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Waiting for someone to write your dream role? You could be waiting a long time. 🎬 It’s time to start creating the opportunities you keep hoping someone else will hand you—and that starts with understanding what makes a script WORK.

In this Acting Smarter Now masterclass, Lydia Nicole sits down with veteran showrunner, writer, and producer Danny Kalis to break down the craft and business of television writing—with the Ted Lasso pilot as your classroom.

With experience on shows like Who’s the Boss? and Hangin’ with Mr. Cooper, Danny takes us inside the decisions behind the page: how writers introduce unforgettable characters, hook an audience, and build a story that can sustain a series.

And actors, this conversation isn’t just for those of you who want to write. Understanding how a script is built can help you recognize story clues, understand your character’s purpose, and make more informed acting choices.

📝 IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

• How to start approaching your own script—and why the title page matters.
• The difference between “story by” and “teleplay by” credits.
• How single-camera and multi-camera sitcom scripts differ.
• What the opening of Ted Lasso reveals about character, conflict, and audience curiosity.
• How to use slug lines, action lines, and character descriptions with intention.
• How to deliver exposition without making your dialogue sound like a history lecture.
• What inciting incidents, cold opens, teasers, and tags do for your story.
• Why table reads and rewrites are essential to discovering what actually works.
• How production expectations and the business of writing shape the script.

🔥 Your first page has a job to do: give us a reason to keep reading.

Whether you’re writing your first television pilot, creating a role for yourself, or learning to analyze audition material more deeply, this conversation will help you see the page with fresh eyes.

You don’t need to have every answer before you begin. But you do need to move that idea out of your head and onto the page. Let’s get to work.

⏱️ CHAPTERS

0:00 Introduction to Danny Kalis
3:30 Actors writing their own scripts
7:15 The importance of the title page
12:00 Understanding story by vs. teleplay by credits
18:45 Pilot scripts and production formats
23:00 Residuals and the business of writing
27:30 Scriptwriting software and formatting
32:15 Single-camera vs. multi-camera sitcoms
37:00 Breaking down the first page of Ted Lasso
42:30 The power of slug lines and time of day
47:15 Writing effective action lines
52:00 Character descriptions and actor direction
58:30 Introducing Rebecca Welton in Ted Lasso
1:03:00 Managing studio executive expectations
1:08:45 How to write natural exposition
1:14:15 Analyzing the first dialogue exchange
1:20:00 The inciting incident and story hooks
1:25:30 Teasers, cold opens, and tags explained
1:31:45 Punctuation and the use of the ellipsis
1:36:15 The importance of table reads and rewrites
1:41:00 Danny’s top book recommendations
1:45:49 Video wrap-up and final thoughts

💬 LET’S TALK: If you could write your dream role, who would you play—and what’s stopping you from starting? Tell us in the comments.

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Your one-person show will never reach the stage if it stays stuck in your head. 🎭 Have a story to tell—but no idea how to turn it into a show people actually want to see? Let’s change that!

In this Acting Smarter Now mini masterclass, we explore HOW TO WRITE A ONE-PERSON SHOW with a guest who has written and performed NINE solo shows. From your first index card to opening night, discover practical ways to shape your experiences into compelling live theater—and give audiences a reason to buy a ticket.

Because yes, your life has stories. The work is finding the story, shaping it, and having the courage to let people see you.

Whether you’re an actor ready to create your own opportunities, an aspiring playwright exploring autobiographical storytelling, or a solo performer struggling with structure, this conversation will help you move from “Someday I’ll do a show” to “Here’s my next step.”

🎭 IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL DISCOVER:

✨ Why vulnerability can make your solo performance more powerful—and more relatable.
✨ How to choose your subject without cramming your entire life into one show.
✨ How to structure your story like a movie to keep audiences invested.
✨ A hands-on index card method to organize ideas and build your script.
✨ The traffic light rehearsal system to focus your preparation.
✨ How to approach sensitive stories involving family and people you love.
✨ Why your show’s title and poster deserve serious attention when marketing your production.
✨ How physical blocking helps bring your words to life.
✨ How open mics and readings can help you test material before opening night.

You don’t have to wait for someone else to write you a great role. You can start creating it. 🔥

⏱️ CHAPTERS

0:00 Intro and the Power of Vulnerability
2:45 Choosing Your Subject Matter and Avoiding Cannibalization
5:15 Structuring Your Show Like a Movie
8:00 The Index Card Method for Scripting
10:45 Rehearsal Strategy and the Traffic Light System
13:30 Navigating Family Dynamics and Sensitive Stories
16:15 Why Titles and Posters Matter for Marketing
19:00 Putting the Show on Its Feet and Physical Blocking
22:15 Testing Material at Open Mics and Readings
24:53 Closing Thoughts and Final Advice

💬 LET’S TALK:
If you created a one-person show about your life, what would you call it? Drop your title in the comments—even if it’s your working title. Let’s hear what you’ve been keeping to yourself!

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🎙️ A great voice might get you a compliment. But can it get you BOOKED? If your voiceover auditions aren’t connecting, your sound may not be the problem. Your choices, preparation, and microphone technique could be getting in the way.

Want to break into voice acting, create memorable animation characters, and walk into a recording session like a professional? This episode of Acting Smarter Now goes beyond “doing funny voices” to explore the acting skills and business habits behind a professional voiceover career.

Because, actors, buying a microphone is easy. Knowing what to do when that mic is ON? That takes craft.

From voiceover audition tips and character development to studio etiquette and agent relationships, we’re digging into what helps you deliver a performance people want to keep listening to.

🔥 IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL DISCOVER:

• Why the first 15 seconds of your voiceover audition deserve serious attention.
• Four essential questions to answer BEFORE you read the script.
• How physicality, breathing, and standing up can shift your character’s energy.
• Microphone techniques and studio habits that help you avoid distracting noise.
• How to self-direct your reads without draining the life out of your performance.
• Ways to build a character voice arsenal grounded in acting choices.
• Behind-the-scenes casting stories involving iconic characters like Batman and Bart Simpson.
• How to keep your voiceover agent informed as your skills grow.
• What to consider when choosing voiceover workshops.
• Professional conversations around negotiation and the ethics of voice replacement.

From reel-to-reel recordings to today’s home recording studios, the technology has changed—but preparation, professionalism, and compelling acting choices still matter.

Whether you’re exploring voice acting for beginners, moving from on-camera acting into animation voiceover, or sharpening your audition technique, this conversation will help you approach the booth with more intention.

💬 ACTORS, LET’S TALK: What’s your biggest voiceover challenge—finding your characters, directing yourself, or getting your foot in the door? Drop it in the comments.

⏱️ CHAPTERS

0:00 Learning from Voiceover Legends
3:15 Pro Microphone Techniques
6:45 Studio Etiquette: Avoiding Unwanted Noise
9:30 Why Respect for Actors Matters
12:15 Voice Acting Physicality and Breathing
15:45 Animation Casting Stories and Voice Changes
19:15 How to Strengthen Your Voiceover Audition
22:30 Four Questions to Ask Before You Read
26:00 Finding Your Character Connection
29:45 How to Self-Direct Your Best Takes
33:15 Building Your Character Voice Arsenal
36:45 The Art of Negotiation
40:00 Ethics in Voice Replacement
43:30 Building a Strong Agent Relationship
46:45 Keeping Your Agent Updated
50:15 Choosing Voiceover Workshops
53:33 Final Takeaways

🚀 STOP GUESSING YOUR WAY THROUGH YOUR ACTING CAREER.

You can have talent and still need a strategy. Inside Acting Smarter Circle, we help actors identify their strengths, clarify their brand, and learn how to market themselves—with accountability, practical tools, and a community that supports their growth.

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Are you bringing your talent into the audition—or every rejection, fear, and disappointment you’ve been carrying? You know your lines. You’ve done the work. But when it’s time to deliver, something tightens up.

What if the next breakthrough in your acting starts with becoming more available?

You do not have to become fearless to be a great actor. You have to become available—to the moment, to your scene partner, and to yourself.

In this episode of Acting Smarter Now, Lydia Nicole sits down with Rev. Catherine (Catie) LeOrisa, M.Msc., who has worked alongside legendary acting teacher, coach, director, and author Larry Moss for more than twenty-five years. If you hear us say “Larry,” we’re referring to acting guru Larry Moss!

As the founder of Resonance Restructure, Catie brings a unique perspective to the connection between an actor’s inner life and creative expression. She is a Certified Hypnotherapist, Neuro-Dynamic Breathwork Facilitator, Reiki Master in Usui and Holy Fire traditions, and practitioner of Source Point High Priestess Healing (SPHPH) Energetic Quantum Acupuncture. She holds bachelor’s and master’s degrees in Metaphysics and is currently pursuing a PhD in Metaphysical Science. Her work explores emotional freedom, creativity, intuition, and personal transformation through breathwork, meditation, energy work, and subconscious exploration.

Together, we get into the moments actors don’t always talk about: the rejection that follows you home, the pressure to prove yourself in the audition room, and the character whose emotions linger long after someone calls “cut.”

Catie shares her perspective on breathwork, somatic awareness, hypnotherapy, Reiki, and astrology—and how she approaches helping artists explore the protective patterns that may limit their creative freedom.

One question could change how you look at your entire process: Instead of asking, “Where am I blocked?” what happens when you ask, “What am I protecting?”

✨ IN THIS CONVERSATION, WE EXPLORE:

• How to process audition disappointment without turning it into a verdict on your talent.
• Grounding practices to help you return your attention to the present.
• Why your actor’s instrument includes your entire human being.
• The difference between forcing an emotion and becoming available to it.
• Breathwork, nervous-system awareness, and creating a sense of safety.
• Journaling as a way to explore emotions and discover what’s underneath them.
• “De-roling”—stepping out of a character and returning to yourself.
• Trust, surrender, and lessons from Catie’s years alongside acting teacher Larry Moss.

Whether you’re preparing for a big audition, recovering from a disappointing experience, or craving more freedom in your work, this conversation invites you to rethink what it means to care for your instrument.

Your talent deserves preparation. The person carrying that talent deserves care, too.

⏱️ CHAPTERS

0:00 Intro and the power of breathwork
5:10 Processing audition rejection and disappointment
10:25 Believing in your unique instrument
15:40 Creating safety in the acting room
21:15 Integrating astrology and energy work
26:30 Breaking through internal chains and blocks
31:45 The role of trust and surrender
37:10 Learning from legendary acting teacher Larry Moss
42:45 Resetting the nervous system
48:15 Catie’s PhD and integrative healing approach
53:30 The subconscious mind and hypnotherapy
59:10 Catie’s origin story: Moving to LA and meeting Larry Moss
1:04:30 Finding the keys to unlock your potential
1:10:15 Discussing therapy and hypnosis
1:16:00 Exploring the mind-body connection
1:21:20 How to de-role from a character
1:26:45 Practical breathing exercises for daily use
1:32:15 Distance Reiki and energetic connections
1:37:40 Legacy and where to find Catie
1:42:43 Video end

💬 What’s harder for you: letting go of an audition, getting out of your head, or leaving a character behind? Tell us in the comments.

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The director yelled “CUT.” So why are you still carrying your character’s pain home?

And when your next audition comes, what’s running the show—your creative choices or that voice whispering, “Don’t embarrass yourself”?

Your craft requires vulnerability. But does being a committed actor have to mean staying emotionally tangled in every role?

In this episode of Acting Smarter Now, we explore Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), commonly called tapping, and its potential role in helping performers navigate emotional intensity, audition anxiety, and the fear of being seen.

Because sometimes the scary part isn’t getting rejected. It’s letting people see what you’re actually capable of.

We get into:
🎭 Carrying a character’s emotions beyond the scene—and learning to leave the role behind.
👀 Wanting the spotlight while feeling afraid of being fully seen.
💭 How “I’m not good enough” can creep into your auditions and creative choices.
⚡ Exploring bolder choices without letting the fear of looking foolish make every decision.
🙌 The Fearless Acting program and approaching your work with a stronger sense of worth.

We also explore tapping points, the emotional associations described in EFT, and how the technique developed from Thought Field Therapy.

Watch until the end for a guided tapping demonstration focused on worthiness. Get a firsthand look at the practice and consider whether it could become part of your preparation routine.

You deserve to explore your craft without putting your worth on trial at every audition.

CHAPTERS
0:00 Tapping Points: Exploring Shame, Guilt, and Fear
2:15 From Thought Field Therapy to EFT
4:30 When Your Character’s Emotions Follow You Home
6:45 Fearless Acting: Permission to Make Bold Choices
9:15 You Want to Be Seen—So Why Does It Feel Scary?
10:45 “Am I Enough?” Worthiness and Tapping Demonstration

💬 Be honest: What feels scarier—being rejected or being fully seen? Tell us in the comments.

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Your headshot can look beautiful and still fail to sell you. If casting can’t see where you fit, what is that photo really doing for your career? 📸

Learn how to prepare for actor headshots with a clear brand, intentional wardrobe choices, and a photographer who captures what makes you castable.

In this episode of Acting Smarter Now, I’m sharing the headshot preparation process I’ve developed through more than 40 years in the entertainment industry. Before you spend money on another photo shoot, get clear on what you’re selling—and make sure your pictures communicate it.

Whether your lane is the relatable soccer mom, the commanding executive, or the trusted medical professional, your professional acting headshots should help casting see you in the role.

🎯 IN THIS VIDEO, YOU’LL LEARN:

• How to choose a headshot photographer who captures your personality and essence.
• How to define your actor brand and plan specific character looks.
• Why testing your hair and makeup before shoot day matters.
• How color analysis and wardrobe choices can help you stand out.
• How to use your smartphone to test outfits and organize your looks.
• Why a bargain headshot can become an expensive mistake.
• What to consider so your headshot reads clearly—even as a tiny casting thumbnail.

Watch for a behind-the-scenes look at my recent session and practical steps you can use to walk into your next shoot prepared, focused, and confident.

⏱️ CHAPTERS

0:00 Are Your Headshots Selling You Short?
2:20 Your Next 90 Days: Build a Plan Inside the Circle
3:45 Choose a Photographer Who Captures YOU
6:05 Know Your Brand Before You Book the Shoot
8:35 Hair & Makeup: Test It Before You Regret It
10:15 Find Your Colors—Stop Washing Yourself Out
12:10 Test Your Looks: Smartphone & Wardrobe Prep
14:15 Behind the Scenes: Putting the Plan to Work
17:10 Cheap Headshots: A Bargain or a Costly Mistake?
19:50 The Thumbnail Test: Does Your Headshot Pop?
22:00 Your Next Shoot: Final Tips & What’s Next

💬 What’s your biggest headshot challenge: choosing a photographer, knowing your brand, or deciding what to wear? Tell me in the comments.

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Hate hearing your voice on playback? That discomfort could be keeping you from discovering one of your most powerful tools as an actor.

Your voice carries your history, your culture, and your humanity. Learning to trust it—and train it—can change what you bring to every audition, self-tape, and role.

In this episode of the Acting Smarter Now Podcast, Lydia Nicole sits down with renowned voice and dialect coach Denise Woods to explore how actors build vocal confidence, develop authentic characters, and bring a script to life without losing themselves.

From her time at Juilliard to coaching Will Smith for Ali and Mahershala Ali for True Detective, Denise takes us inside the detailed work behind memorable performances. We get into dialect training, character research, and why getting an accent right goes far beyond pronunciation.

Her guiding principle? The story must always be the star.

 IN THIS CONVERSATION, YOU’LL DISCOVER:

• Why actors struggle to embrace their own voices—and how to begin building confidence.
• How rhythm, geography, culture, and history shape the way a character speaks.
• Why a voice coach serves as a specialist for your acting instrument.
• What portraying a real person demands beyond imitation.
• How mentorship, spirituality, and preparation inform the craft.
• Why bringing your full humanity to a role matters as much as technique.

Whether you’re preparing for an audition, developing a dialect, or reconnecting with your voice after years in the business, this conversation will challenge you to listen differently—to yourself and to your characters.

⏱️ CHAPTERS
0:00 Why Actors Hate Their Own Voice
2:45 Voice Coaching: Building Your Actor’s Toolkit
5:30 Finding Your Voice at Juilliard
8:15 How Mentorship Shapes an Actor’s Craft
11:00 Biopic Acting: Researching the Person Behind the Role
14:15 Coaching Will Smith for Ali
17:30 Working with Mahershala Ali
20:45 Spirituality and the Craft of Acting
23:15 Teaching Actors: Meeting Students Where They Are
26:00 Dialect Training: Culture, History, and How We Speak
28:00 Final Takeaways for Your Acting Career

💬 When you hear your voice on a recording, what’s the first thing you criticize? Tell us in the comments—and share one thing you’re learning to appreciate about it.

🎙️ CONNECT WITH DENISE WOODS
Ready to explore the power of your voice? Learn about Denise’s voice and dialect coaching, classes, and book, The Power of Voice: A Guide to Making Yourself Heard.

🌐 Website: SpeakItClearly.com
📱 Social media: @speakitclearly
📧 Coaching inquiries: [email protected]

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Your acting résumé is not a business plan—and years of experience won’t automatically keep your career moving. If you’re auditioning, taking classes, and still feeling stuck, it may be time for guidance that helps you see what you’re missing.

In this Acting Smarter Now livestream, actress, producer, and acting career coach Lydia Nicole breaks down why actors need mentorship at every stage of their careers. Whether you’re learning how to get started in acting or figuring out how to revive a stalled acting career, the right mentor can help you recognize blind spots, strengthen your actor branding, and build a more intentional acting career strategy.

We’re talking about how to stop chasing every opportunity and start pursuing work that fits who you are TODAY. Because, baby, you cannot keep selling the actor you used to be and expect the industry to understand who you’ve become.

In this video, you’ll learn:
🎭 How mentorship helps new actors avoid costly acting career mistakes.
🎯 Why experienced actors get stuck—and how to approach career reinvention.
💼 How to think like the CEO of your acting career instead of waiting for your agent or manager to handle everything.
🔥 How to be the thermostat: set your direction instead of letting every setback control your next move.
🤝 Why accountability, business guidance, and a supportive acting community matter.
🌱 How mentorship can support your confidence, resilience, craft, and faith.

I also share how mentors helped me move from working at a radio station as a teenager to building a life in entertainment—and what happened when I decided I could do it all alone.

You don’t have to figure out every career move by yourself.

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CHAPTERS
0:00 What Is Mentorship for Actors—and Why Do You Need It?
2:45 How an Acting Mentor Helps New Actors Build a Career
5:30 Why Experienced Actors Get Stuck in Their Careers
8:15 How to Reinvent Yourself and Update Your Actor Brand
11:00 How to Take Control of Your Acting Career Like a CEO
14:15 How to Work Smarter and Pursue the Right Acting Opportunities
17:30 How Mentorship Shaped Lydia Nicole’s Entertainment Career
20:45 Acting Smarter Circle: Mentorship and Accountability for Actors
23:00 How to Build Your Visibility as an Actor

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Actors, being available to everybody, can leave you with nothing left for yourself—or your next audition. But is your “self-care” protecting your career or helping you avoid the work?

Let’s have the conversation people-pleasers and excuse-makers both need. In this episode of Acting Smarter Now, Lydia Nicole explores **self-care vs. selfishness for actors**, how to set professional boundaries without being difficult, and why protecting your energy matters when building a sustainable acting career.

If you feel guilty saying no, put everyone else’s needs ahead of your own, or call it “protecting your peace” when you’re actually avoiding responsibility, this discussion invites you to take an honest look at your choices. We unpack healthy self-interest, harmful ego, and the point where empathy can turn into self-neglect.

Discover how your audition mindset, personal boundaries, and intentional self-care habits can support your focus and resilience. From navigating people-pleasing in the entertainment industry to recognizing avoidance disguised as rest, we explore acting career advice that puts your well-being and professional accountability in the same conversation.

**You can care about other people and still take your own needs seriously. You can also give yourself grace and keep your commitments.**

⏱️ **CHAPTERS**
0:00 Self-Care vs. Selfishness: What Actors Need to Know
1:52 What Selfishness Looks Like in the Acting Industry
3:31 Healthy Self-Interest vs. Toxic Behavior for Actors
6:04 How to Practice Intentional Self-Care as an Actor
10:08 When Self-Care Becomes Avoidance in Your Acting Career
21:07 When Too Much Empathy Leads to Self-Neglect

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💬 **Let’s get honest in the comments:** Which is harder for you—saying no without guilt or recognizing when you’re avoiding the work?

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Being talented is not enough. You can deliver a beautiful performance and still lose the job—because acting well and knowing how to book are two different skills.

If you’re a trained actor who keeps submitting self-tapes, attending acting classes, and working hard without getting the callbacks or bookings you deserve, this conversation may expose what’s really standing between you and the role.

In this no-fluff episode of Acting Smarter Now, Lydia Nicole sits down with renowned acting and booking coach Amy Lyndon—actress, filmmaker, former talent manager, and creator of The Lyndon Technique: The 15 Guideline Map to Booking.

Amy pulls back the curtain on the uncomfortable truths actors rarely hear in acting class: why talented performers sabotage their auditions, how ego can get in the way of the writer’s intention, and why casting directors need more than a “good performance” before they can confidently hire you.

In this powerful interview, you’ll discover:

🎭 Why being a great actor doesn’t automatically make you a bookable actor
🎬 How to break down an audition script and uncover the writer’s clues
📹 What actors must understand about framing, eyelines, readers, and self-tape auditions
🔥 Why a strong point of view makes your performance more compelling
👂 How active listening creates truthful, camera-ready acting
❤️ The difference between playing an emotion and genuinely feeling it
🧠 How preparation and technique help eliminate audition anxiety and self-sabotage
💼 Why actor branding, marketing, and packaging matter to your career
🏆 How to approach acting with the discipline of an Olympic athlete
💪 Why focusing only on results can make actors frustrated, desperate, and ready to quit
💰 How to stop resenting your survival job and start seeing it as the sponsor of your acting career
✨ Why remembering your original love of acting may be the key to your longevity

Amy also shares the personal struggles, rejection, loss, and perseverance that shaped her work—and how some of the darkest moments of her life ultimately produced the tools she now uses to empower thousands of actors.

CHAPTERS:

00:00 Preview: What Makes an Actor Bookable?
01:33 The Uncomfortable Truth About Hollywood
03:21 The Lyndon Technique: A Map to Booking
05:43 What to Do When You Want to Quit Acting
08:42 Amy Lyndon’s Journey From Childhood to Hollywood
12:01 Studying Shakespeare and Developing Discipline
14:17 “Actors, You Are Enough”
18:22 Why Acting Schools Don’t Teach Actors How to Audition
20:16 How Amy Learned to Book Television Roles
21:05 Active Listening and Guideline 10
29:44 Leave Your Ego at Home and Serve the Writer
32:47 Stop Running Lines—Work on Your Transitions
34:42 How to Find the Key Line in a Scene
36:16 Don’t Play the Emotion—Feel It
45:33 How to Control Audition Nerves
48:50 How Actors Sabotage Their Own Auditions
51:07 Why Actors Need a Reliable Technique on Set
55:39 How Technique Creates Career Longevity
59:30 Don’t Let Major Setbacks Take You Down
64:35 Let Your Side Hustle Sponsor Your Acting Career
68:16 Balancing a Job, Family, and Your Acting Dream
70:28 Amy’s Resources for Working Actors
70:57 Essential Self-Tape Framing and Eyeline Tips
71:33 Amy Lyndon’s Final Takeaway for Actors

This episode is essential viewing for new actors, veteran actors, working actors, and anyone who wants to improve their audition technique, create stronger self-tapes, build confidence, overcome rejection, and book more television and film roles.

You may know how to act—but do you know how to audition, market yourself, and become the actor casting can hire?

Watch until the end, then tell us in the comments: What was the biggest Amy Lyndon gem you’re taking into your next audition?

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