Dear Diary (& Listeners), 
 
I want to start off by saying Thank You. The Dichotomy Diaries has jumped insane numbers this past week and I have you all to thank for that. 
 
Episode 13 starts off with an overview...and maybe a little sneak peek.
 
The point that we are at in this story is went mentally things all go down hill for me. 
 
Naturally, this is taxing, but when I tell you it is C O M P L E T E L Y necessary- I mean it. 
 
I am constantly questioned on why I would choose to sit with the bad decisions and pain inflicted on me. It is a very simple answer I will repeat over and over again. TO PROCESS IT. 
 
Unprocessed trauma is and will always be the underlying reason for all the things that go wrong. Choosing to experience pain over immediate pleasure of ignorance takes a self-aware individual. 
 
Are you self-aware?
 
EP13 - Make a Wish is the story of my 32nd birthday in Arizona for Super Bowl Weekend & the Valentine's Day to follow. 
 
Here's a secret I never admitted to anyone ever...
 
Each birthday that I spent with Dick, my birthday wish as I blew out the candles was always the same. "Please Heavenly Father (what Mormons refer to God as), make things easier for my husband so that we can have a good life. 
 
I never wished for things to be easier for me. 
And that should tell you everything you need to know.
 
Enjoy and be sure to listen to the entire Outro for some additional sneak peeks that will reinvigorate the marathon listener in you...
 
Forever Speaking My Truth,
Amanda Arnier, MLS
 
If you have experienced anything similar and would like to be a guest on The Dichotomy Diaries, please email:
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Music: Ashley England
Production: Amanda L. Arnier, MLS
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S1:E13 - Make a Wish

Prepare to be captivated by The Dichotomy Diaries, an invitation to embark on an extraordinary journey through a web of eerily similar firsthand accounts. Brace yourself for tales of manipulation, domestic turmoil, narcissistic intrigue, and financial deceit—all driven by the intoxicating illusion of love.

In Season One, you’ll be introduced to nine remarkable women, each unaware of their shared connection: the enigmatic figure who upended their lives. Dive headfirst into their stories, commencing in the present day, as one courageous wife & host Amanda Arnier, navigates the treacherous waters of a chaotic divorce. Along the way, she unravels a trail of women left in her husband’s turbulent wake.

This is a narrative that delves deep, exposing the shadowy underbelly of financial domination, escorting, and compulsive gambling, all concealed beneath the veneer of a seemingly perfect partner. Join us on a journey that will both shock and inspire, as we explore the complexities of love’s dichotomy and the resilience of those who emerge from its depths.

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Dear Listeners, 
In today's episode, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Ambre to delve into the whirlwind of emotions and experiences that come with falling in love with a Wolf in Sheep's clothing. 
Ambre takes us through her journey of meeting our shared ex, where the sparks flew and the relationship progressed rapidly. She opens up about the initial attraction, the deepening of their feelings, and the shared belief that they had each found their soulmate. 
Our conversation also takes a personal turn as Ambre shares insights into her background, family life, and religious upbringing, providing a rich context to her part of this story. 
We navigate through my own experiences, recounting the excitement and connection I felt upon meeting Dick. I reveal the challenges and discoveries I faced, including the surprising revelations about his past engagements and financial behaviors that led to a stark realization of dishonesty and manipulation. 
Together, Ambre and I explore the intricate dynamics of our scarily similar relationships, from meeting significant family members to confronting the turmoil and uncertainties that emerged. It's a heartfelt and eye-opening discussion about love, trust, and the lessons we learn along the way. 
Thank you for tuning in, and I hope this episode resonates with you as much as it did with me. 
You can learn more about Ambre by checking out her socials below: 
Instagram: @AmbreFit
YouTube: @ambrefit
Twitter: @TheAmbreFit 
TikTok: @AmbreFit 
www.AmbreFit.com 
 
Stay tuned for PART 2 or this THREE part story next week! 
 
Forever Speaking My Truth, 
Amanda Arnier, MLS
 
We're taking submissions for SEASON TWO. If you have a CRAZY story that you would like to share and heal through on The Dichotomy Diaries, please email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com
Sound Production: Amanda Arnier
Guest: Ambre Mckee
Music: Ashley England
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S1:E28 - [AMBRE'S STORY] Summer Solstice: Part 1

Dear Listeners,
In this episode, Kylie opens up about what drove her to be part of The Dichotomy Diaries podcast as we reflect on our shared experiences with relationships.
Join me as Kylie Brocato bravely shares her story about dating Dick, a man with a violent criminal history. What started with attraction and compliments soon turned into a nightmare of verbal abuse, manipulation, and attempts to disrupt her co-parenting relationship.
Despite the chaos, Kylie’s strength shone through, and she ultimately ended the toxic relationship, leading to a much healthier co-parenting dynamic with her ex. We dive deep into the dynamics of Kylie's relationship with Dick, including his neglect of his own children while trying to claim hers, his financial instability and gambling, and his secret life as a sex worker for men!
Kylie’s revelation about being deceived by Dick's false narratives highlights the importance of setting boundaries and recognizing red flags. We also discuss how Dick used location sharing as a control tactic, the financial strain he caused, and his outrageous public behavior.
Join us for a heartfelt and insightful conversation that underscores the importance of resilience, boundaries, and self-awareness in relationships. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes every week! 

S1:E27 - [KYLIE'S STORY] All Bark. No Bite.

Dear Listeners,
In this deep and insightful conversation, Rohanna and I explore Rohanna’s multifaceted life experiences, touching on her early life on Whidbey Island, her journey through homeschooling, and her early marriage. Rohanna also shares about her collaborative natural body care business with her mom in the Pacific Northwest, and the beauty of living near the orcas.
The conversation shifts to more personal themes, delving into Rohanna’s past narcissistic relationship with you guessed it....Dick. The revelations of abuse begin to align with the healing power of storytelling as we both reflect on the importance of empathy, accountability, and reciprocity. We candidly discuss the dynamics of different relationships, from familial to romantic, highlighting the lessons learned about safety, trust, and maintaining one’s individuality.
Throughout, Rohanna hopes her openness helps others feel less alone, emphasizing the strength found in shared stories and the support of true friendship- an amazing byproduct of Dick's treacherous ways.
Please give Rohanna a follow and support her business:
https://www.sweetsistersbodycare.com 
Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sweetsistersbodycare 
Personal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wildonefit 
If you have experienced anything similar and would like to be a guest on The Dichotomy Diaries, please email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com 
Sound Production: Amanda Arnier
Guest: Rohanna Wildon
Music: Ashley England
Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com 
Insta: https://www.instagram.com/TheDichotomyDiaries 
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S1:E26 - [ROHANNA'S STORY] Never Been Pro

Dear Listeners, 
In this segment of the conversation, Joanna and Amanda delve into the intricate dynamics of Joanna's relationship with her ex-partner, Dick.
They explore Dick's isolated lifestyle, his fixation on fitness and steroid use, as well as his troubling control over Joanna's diet and body image. Furthermore, they shed light on his neglectful behavior as a father to his daughter.
The discussion also touches upon Dick's manipulative tactics, including his skillful redirection during arguments and exploitation of Joanna's talents and creativity.
Joanna bravely shares her profound sense of entrapment and manipulation in the relationship, detailing the emotional and physical abuse she endured. She recounts harrowing experiences, including a violent incident where Dick attempted to suffocate her.
Amidst the darkness, Joanna opens up about her journey to healing and the pivotal role therapy played in her recovery process.
Follow Joanna and support her business ventures through the links below:
Personal Instagram: @_joannahans  Business Instagram: @livingbreadbakehouse  TikTok: @joanna.hans  Business Website: https://www.joannahans.com  
If you resonate with Joanna's story and would like to share your own experiences on "The Dichotomy Diaries," please reach out via email at TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com.
Sound Production: Amanda Arnier  Guest: Joanna Hans  Music: Ashley England  
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S1:E25 - [JOANNA'S STORY] Houston, We Have a Squatter: Part 2

Dear Listeners, 
In this compelling episode, Amanda sits down with Joanna to delve into her personal journey with a former partner who, coincidentally, they both know.
Joanna candidly shares the story of their meeting, the subtle early signs of manipulation she noticed, and the profound impact it had on her life.
Both Amanda and Joanna hope that by sharing this story, it will provide solace to others and illuminate the realities of narcissistic abuse. They explore the characteristics of women often targeted by narcissists and the manipulative tactics they employ.
From the outset, Joanna's father had reservations about Dick. Yet, Dick managed to maintain a convincing facade, impressing Joanna's family to some extent.
As circumstances would have it, Joanna found herself becoming roommates with Dick, eventually leading to an "exclusive" relationship...or so she thought.
The relationship seemed picture-perfect on social media, providing Joanna with a sense of security. However, this facade crumbled when she began receiving messages about Dick's inappropriate behavior.
Joanna soon recognized that Dick had used his Mormon faith as yet another tool for manipulation.
In addition to this, Joanna discovered some of Dick's unconventional side hustles, one of which even surprised Amanda.
Much like Amanda, Joanna found herself trapped in a trauma bond with Dick, experiencing lies, abandonment, verbal abuse, and coercion firsthand.
VIDEO RECORDINGS OF EPISODES ARE HERE! 
Please give Joanna a follow & support her business!
Personal Instagram: @_joannahans
Business Instagram: @livingbreadbakehouse
TikTok: @joanna.hans
Business Website: https://www.joannahans.com
 
If you have experienced anything similar and would like to be a guest on The Dichotomy Diaries, please email:
TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com
Sound Production: Amanda Arnier
Guest: Joanna Hans
Music: Ashley England
Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com
Insta: @TheDichotomyDiaries
TikTok: @TheDichotomyDiaries
Facebook: The Dichotomy Diaries

S1:E13 - Make a Wish

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