Make Your Damn Bed

Try not to take things so personally. The more you detach yourself from the outcomes of things the easier this becomes. Most things aren’t about you anyway. If someone ghosts you, 9 times out of ten, it’s a them problem. If people are unkind, it’s on them.

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Nobody should miss an opportunity because they were too afraid to speak up. The way I look at it, is you may as well ask, cuz the worst that can happen is they tell you no.

I encourage you to your shot. As Wayne Gretzky once said, you’ll miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. I take that as a signal that you may as well go out swinging.

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We shouldn’t let our past experiences of being let down impact the people in our lives who aren’t going to let us down. It may take time to earn our trust but we must be willing to provide others with the opportunity to earn that trust. If we’re closed off by assuming the worst, we are closing ourselves off to the best, too.

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You are a powerful energetic being and you should wield that power wisely. Practice listening more genuinely and not confusing other’s words with your own interpretations. Practice responding more honestly to what the room needs in the present moment, and remember the key is to observe and not absorb.

Make Your Damn Bed is a real talk, daily motivation podcast to play while you make your bed* every morning. Each season is 66 days long to incorporate new healthy habits of your choosing into your daily life.

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Boundaries come from a place of self love while ultimatums come from a place of fear. You can’t use the excuse of a boundary to attempt to control another person. Boundaries are meant to center around what you can do yourself to sustain your mental wellbeing instead of what others can do to sustain your mental wellbeing.

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So many of us are so willing to make excuses for the people in our lives because we are comfortable or we may be afraid of addressing it for a variety of reasons. It may feel like it’s easier to ignore things but we forget how exhausting it can be having to jump through hoops in the mental olympics to justify other people’s bad behavior or red flags.

Make Your Damn Bed is a real talk, daily motivation podcast to play while you make your bed* every morning. Each season is 66 days long to incorporate new healthy habits of your choosing into your daily life.

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While our thinking brain is often more analytical and more logical by nature, it doesn’t mean the logic it uses is infallible. Anything that happens to you is processed through your subjective lens so the fact that you have a unique perspective may not always allow you to see things fully -regardless of how thoughtful and analytical you are about it.

Make Your Damn Bed is a real talk, daily motivation podcast to play while you make your bed* every morning. Each season is 66 days long to incorporate new healthy habits of your choosing into your daily life.

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Toxic positivity means we are in a state of denial and when we repress emotions we may miss important cues that can keep us out of the negative cycles that we were so afraid of falling into in the first place.

Make Your Damn Bed is a real talk, daily motivation podcast to play while you make your bed* every morning. Each season is 66 days long to incorporate new healthy habits of your choosing into your daily life.

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A good rule of thumb for critiques and compliments is: if a person can’t change it in thirty seconds, it is not appropriate to comment on it.

Make Your Damn Bed is a real talk, daily motivation podcast to play while you make your bed* every morning. Each season is 66 days long to incorporate new healthy habits of your choosing into your daily life.

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Self trust is the key to self confidence so one of the worst things you can do to harm another person is by causing them them distrust themselves. When we lie or cheat or gaslight our loved ones or when we belittle their feelings or discount their opinions, we are causing them to distrust their inner voice and that is a heinous act. This is why honesty, openness, and accountability are such important strengths to nurture in our relationships.

Make Your Damn Bed is a real talk, daily motivation podcast to play while you make your bed* every morning. Each season is 66 days long to incorporate new healthy habits of your choosing into your daily life.

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