The Think About It Series begins with this difficult topic of Relational Bondage. We have yielded to a way of thinking that has a high level of toxicity that leads to the often discussed topic of entitlement. We discuss where it really originates! What do you owe?

We all want to be happy. It’s wonderful. But happiness is only one of many emotions. Our emotional health and mental wellness require all of our emotions to be engaged. Happiness should not be a demand or requirement for relational connections.

This is a message for our teenagers and young adults—What is integrity? Let’s have an integrity talk. What are your safeguards? Are you an enemy to someone else because you have not established your integrity!! Check your Truth Meter!!

Does one bad apple spoil the whole batch? Yes, it does! That is the reason that we take bad apples out of contention!! Let’s talk about apples.

This is a loaded topic on how we relate and communicate with self and others. Everything that we do goes back to our relational dynamics. You will want to listen to this on repeat!!

Marks of Approval! This is a powerful short word about approval and how it can be an empty goal that also turns out to be a waste of energy and focus. I need to also add: this message might be for parents who need their children to validate them. I propose that this is yet another way of holding people hostage in our relationships. No one owes you anything! You are enough! Ask God if He is Proud of You! Let it be enough!

The Memory of A Woman! This is a powerful weapon for women and we must acknowledge it and use it well in life and relationships! Do not be ashamed of it and don’t allow it to dictate your present! Use it to build and not destroy—Self or others!!

When we try to take shortcuts in our relationships, everyone suffers. Consider this old word and how we have allowed it to influence our family connections.

Hostility is a powerful energy that creates problems and makes people feel uneasy. Let’s identify it and stop wearing it!

This is two talks about making the days count and bringing encouragement during the Hella-Hard of this Pandemic!!