Make Them Pay

This week , I sit down with one of my best friends, Elyse - to catch up on everything I’ve learned over the last six months of Make Them Pay. We dive into the surge of women joining Seeking Arrangements and OnlyFans, the truth about sugar dating, and whether rising awareness of this industry actually helps sex workers. We also talk about setting healthy boundaries, the future of monogamy, navigating sex parties, and whether hiring an escort is the safest option when exploring a threesome. If you’re interested in modern relationships, sex work realities, online dating, or ethical non-monogamy, this episode is for you.

In this episode, I chat with professional male escort Tommy Hart for an honest and eye-opening discussion about the male escort industry, female pleasure, and the dynamics of modern relationships.

Tommy reveals why many women choose male escorts over casual dating apps, and how couples work with him to reignite intimacy and rekindle sexual chemistry in their relationships. We dive deep into the misconceptions men have about female pleasure, and what both men and women can do to enhance sexual satisfaction and emotional connection.

Tommy also shares the realities of being a male sex worker, why professionalism and boundaries are vital, and how some self-serving motives in the industry can harm clients and trust. Plus, he offers empowering insights on how women can build confidence in the bedroom and improve sexual wellness within their relationships.

If you’re interested in sex and intimacy, relationship advice, or understanding the truth about the escort industry, this is an enlightening conversation you don’t want to miss.

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From the outside it looked like Alexis had the perfect Sugar Daddy, he bought her a car, house, took her overseas to buy award winning horses, she even stopped working to start her dream business - funded by him. But her dreams slowly turned into a nightmare when he went through her phone bill....

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This week’s guest is one of my favourite sugar daddies, and he’s here to help me challenge the way people see the men who pay for companionship. Too often, society feeds us the idea that they’re creepy, disrespectful, or incapable of getting a woman without paying. He gives a very honest insight into why rich men opt for paid companionship over social dating sights,

By the end of this episode, I think you’ll agree with us that this is just another myth about the sex industry.

We dive into how we met, what our arrangement looks like, and why he first turned to sex workers during his marriage. He also shares what he would say if his daughter wanted to become a sex worker, and he gives an honest warning about a common trap women should look out for before entering the industry.

I’m so grateful he was willing to come on and be this open and honest! helping me push back against the shame and stigma that still surround this work and change the representation of the men

This week I’m joined by Jade Blair (@jadeblairxox) - a sex worker and advocate with 9 years in the industry. From working as a private escort and in brothels to building her career on OnlyFans, Jade has seen it all. She’s volunteered with sex worker advocacy groups across Australia and in 2025 won Best Industry Advocate at the Australian Adult Industry Awards.

We talk about why normalising sex work makes the industry safer, how autism effects her work, the way male clients are just as misrepresented as the sex workers, and the controversial TikTok money counts

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In this episode, I speak with Dallas Rayne, who has spent 16 years working across the sex industry in Australia. Dallas has done it all—strip clubs, private escort work, brothels, and even becoming one of Australia’s most famous porn stars before OnlyFans whipped out the porn industry. We dive into the taboos around sex work, how the industry has impacted her dating life and relationships, and what first inspired her to step into the world of sex work. We also touch on how she became the most awarded sex worker in Australia, holding titles such as Best Female Stripper, Best Private Escort, Best Milf, Hall of fame, Best Australian Porn Star & Alpha Female Industry Leader!

In 2025, a full time corperate job is still not enough to afford the lifestyle most desire. 'Barbie' was tired of being broke, and wanted to see what is would be like to work part time in a brothel. She's now worked in four of Melbournes brothels, so she knows a thing or ten about red-flag and green-flag establishments, and how to stay safe in this work and in your every day sex life

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10 years ago I was living a very different life, I moved back to America to be with Texas, but when I arrived, he was no where to be seen. This is when my stint as a call girl started....

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Have you heard of the Madonna-Whore complex?

This week, we dive into the juicy duality of being both a registered nurse and a stripper - and how society still struggles to accept women who choose both. Kate is a registered nurse, as well as a pole dancer for 20 years, co-owns a pole studio, and founded Haus of GAIA, where she mentors women to reclaim their sexuality and regulate their nervous systems - all grounded in her background in trauma nursing and resuscitation education.

We talk Madonna-Whore complex, sexual expression, breaking rules, and what it really looks like to be a woman who does it all - without apology

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This week I sit down with Erika White, a Youtuber turned OnlyFans creator. She's only been on the site a year now and is absolutely killing it. We talk about the pressures of being an online creator, weird requests, the loneliness of content creation, how to be smart with your money, and how she decided to go for it and build the life of her dreams.

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