
✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨

https://www.riverroaring.com/

“Darling, may I have you?”
I asked the question.

“May I have my way with you until this timer goes off?”
He said yes.

That’s when time stopped.
The past dropped away.
The future dropped away.
And I entered the eternal now.

That primal place where I can hear my soul.

The sensory universe.
Where all that exists is delicious sensory input.
Skin warm against my hand.
Hair tickling my wrist.
Tingles rippling through my body.
The sound of the birds.
Our breathe. 

… My partner became my feast.

In this episode, I share about my recent experience feasting on a client.
And about his experience being feasted upon … in his own words.

“The key take away is how sexy it was to be an object of desire. To be taken. …
If I dive into that deeper, it doesn’t feel like I’ve been seen before.”

Join us as we explore how to ravish.
And how to safely be ravished.

Because there is one MOST important part that makes it safe for the one being ravished.
Do not skip this part! … It’s the key to success.

Some common challenges.
Some not-so-common solutions.

Common myths like the other person won’t enjoy it as much.
And theories about how our culture got so backward. 🤓

For it is not always better to give than to receive.
Sometimes it’s better to fully receive the open-hearted gift that is given.

To relish it. 
To cherish it. 
To get lost in the feast.

… Followed, of course, by “thank you.” 🤠🥰🧚🏼‍♀️

Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. 

Join us in Austin at the next Weekend Workshop with River Roaring on July 24-26!  We have a list of great nearby places to stay.

If you are considering working with me privately 1:1, the workshop is a great way for us to get to know one another first.

Wanna talk about it? Apply here for a free call, I'd love to chat with you.

At least treat yourself to joining my email list and stay in the loop for all things luminious!

🤸🏼‍♀️ Oh, and ... my gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️ 
✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨

That empty feeling after sex.
That empty feeling after self pleasure.
… That empty feeling that’s starting to apply to more and more of life.

You’re not broken.
… This culture is broken and you grew up in it.

We are taught to follow other people’s desires, rather than to find our own.
We are mostly taught that our own desires are bad and shameful.

So we do things that we don’t really desire to do.
… And we wonder why we’re bored or depressed or distracted.

The good news is: YOU are naturally perfect.

Let’s remember who we are underneath all the BS we don’t agree with.

LET’S RETRAIN ourselves to hear our deepest desires.

… Our soul’s desire.

In this episode, we look at 3 simple, not easy, steps to finding your deepest desire.

Energy flows where there is space.

Learn how to give your body and your being space so the energy of your soul’s desire can flow through you.

… If you choose to pursue this path, I hope find your soul’s deepest desires and enjoy each one of them to their fullest.

Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. 

🤸🏼‍♀️ My gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️ 
✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨