“There are five areas of intimacy, and these five areas create opportunity for a couple to develop deep trust, connection and understanding between them.”  Tune in to this latest episode on making intimacy a priority in marriage, as our host Gary Koh chats with Steven and Michelle who have been married for 41 years and are still going strong.  -- Whether you are preparing for or looking to strengthen your marriage, visit www.family.org.sg for more resources to help you along in your journey.   Should you be in need of help or support; our counsellors are available to lend a listening ear. Make an appointment with us at www.family.org.sg/Counselling.  -- If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.  You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Do note that if you are based in Singapore, one-time gifts above SGD$50 or monthly donations above SGD$10 are eligible for 250% tax-deductible benefits. 

Making Intimacy A Priority

Welcome to the Connect2 marriage podcast by Focus on the Family Singapore! 

Married life can be filled with twists and turns, especially with the day-to-day priorities, and stresses in life, including the times we run into conflict with our spouse.  

No matter the state of your relationship today, we want to help your marriage thrive. 

Join us as we figure out life and love together, and go deep into the conversations and questions (often unspoken) about the toughest topics on connection, intimacy and lifelong love.  

While there are no perfect marriages, there is always room to grow to be the best spouse we can be. With practical tips, a whole lot of vulnerability and even a dose of humour, we hope that these episodes will provide hope and encouragement for your marriage.

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“Instead of trying to dissect the problem, I'm trying to understand her emotional state. I try to listen to her, validate her point of view, and acknowledge how she's feeling. When I do that, I remember that we are on the same team.” - Justin  Intimacy in a marriage is built by two active listeners. Join Justin and Joey on this podcast, as they continue the conversation from the last episode, and share candidly their process of overcoming the negative habits in their marriage to nurture intimacy.  -- Looking for helpful resources to navigate your marriage? Choose from a range of articles and podcasts covering topics such as communication, intimacy, conflict resolution.  Visit www.family.org.sg/resources/marriage and read more.  -- If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.   You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Do note that if you are based in Singapore, one-time gifts above SGD$50 or monthly donations above SGD$10 are eligible for 250% tax-deductible benefits. 

Annoying Habits That Hinder Life-Long Love

“Celebrating the small victories: they just finished a presentation... Why not celebrate those moments? Why do we only wait until we have certain anniversaries or bigger milestones that we celebrate and care for each other? We can build that intentionality and pursue our spouse in heartfelt and genuine ways.” - Justin Building a marriage and pursuing our spouse is not just the big and grand gestures, or even spending time together after the day ends. It’s about the little acts throughout the day that tells your spouse you’re thinking of him/her.  Hear from Justin as he shares candidly how he continues to be creative in pursuing Joey, even amidst the responsibilities of work and parenthood. Tune in to find out more! -- Looking for helpful resources to navigate your marriage? Choose from a range of articles and podcasts covering topics such as communication, intimacy, conflict resolution.  Visit www.family.org.sg/resources/marriage and read more. -- If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.   You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Do note that if you are based in Singapore, one-time gifts above SGD$50 or monthly donations above SGD$10 are eligible for 250% tax-deductible benefits. 

Small Gestures That Cultivate Life-Long Love

After marriage, it's common to grow familiar with our spouse, sometimes neglecting to prioritise each other’s needs. The key to a thriving marriage lies in intentional efforts to communicate in each other's love language, and prioritising your spouse.  Joining us on this podcast are Francis and Jocelyn, who share how they maintain their strong bond amidst competing factors. Tune in to discover more!  -- Looking for helpful resources to navigate your marriage? Choose from a range of articles and podcasts covering topics such as communication, intimacy, conflict resolution. Visit www.family.org.sg/resources/marriage and read more. -- The Connect2 Marriage Preparation Workshop equips couples with handles to walk into marriage. Through the guidance of husband-and-wife trainers over 3 sessions, participants will learn to:  Engage in effective communication and healthy conflict Plan and manage family finances well Understand sexual intimacy and the importance of romance Manage expectations and plan for the future (children, in-laws, work-life) 
Whether they are newly married or thinking of getting married, couples will benefit from the interactive style of learning, practical tips offered, and deep discussions about topics that are not usually raised in conversations before marriage. Share this with a couple who could benefit from the workshop! Find out the dates: www.family.org.sg/C2MarriagePrep-- If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.   You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Do note that if you are based in Singapore, one-time gifts above SGD$50 or monthly donations above SGD$10 are eligible for 250% tax-deductible benefits. 

Nurturing Your Marriage Amidst Life's Demands

We live in a hyperconnected and fast-paced world, where everyone is just a text or call away. However, with such a hyperconnected-ness, how do we discipline ourselves to slow down and connect with those who truly matter?  Tune in to this podcast where Francis and Jocelyn share how they intentionally carve out time for each other amidst the busyness of life. Don't miss out on their practical tips for navigating this time-starved world we all live in! -- Looking for helpful resources to navigate your marriage? Choose from a range of articles and podcasts covering topics such as communication, intimacy, conflict resolution. Visit www.family.org.sg/resources/marriage and read more.  -- The Connect2 Marriage Preparation Workshop equips couples with handles to walk into marriage. Through the guidance of husband-and-wife trainers over 3 sessions, participants will learn to:  Engage in effective communication and healthy conflict Plan and manage family finances well Understand sexual intimacy and the importance of romance Manage expectations and plan for the future (children, in-laws, work-life) 
Whether they are newly married or thinking of getting married, couples will benefit from the interactive style of learning, practical tips offered, and deep discussions about topics that are not usually raised in conversations before marriage.  Share this with a couple who could benefit from the workshop! Find out the dates: www.family.org.sg/C2MarriagePrep-- If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.   You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Do note that if you are based in Singapore, one-time gifts above SGD$50 or monthly donations above SGD$10 are eligible for 250% tax-deductible benefits. 

In a Busy World, how do I Make Time for Love?

Working as one team as husband and wife, enables you to cover each other’s weaknesses, while complementing each other’s strengths! Parenting as one not only benefits your children, but strengthens your bond with your spouse!  In this second episode of a two-part series, Joel and Jilleen share how they navigate their differences and challenges, and the bumpy process they go through to find a middle ground.  Affirming and appreciating our spouses’ differences is a doorway to being better parents and closer allies partners. Tune in to find out their story! -- Building a strong foundation is essential to a flourishing marriage that stands the test of time. If you have friends or family members getting married soon, would you share with them about the Connect2 Marriage Preparation Workshop?    With the guidance of husband-and-wife trainers, participants will learn to: Engage in effective communication and healthy conflict Plan and manage family finances well Navigate expectations and plan for the future (in-laws, children, work-life) Understand sexual intimacy and the importance of romance 
 Connect2 Marriage Preparation Workshop  Couples can look forward to two weekday online sessions    and one onsite session on a Saturday. Find out the dates: www.family.org.sg/C2MarriagePrep  -- If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.    You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Do note that if you are based in Singapore, one-time gifts above SGD$50 or monthly donations above SGD$10 are eligible for 250% tax-deductible benefits.

Making Intimacy A Priority

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