I posted something on my whatsapp status a while back on my whatsapp status about how marriage isnt a good enough premise for rape and it got a lot of negative reactions mostly from some men trying to exert their rights over women they intend to marry(mostly single men who I will not be introducing or matchmaking with any of my friends) 

"Why should she refuse me in the first place" "the word rape should not be used in marriage" 

"it's better that it's her ooo, she should be happy that I still love her enough to discipline her"(contact blocked and deleted from ma life) 

"what reason does she have"

Please listen and let me know what you think.

For years, i nursed and believed in the notion that the only way to succeed in this nation in a male dominated industry was to act out as a tomboy, you know become one of the boys. I never believed in feminine strength until recently and that sent me down a stair of mind boggling questions like why females were not allowed to lead. Why did it seem awkward to me to actually have majority of leadership positions filled in by women. What is so wrong with the feminist ideaology . What is wrong with the concept of girlpower?

Feel free to listen guys and let me know what you think.

Podcast alert!!!

You asked for it and its here.

Sane in lagos podcast is the podcast where i get to bring in guests to discuss about different topics and issues. This time i have the mega award winning mc in the house(enimz) and we discuss our experience so far in the city of lagos.

For those of us living lagos, How has your experience in lagos been so far?

Talk to us in the comment section below

We all have deal breakers in friendships and relationships, you know those things tha tick us off and make us turn away from someone we once liked/loved. For some its a particular character flaw like lieing, cheating e.t.c. For me as highlighted in this episode where i talk about my past relationship, it was alot of things and you'll find out when you listen.

What are your deal breakers guy?

Let me know!

According to the urban dictionary:

 Slay queens are girls who do not have a wealthy background but appear as if they do. They use malicious acts to attain cash, drink expensive alcohol, procure expensive cellphones.

We have "slayqueens" that are usually celebrated for the wrong reasons(skin, shape, makeup etc) But what if we can change the narrative of what this truely means and celebrate the true queens of our society. The women making impact and tremendous progress in the industry and their various communities.

My definition of a slay queen?

A lady making great impact in her society with her resilience and belief, A lady who channels her value positively onto the lives of others and affects lives in her immediate environment.

For me, that is a proper slay queen.

What's your definition of a slay queen?

#SLAYQUEEN

In a digital world like ours, Its very easy for words to be misrepresented and misinterpreted,

SLAY QUEENS?

What does it mean?

Who in her true essence is a slay queen?

Are the real queens really celebrated in today's society?

What does it mean to be a 21st century slay queen?

Something to think about as ladies....