My Love,

This week, I’m sharing the biggest lesson I learned through divorce and how it’s completely changed my life.

It’s been quite a month. Between blending families, selling houses, and accidentally missing a flight to Chicago, the universe brought us to Edinburgh, the city I lived in when I was 18.

Walking up Arthur’s Seat became such a full-circle moment for me. I found myself looking back at that younger version of me with so much love and understanding. And that’s when something truly magical happened.

Have a listen above or wherever you get your podcasts.

As always, I LOVE to get your feedback, so reply to this email and let me know what you make of the episode.

I’d be so grateful if you could leave a 5* review for me as this really helps my podcast reach a bigger audience.

You’ve got this. And I’ve got you.

Hannah XOX

PS In this week’s episode, I talk about:

* My eight-year sober anniversary, and how giving up alcohol was my first real act of self-compassion.

* The truth about what divorce taught me about kindness, forgiveness, and how to stop seeking validation from everyone else.

* Returning to Edinburgh and meeting my 18-year-old self with compassion (and the moment that made me cry at the top of Arthur’s Seat).

* My engagement story — and what it really means to find love again after heartbreak.

* The golden thread that ties it all together.

I also share details of next week’s Magic Divorce Club workshop:

October Workshop: Call in the love you WANT and DESERVE

I’ll teach you how to get clear on the kind of love you truly want and hold a ceremony to call it in.

It’s one of my favourite things to teach, and it’s perfect whether you’re looking for love or wanting to bring more love and compassion into your existing relationship.

This is free for Luxe MDC Members or you can grab your ticket here:

PPS Links and Resources Mentioned:

* 💌 Join my “Calling In Love” Workshop – 30th OctoberWhether you’re single or just want to deepen love in your current relationship, this is a beautiful, intentional space to connect back to your heart.(If you’re listening after that date, the replay is available there too.)

* 📹 Watch the Engagement Video Dan Made

* 📚 Book Mentioned: Better Than Before by Gretchen Rubin

* ☀️ Join Magic Mondays LiveA weekly live session every Monday at 10 a.m. inside The Magic Divorce Clubhouse, where we explore gentle practices for self-care and compassion. Free for Magic Circle members. I’d love to see you there.

My love,

This week’s episode of The Magic Divorce Club Podcast is one I’ve wanted to share for a while. It’s something we all go through, but rarely talk about honestly: grieving your relationship.

When a marriage or long-term relationship ends, it’s not just the person you lose.You’re grieving the life you thought you were building — the jokes, the routines, the dreams, the identity of being a wife or a family unit.

And what makes it harder?You’re often mourning someone who you still have to see.They might even seem happy, while you’re left trying to make sense of the heartbreak, confusion, and emptiness.

In this episode, I talk about:

✨ The emotional layers of grief after divorce — and why it’s so normal to still love or miss them✨ Why grief doesn’t happen in neat stages (it’s more like a loop: denial, anger, bargaining, sadness, acceptance… and back again)✨ The strange mix of freedom and loneliness that hits at unexpected moments✨ Practical tools to process your grief safely — without getting stuck or self-sabotaging✨ The importance of allowing sadness on purpose — and why scheduling time to feel it actually speeds up healing

I share how my own process looked — from overachieving and pretending I was fine, to self-sabotaging and finally letting myself feel.

If you’re feeling broken or like you’re doing weird things, my love, please know you’re not broken at all...You’re almost certainly grieving.

They say grief is love with nowhere to go. And I say, pour that grief back into yourself.

The opposite of grief isn’t happiness — it’s peace.And that peace comes when you stop fighting what’s happened and start choosing what comes next.

🎧 Listen to Ep 13: Grieving Your Relationship above or wherever you get your podcasts.

You’ve got this. And I’ve got you.Hannah XOX

PS: If you’d like more support…

As mentioned in the podcast, Magic Mondays are where we do this work together live.

Every Monday at 10am, I guide you through grounding meditations and journaling, and coach you live through whatever’s coming up. It’s intimate and gentle and a powerful way to start the week.

It’s just £8/month (that’s only £2 per Magic Monday)

PPS Show Notes & Mentions

Here’s everything I reference in the episode:

* My book: How to Divorce Sober

* Movie reference: Inside Out (Pixar) – I mention sadness “touching the core memories” and turning happy memories ‘blue’

* The five stages of grief (by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross) — denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance

* Magic Mondays – your Monday morning community & coaching sessions as part of the Magic Divorce Club

* Magic Divorce Club: magicdivorceclub.substack.com

My love,

One of the hardest things about divorce is the weight of it all. The kids. The house. The money. The ex. The emotions. It can feel like if you don’t keep everything going, the whole world will collapse. Or worse, everyone will think you’re a failure.

I know that feeling deeply, and for a long time, I believed I had to do it all myself. That if I asked for help, I’d be a burden. Or I’d be admitting I wasn’t strong enough.

But that belief nearly broke me.

In this week’s episode of The Magic Divorce Podcast, I’m answering Patricia’s Question:

“How do you finding or building your support network?”

I talk about how to call in support and why it’s not a weakness, it’s a lifeline.

I share:

* Why we don’t ask for help (guilt, fear of judgment, “I should be able to cope” stories).

* What it costs to white-knuckle it alone: panic spirals, burnout, reactive decisions.

* Your support stack:

* Practical (friends/family, childcare swaps, meal help).

* Emotional (therapy, coaching, groups that get it).

* Embodied (yoga, breathwork, meditation to regulate your nervous system).

* Professional (lawyers, mediators, financial advice) — and why your inner support matters just as much as the outer.

* The CEO reframe: you’re the CEO of your life now — your job is strategy and steadiness, not doing every task yourself.

* One small step this week: choose one supportive action (text a friend, book therapy, join a class, set a bedtime, ask for a favour)

👉 Listen to the episode above, or wherever you get your podcasts.

A note from me

If you’re listening and realising you’ve been carrying too much on your own, and would like some of the support we’ve been talking about, I have just opened up a limited number of spaces to work 1:1 with me.

If you’d like me in your corner so you feel calmer, clearer, and stronger as you move through divorce, I’d love you to apply to talk about whether there’s a fit for us to work together.

👉 Feel calmer and clearer here

Remember, you’ve got this. And I’ve got you.Hannah XOX

PS if you have a question, like Patricia, that you’d like to answer on the podcast, reply to email. I’d love to hear from you and respond to every message xx

My love,

In Magic Monday this morning (live every Monday at 10am UK time), we explored a new concept for some of us…

What if you believed in yourself…

A wild idea, I know.

But seriously, what could happen if you did?

* How would you move?

* How would you sound?

* What could be possible for you?

Today we WENT there

✨We felt what it would be like if we believed in ourselves.

✨We saw how we stood, spoke and achieved our dreams.

✨And then we made plans to actually achieve our dreams.

It was magical. I will never get bored of this process.

For Magic Circle Members → your replay is waiting above.

You’ve got this. And I’ve got you.

With love,Hannah XOX

PS: If you’re not a member yet, what would shift if you gave yourself this space every Monday?

“The realisation that I’ve had is that I’ve been calling in you — and your support is exactly what I’ve been wanting. It feels like the safe space I’ve been craving for a long time. I’m so grateful to you.” — Laura

Perhaps, like Laura, this just the kind of thing you’ve been calling in …

Imagine starting your week grounded, inspired, and with practical steps to move forward—all for the price of a coffee :)

PPS Next week I’d love you to join us live.

After class, we stay on for some off-the-record mentoring—it’s basically bespoke coaching for £2 a session. Don’t miss it. 💫

Here’s the Zoom link to join us (it’s the same every week)

My love,

This week on the Magic Divorce Club podcast, I’m talking about the fairytale.

You know, the one we grew up thinking we wanted. Meet “the one,” get married, live in the dream house, happily ever after, etc.

For a while, I thought I had it. The forever home, the Pinterest-perfect kitchen, the marriage. But inside, I felt lost, anxious, and disconnected. It looked like the fairytale, but it wasn’t my fairytale.

In this episode, I share:

* My own story of realising the “dream” wasn’t what I truly wanted.

* Why so many of us feel guilt or shame when we’re not happy in the life we thought we wanted.

* How letting go of that vision can be the start of creating something far better and truer to you.

* A short visioning exercise to help you glimpse what your next chapter could really look like.

By the end, you’ll have a sense of how possible it is to feel calmer, clearer, and even excited about your future — even if right now you can’t quite see it yet.

🎧 Listen to the episode above or see the video below.

Your happily ever after is still ahead of you. You’ve got this. And I’ve got you 💛

Hannah XOX

PS: I mention in this episode that I’m opening a limited number of 1:1 spaces in October.

If you’d like deeper support with building your confidence, clarity, and calm through divorce, I’d love to work with you closely on your unique situation — so you don’t have to figure it all out alone. Keep an eye on your inbox next week for how to apply for one of these spots.

PPS Don’t forget Friday’s Workshop!

This Friday, Katie is coming to tell us all about what to expect in court, how to build your confidence so you can speak up - and even self-represent like she did! - and what to do to save money:

PPPS if you’ prefer to watch the episode (complete with coughing and drinking water!!) see below:

My Love,

Leaving a marriage is never simple. And, when you share children with your ex, as much as we might want to, cutting them out of your life isn’t really an option.

In this episode of The Magic Divorce Club Podcast, I share an honest chapter from my book How to Divorce Sober (it’s my book’s Birthday today!) about the challenge of letting go of someone who will always be a part of your life through your kids.

I talk about:

* Why breaking away from your ex can feel like recovering from an addiction

* The difference between the “parenting box” and the “marriage box”, and how this helps set boundaries

* The guilt, drama, and people-pleasing traps many of us face post-divorce

* How to stand firm in your recovery, even when it feels uncomfortable or others label you as “difficult”

* Why modelling boundaries and self-respect is one of the greatest gifts you can give your children

If you’re struggling with contact, co-parenting, or simply untangling yourself emotionally after divorce, this episode is here to remind you that it’s possible, and worth it, to build a new, healthier life.

I’d love to hear what you think - have a listen above or watch the video below - does this make sense? Can you relate to this feeling of wanting to leave but still feeling addicted and even trapped in your old role?

Hit reply and tell me how you found the episode.

Loads of love

Hannah XOX

PS ✨ Links & Resources:

* Join the Magic Divorce Club for support, community, and weekly Magic Mondays

* Sign up here for our upcoming workshop with Katie on self-representing in court (Free for Luxe Magic Divorce Club members).

* Get my book How to Divorce Sober on Amazon (and please leave a review for my book’s 1-year birthday!)

* Listen on Audible if you prefer audio

PPS Watch the episode below…

My Love,

Welcome back to the MDC Podcast - Have you decided to leave?

If you’re not sure what to do next, this is the episode for you. I share:

* the four steps that steadied me in the first days after leaving,

* why freedom can feel terrifying (and how to make it safe),

* and the somatic tools that stopped my spirals.

We’ll talk friends vs. advice, legal/financial clarity, creating a sanctuary, social media boundaries to protect you (i.e. what not to do), and a gentle path to feeling both free and grounded.

Plus, an invite to my new Venus Yoga course starting Friday, designed to help build your confidence and self esteem as you navigate your divorce.

Apparently I can’t talk about this stuff without choking up… please know it’s because I know how you feel. I’ve been there and I’m in your corner. You don’t have to do this alone 🫶

Listen above👆watch below 👇 or search Magic Divorce Club on your fave app and subscribe so you never miss a show (I’d love you to leave me a review too please. That would be amaze ✨)

3 Things To Do If You Want To Leave (and 1 thing to NOT do)

Leaving is huge. If you’ve decided to go … or you’re right on the edge … this episode walks you through what to do next, how to stay safe, and how to hold the headf*ck of wanting freedom while also wanting everything to stay the same.

I share my four essentials for the immediate aftermath, why “too much freedom” can feel destabilising, and how yoga + somatic tools helped me stop spiralling and trust myself again.

Key takeaways

* You can get through this without breaking—including maintaining a professional co-parenting relationship.

* Freedom is both expansive and scary; how to make it feel safe.

* My 3 MUST DOs and 1 MUST DON’T DOs

* Somatic tools that help your body feel free and safe—so you don’t sabotage yourself and your progress (like I did).

See below for links and resources mentioned in the episode and please, as always, I’d love to hear what you thought about the episode and what came up for you.

I had a lush message from Sam last week that made me cry… I won’t share it all as it’s deeply personal but this sentence sums up why I do this:

“Listening tonight really confirmed that I was choosing the right path for me…” Sam, mum of 2 little ones

So, remember, I’m just a mum like you, chatting here in my kitchen about divorce, and I’d love to hear from you. Tell me everything :)

You’ve got this. And I’ve got you.

Hannah XOX

PS Resources & mentions

* My book: How to Divorce Sober (it’s the 1-year anniversary next week see below!)

* Mini-course for divorcing mums (free for all MDC Pod listeners - YOU included): Love Notes Reset

* Magic Divorce Club Substack: magicdivorceclub.substack.com

* Brand New Course for Overwhelm and Protection: Divorce Overwhelm Rescue Kit

* Magic Mondays: live at 10am every Monday for 30mins. Click below to become a Magic Circle member and join next week’s call.

* Pop culture & references:

* Amy Poehler (divorce quote referenced)

* Parks and Recreation (comfort TV)

* Jennifer Aniston on “nesting” (Vanity Fair interview)

* Safety: National Domestic Abuse helpline - call here first and they can direct you to the relevant places and people: 0808 2000 247

* Contact me: [email protected]

PPS How to Divorce Sober is 1 year old next week!

To celebrate the 1-year anniversary of How to Divorce Sober: I’m sending a Free signed copy for anyone who signs up for the Magic Divorce Club or any of my courses for the rest of September!

Options for Support:

#1: Join the Magic Circle here on MDC (this is how you get Magic Mondays): £8/month

#2: Divorce Overwhelm Rescue Kit: £47.

#3: Going to Court & Mediation Survival Course: £149.

#4: Magic Divorce Club - 5 week transformation (includes 121 support): £299.

#5: Venus Yoga (starts Friday - tomorrow!): £49 (Payment plan available)

💌 Whatever you sign up for, I’ll send a copy of my book with love 💌

Connect

* Instagram: @hannahharveyuk

* Email: [email protected]

* Everything in one place: magicdivorceclub.substack.com

My love,

🌟 Magic Divorce Club Podcast – Season 2🌟

Welcome back! After a summer break, I’m so excited to launch a brand-new season of the Magic Divorce Club Podcast. For this new season, I’m taking things right back to the beginning…

Today’s episode asks the question: Should you even get a divorce?

Listen above or wherever you get your podcasts (or watch the video below).

💬 What I Talk About in This Episode:

* How I wrestled with this question for a long time before finally making a decision.

* The many reasons people consider divorce

* Why any reason is valid.

* Three key questions to ask yourself if you’re unsure whether to divorce.

* How understanding the Five Love Languages can sometimes provide a breakthrough.

* My own turning point and what FINALLY helped me to leave.

* Your Homework: something you can try for the next month if you’re unsure whether to stay or go.

Remember, whether you stay or leave, your happiness is what matters most. I’m in your corner so hit reply and tell me what’s coming up for you. I reply to every email.

Resources & Links Mentioned:

* 📖 How to Divorce Sober – my book

* 📩 Email me: [email protected]

* 📝 My newsletter & resources: magicdivorceclub.substack.com

* 🌸 Free meditation mini-course

* 📚 The Secret – book & film

* 💌 The Five Love Languages quiz

✨ Next Week

I’ll be back to talk about: What to do if you are going to leave—the practical and emotional steps to take once you’ve made your decision.

👉 If this episode resonated with you, hit reply and tell me all about it. I’d love to hear.

I’d also be so grateful if you could subscribe, share it with a friend who needs it, and leave a review. It really helps my little podcast to grow.

Thank you, and remember, you’ve got this. And I’ve got you. 💖

Hannah XOX

PS if you’d like to watch the podcast instead, see below:

Hey Magic Circle,

One of the things I worked the hardest at during my divorce was my mental health.

It’s the reason I’m here really, sharing all this.

Because without these tools, that I mainly found through a lot of trial and error and luck… I would have seriously downward spiralled. I don’t want to leave that to chance for you so if this helps just one person out of a shitty day or week or month? Then I’m here for it.

And, the BEST thing that helped me?

* To keep moving forward.

* To keep trying my best.

* To keep searching for answers.

* And stepping through those court room doors when I really didn’t want to…

The thing that made the biggest difference is exactly what I shared today.

In today’s Magic Monday…

In today’s class I shared a very simple, 3-step daily routine that pulled me out of hole time and again during my divorce.

Don’t be deceived by it’s simplicity, this is powerful stuff and it’s such a gorgeous class, so if you missed it, please do dive in with the recording above.

You’ll need:

* A pen

* A journal

* A separate piece of paper

I’d love to know what comes up for you - any ah-has or obvious next steps? Reply back and let me know :)

You’ve got this. And I’ve got you.

Hannah XOX

PS One of my big things that came up is needing to look after my physical body a bit more… keeps creeping to the bottom of the pile. And you know I do NOT advocate that for you guys, so I need to practise what I preach.

SO! I can report back and say I DID finally call the doctors straight after the call and I’ve got 2 appointments booked in! Yay.

I also impulsively waxed my top lip (ow! but seriously the light was shining off my tash throughout the above!!) which I haven’t done since like 2023. I’m quite proud of myself for being so brave. Yay!

And, once I’ve sent this email, I’m off to get my steps in. Yay!

Yes, to self care! Yes to taking action!!

So, my suggestion for your Monday evening is to get those lovely kiddies to bed and give youself a Magical Monday evening.

Then tell me what action you’re going to take next? Reply back and let me know :)

PPS Come to next Monday’s Live class at 10am and we can chat a bit afterwards too.

My love,

How are you this week? Summer holidays are a go-go here in the UK and with it I’ve got a new obsession: Netflix’s K-Pop Demon Hunters… How you seen it yet?

My other obsession, creating my Going to Course Course, is NOW LIVE!

I’ve worked so hard that I couldn’t feel my arms last night!! They’re back today and the course is all there for those of you who signed up this week!!

If you haven’t yet signed up, you’ve still got time … Enrolment closes tonight at 9pm UK time 🫶

This week’s podcast - What K-Pop, Demon Hunters, and Your Divorce Have in Common

This week’s podcast is all about what this new (and IMO epic) movie can teach us about shame, isolation and finding your voice… ALL THE THINGS I’VE BEEN TEACHING in the Going to Court Course (along with how to save £10,000s).

✨ If you're feeling overwhelmed, scared, or stuck — this episode will remind you of your inner magic.

🎧 In this episode, I talk about:

* How K-pop Demon Hunters mirrors my beliefs about shame and speaking up (essential for going to court and fighting for your future in Divorce).

* Why shame is often the thing stopping you from speaking up in court.

* What the Magic Divorce Clubhouse is — and how to use it when you need it most.

* How to stay connected to your dream future, even when you're knee-deep in fear.

You can listen above or wherever you get your podcasts 👉 search ‘Magic Divorce Club Podcast’.

I’d love to know what you think!

* Have you seen the Movie yet? What do you think?

* Have you taken part in a meditation that takes you inside the MDCHouse? How did it feel?

Let me know in the comments below or reply in confidence to this email. I love to hear from you and reply to every message.

You’ve got this. And I’ve got you.

Hannah XOX

PS 💫 Don’t forget — enrolment for my Going to Court course closes tonight at 9pm!

If you're scared, overwhelmed, worried about your children or finances — I made this for you.

I’ll teach you how to:

* Save £10,000s in legal fees

* Speak up clearly and confidently

* Go to court feeling calm, grounded, and ready

You’ll also get a whole year of support inside the Magic Divorce Club (worth £250), completely free.

💞 You do not have to do this on your own.