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In this week's episode, Raquel and Jennifer tackle the emotionally charged topic of white women's tears and their weaponization. It's a difficult, but necessary, conversation that needs to happen more often.

Mentioned in, or consulted for, this episode:
How White Women Use Tears as a Weapon | Awesomely Luvvie

White Woman Tears: These Tears Taste Like Oppression | by Alexandria Bennett | Medium

Black Like Me: S3 Ep. 57: White Women's Tears and "White Fragility": An Interview With NY Times Best Selling Author and Anti-Racism Scholar Dr. Robin DiAngelo (libsyn.com)

How white women use strategic tears to silence women of colour | Ruby Hamad | The Guardian

When The 'White Tears' Just Keep Coming : Code Switch : NPR

https://blackgirlinmaine.com/racial-and-cultural/weapon-of-lass-destruction-the-tears-of-a-white-woman/

White Women’s Tears and the Men Who Love Them | by The Good Men Project | Co-existence | Medium

The Weapons of White Women's Tears | LinkedIn

The Power of White Women’s Tears | LinkedIn

The Damaging Tears of White Women | by Seanna Writes | The Startup | Medium

How the Karen Meme Confronts History of White Womanhood | TIME

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In this week's episode, Raquel and Jennifer speak with guest April Brenneman about her transformation from evangelical Christianity to a wider, inclusive, and liberated spirituality. They also discuss April's work as a Somatic Spiritual Companion and her enthusiastic embrace of The Wise Crone.

April Brenneman is a Somatic Spiritual Companion, a Hatha Yoga teacher, and an Embodied Spirituality Teacher. Her passion is for wholeness and healing: physically, spiritually and emotionally. April understands that to be human is to be on a journey of continued growth and transformation. Her own spirituality can be described as Earth Spirituality and Embodied Christic Contemplation.

Where to find April Brenneman:
Email: [email protected], [email protected]
Website: www.thecontemplativespace.com 
IG: @thecontemplativespace, @aprilannlife

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In this episode, Raquel and Jennifer discuss reparations - what they are, why they're needed, when they've been paid, what needs to come next, and so much more. It's a big topic fraught with emotional and societal landmines, but that doesn't have to stop the conversation from happening.

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Mentioned in the episode:
America Has Tried Reparations Before. Here Is How It Went

Why We Need Reparations for Black Americans

Into America Presents Uncounted Millions: The Power of Reparations

Brickz Black Power Podcast - S1 E12 - What If We Got Reparations

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In this episode, Raquel and Jennifer speak with Jezz Chung about their debut book, This Way to Change: A Gentle Guide to Personal Transformation and Collective Liberation, an inspirational roadmap to changing yourself and the world through self-healing, transformation, and decolonization. Listen in as they talk about the importance of poetry, healing, transformation, and liberation.

Jezz Chung is an artist, poet, and public speaker focusing on cultural change through personal transformation. Their neurodivergent, queer, Korean American experiences shape their work and beliefs in personal transformation as a practice of collective change. They are celebrated not only for their commitment to change, but for their practice of honesty and vulnerability. The mission behind their work comes back to two main intentions: help people feel less alone and more alive. Jezz has been named a Melanin Unscripted 2021 Social Shaper, a Pride Logo 30 honoree, and a Made of Millions mental health advocate.

Where to find Jezz Chung and their work:
Website: jezzchung.com
Instagram: @jezzchung
Book: This Way to Change: A Gentle Guide to Personal Transformation and Collective Liberation—Poems, Prose, Practices (smarturl.it)
Digital zine: HOW TO BUILD A WORLD: an imperfect guide by Jezz Chung by jezzchung - Issuu
Podcast: Dreaming Different

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Girl dinner, girl boss, girl math, cool girls. There's so much more to girlhood than these (and other) phrases would have us believe. There is a power and greatness in girls, and in the way they show their resistance. Girls resist in big and small ways - at home, in society, around the world. Jody Myrum's and Ayat Mneina's work shows that resistance is not reserved for exceptional girls. In Stories of Girls' Resistance, a global feminist storytelling project dedicated to documenting a true recount of history grounded in the role of girls’ resistance across social movements, they are working to create a new dialogue around girlhood that puts girls’ words and experiences at the center. Resistance, they argue, is part of what it means to be a girl.

Stories of Girls' Resistance launched a digital campaign on April 8th, encouraging girls and women to share their own stories of girlhood resistance on TikTok and Instagram. Please share your own story of girlhood resistance.

Where to find Stories of Girls' Resistance:
Website: https://girlsresistance.org/
Instagram: @girlsresistance
TikTok: @girlsresistance 

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Coming into your own and being your authentic self. Living a double life out of fear of losing your job. Both of these were true for this week's guest, Cory Allen. He writes about all of this and more in his debut memoir, Breaking Free: A Saga of Self-Discovery by a Gay Secret Service Agent. In this week's episode, Raquel and Jennifer speak with Cory about his motivation to write the book, the effect it's having, and where his life is now.

Where to find Cory Allen:
Website: www.CoryAllenBooks.com
Instagram: @AuthorCoryAllen
Facebook: @AuthorCoryAllen
X: @AuthorCoryAllen
TikTok: @AuthorCoryAllen
Medium: @AuthorCoryAllen

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In this week's episode, Raquel and Jennifer are joined by Dana Diaz, author of Gasping for Air: The Stranglehold of Narcissistic Abuse - the true story of her decades-long marriage to an emotionally and psychologically abusive narcissist. Despite the trauma, Dana emerges as a feisty, triumphant bad ass! Listen in to hear about survival after narcissistic abuse.

Where to find Dana:
Website: Dana S Diaz
Facebook: www.facebook.com/danasdiazauthor
Instagram: www.instagram.com/danas.diaz
The book: Amazon.com: Gasping for Air: The Stranglehold of Narcissistic Abuse: 9798988115502: Diaz, Dana S.: Books

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In this week's episode, Raquel and Jennifer are joined by Kirsten Rudberg - author, podcaster (Byte Sized Blessings), screenwriter, clergy (she has her MDiv),  and producer. One of the common denominators in all of this is Kirsten's belief in panentheism - that Spirit/Energy/God/Goddess is in everything, that magic and miracles are real and potent. What an enchanting way to look at life! Jump in Kirsten's sandbox and learn about how her life has been affected by the signs from the universe and how she does what she can to add to the magic in the world. 

Where to find Kirsten:
Website: https://bytesizedblessings.com/
Instagram: @bytesizedblessingspod
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bytesizedblessings
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCp5zMkcGjOio4NSy9Ivr3Nw

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In this week's episode, Raquel and Jennifer speak with author Catherine Hiller about her book, Cybill Unbound, about a woman's sexual adventures from her 40s into her 70s. In stark contrast to society's (or maybe just Hollywood's) view of aging women, Cybill Unbound serves as an example of one woman's journey to continue growing as a sexual and sensual being in spite of old age.

Where to find Catherine:
Website: https://www.catherinehiller.net/
Substack: @catherinehiller
Facebook: @authorcatherinehiller
Instagram: @catherine.hiller.1

Mentioned in this episode:
Inside Amy Schumer - Last F**kable Day (ft. Tina Fey, Julia Louis-Dreyfus, and Patricia Arquette) (youtube.com)

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In this week's episode, Raquel and Jennifer give some life updates and talk about what's on their minds these days.

Mentioned in this episode:
Podcast | Psychedelics Today

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