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Imagine if America went into therapy. What would that look like? This week's guest Phyllis E. Leavitt went down that rabbit hole and wrote the book America in Therapy: Hope and Healing for a Nation in Crisis. In this episode, we discuss the book as well as the premise of how therapy could help our country during this time of political upheaval and distress. 

Phyllis Leavitt is an author and a psychotherapist of over 30 years. Her newest book, "America in Therapy: A New Approach to Hope and Healing for a Nation in Crisis," is all about bringing the best of what psychology and psychotherapy have to national attention to help us heal from escalating divisiveness and violence and restore us to a sense of brotherhood, peace and cooperation. In exploring power dynamics, issues around equality, cooperation vs. unbridled competition, and a new relationship to dependency and interdependence, directly and indirectly she addresses many of the issues that characterize a more feminist approach to human relations and politics. 

Where to find Phyllis Leavitt:

Website: https://www.phyllisleavitt.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/phyllis.leavitt

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOdxqvDK9N421AZ5TTxqUgQ

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/phyllis-leavitt-630179255/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/phyllis_e_leavitt/

Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/PhyllisLeavitt2

Substack: https://substack.com/@phyllisleavitt1

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As we say in this episode, once you read Tiffany D. Jackson's Monday's Not Coming it stays with you. And maybe it should. After all, isn't that what art is supposed to do - change you, provoke you, make you think? And isn't that one of the reasons why certain books are banned? Fight against the bans. Read the books that are banned. Discuss them. Think about them. Let them change you. Let them effect you. Your growth depends on it. Some might argue that democracy also depends on it. 

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So many people are living lives lacking in true intimacy or are in relationships that are not sexually satisfying. This week's guest Xanet Pailet has firsthand experience with this and knows how to help. Xanet is the bestselling author of Living an Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure and the founder of Passionate Intimacy Retreats.  Xanet is a former health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades.  At age 50, after experiencing her own sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full-time sex and intimacy educator and coach and trauma practitioner.

 Xanet believes that pleasure is our birthright, and she is passionate about helping individuals find their way back into their bodies, their desires, and their pleasure.  Over the past decade, she has helped rescue hundreds of couples from unsatisfying sex lives and has helped women who are sexually shut down learn how to love themselves, their body, and reclaim their desire.

Where to find Xanet Pailet:

Website: https://www.passionateintimacyretreats.com

Free Gift: https://howtoimprovemylovelife.com

Instagram: @xanetpop

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/xanet-pailet-2b464671/

Facebook: @xanetpop

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thepowerofpleasure8132/featured

Book: https://a.co/d/555SMdf

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According to society, fairy tales, and rom coms being single is a problem in search of a solution. Our guest Fanny Tristan, a trauma therapist and clinical social worker with over 15 years of experience, had many clients who felt like they were failing because they were single. Unwilling to pathologize singledom, Fanny developed Her Soul Supply - a wellness collective and coaching program for single women of color combating loneliness and toxic relationship cycles. Tune in to hear how Fanny and Her Soul Supply help women reclaim their voice, power and joy.

Where to find Fanny Tristan:

Website: www.hersoulsupply.com

IG/TikTok/FB: @hersoulsupply

Freebie: How to Have a Happy and Healthy Heaux Season

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Society and fairy tales try to convince us that marriage is the penultimate marker of success as an adult. But studies and reality have shown that that may not be the case. Indeed, equality and equity are not guaranteed under the marriage contract. We have some strong opinions about marriage, and we aren't afraid to share them. 

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The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian, written by Sherman Alexie, tells the story of 14-year-old Native American Arnold Spirit, Jr. on the Spokane Indian Reservation and his decision to go to the nearly white high school in a nearby town. The book has been consistently challenged since its publication due to descriptions of alcoholism, poverty, violence and flatulent Jesus. Recent controversy surrounds the author Sherman Alexie and allegations of sexual harassment. 

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Join us as we celebrate our 4th anniversary!  A look ahead, a look back and a little self analysis.

To find out the real date when women could have their own credit card, click the link below: 
https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/factcheck/2020/10/28/fact-check-9-things-women-couldnt-do-1971-mostly-right/3677101001/

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How many times have you joked with your friends about buying that big vacation house on the beach or about living together in your retirement a la The Golden Girls? It doesn't have to be a joke. For many people, it's a realistic solution to housing affordability and loneliness crises. This week's guests Amy McKenna, a managing broker of Windermere Real Estate Company, and Ruby Grynberg, Branch Manager at Salmon Bay Community Lending, talk to us about how cohousing can (with a bit of planning) be the perfect solution for you and your friends.

Amy McKenna (managing broker at Windermere Real Estate Company) and Ruby Grynberg (Branch Manager of Salmon Bay Community Lending) created “CoHome” - a community platform for education and connection because they saw a yearning for ingrained community and more affordable housing and at the same time a feeling of helplessness about how to attain them.

Mentioned in this episode:

Link to The Seattle Times article - 52996289_1.pdf

Where to find Amy McKenna and Ruby Grynberg:

CoHome

Website: www.CoHome.Community

 Amy McKenna

Website: www.AmyMcKennaHomes.com

Email: [email protected]

Phone: 206-304-2400

Instagram: @AmyMcKennaHomes

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amymckennahomes/

Ruby Grynberg

Website: https://salmonbaylending.com/

Email: [email protected] 

Phone: 206-214-5575

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/salmonbaylending/?hl=en

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/salmonbaylending/

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In this week's episode we're diving into a topic that most of us probably rarely think about - pelvic health. To talk about why pelvic health is important, we're joined by Dr. Judy Rossi, PT, DPT, PHC - a certified pelvic health specialist. 

Dr. Rossi graduated from physical therapy school at California State University at Long Beach. She later received her doctorate in physical therapy and her pelvic health certification through Evidence in Motion. Judy began her journey in pelvic health after spending most of her career as an orthopedic physical therapist, most recently as co-owner of a large outpatient orthopedic practice in Cherokee County, Georgia before selling it in 2019. It was her own physical challenges that were solved through pelvic health physical therapy that motivated her to specialize in pelvic health herself. While this occurred later in her career, she has truly found her passion in this realm. Opening her business, Woodstock Pelvic Health (also in Georgia), allows her to provide compassionate care to those with pelvic health challenges.

Where to find Dr. Judy Rossi:

Website: www.woodstockpelvichealth.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/woodstockpelvichealth/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/woodstock.pelvic.health/  

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We're joined this week by Dr. Uche Blackstock to discuss her memoir Legacy: A Black Physician Reckons with Racism in Medicine. Legacy is more than an account of Dr. Blackstock's journey to and in healthcare, it is also a love letter to her mother (the "original" Dr. Blackstock) and her community. As you can hear in our conversation, Legacy is also a wakeup call to all who read it, especially those in healthcare, that racism is more than unjust - it can be deadly. 

Dr. Blackstock received both undergraduate and medical degrees from Harvard University, making her and her twin sister, Oni, the first Black mother-daughter legacy graduates from Harvard Medical School. As an ER physician, and later as a professor in academic medicine, Dr. Blackstock became profoundly aware of the systemic barriers that Black patients and physicians continue to face.

Dr. Blackstock's generational memoir, LEGACY: A Black Physician Reckons with Racism in Medicine, at once a searing indictment of our healthcare system, a generational family memoir, and a call to action, is Dr. Blackstock’s odyssey from child to medical student to practicing physician—to finally seizing her own power as a health equity advocate against the backdrop of the pandemic and the Black Lives Matter movement.

Dr. Uché Blackstock is the founder and Chief Advisor of Advancing Health Equity (AHE), founded in 2019 with the mission of partnering with healthcare organizations to dismantle racism in healthcare and to close the gap in racial health inequities. Advancing Health Equity has helped major companies, hospitals, and health systems create strategic plans for promoting equitable health care moving forward.

Where to find Dr. Blackstock:

Websites: www.ucheblackstock.com, www.advancinghealthequity.com

IG: ucheblackstockmd

LinkedIn: Uché Blackstock

X: uche_blackstock

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