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In this episode of Mama Needs Me Time, Molly speaks with parenting coach Michelle McVittie about the challenges of motherhood, the importance of self-care, and strategies for managing different parenting styles and children's personalities. They discuss the journey of reclaiming one's identity as a mom, the balance between accommodating children's needs and fostering resilience, and the significance of community support in parenting.

takeaways

• Moms must prioritize self-care to thrive in motherhood.
• Communication and sharing the mental load are essential.
• It's important to reclaim your identity after becoming a mom.
• Surviving motherhood is different from thriving in it.
• Finding a community can provide the necessary support.
• Accommodating children can hinder their resilience.
• Planning and accountability are key in parenting.
• Recognizing your own needs is crucial for family dynamics.
• Every child is different, and parenting strategies should adapt accordingly.
• Diagnosis does not define a person; it's part of their journey.

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In this episode of Mama Needs Me Time, Molly Ryden discusses the importance of ditching mom guilt and prioritizing self-care as a mother. She emphasizes the need for affordable support systems, effective communication of boundaries, and the significance of doing what feels good. Molly encourages listeners to embrace their authentic selves and take actionable steps towards personal growth in 2025, reminding them that taking care of oneself is essential for the well-being of the entire family.

• Ditching mom guilt is essential for empowerment.
• Doing what feels good is a priority.
• Affordable support systems are crucial for moms.
• Communicating boundaries helps in self-care.
• Self-care is necessary for survival, not selfishness.
• Consistency in self-care practices is key.
• You are not a mind reader; communicate your needs.
• Taking time for yourself benefits your family.
• Letting go of societal expectations is liberating.
• Make 2025 a year of personal growth and authenticity.

Sound Bites

• "Let your freak flag fly!"
• "Make 2025 your year!"
• "Self-care is not selfish."

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In this episode of 'Mama Needs Me Time', host Molly Ryden engages in a deep conversation with author and speaker Martha Burich about the complexities of parenting. They explore themes such as sibling rivalry, the importance of chores, addressing entitlement in children, and the significance of allowing kids to experience disappointment. Martha shares her 'Three L's of Parenting'—Love, Lead, and Let them fail—as essential principles for raising responsible children. The discussion emphasizes the need for accountability, resilience, and the importance of self-care for parents.

takeaways

• Parenting is a learning experience for both parents and children.
• Sibling rivalry is a natural part of growing up.
• Children need chores to feel responsible and useful.
• Entitlement in children can lead to unhappiness and addiction.
• It's important to let children experience disappointment.
• Parents should lead by example in their behavior.
• Saying no is crucial for healthy boundaries in parenting.
• Children need to feel a sense of belonging and love.
• Allowing children to fail helps them build resilience.
• Self-care and self-compassion are essential for parents.

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Chapters

00:00
Navigating Sibling Rivalry

04:44
The Importance of Chores and Responsibility

07:06
Entitlement and Mental Health in Children

10:56
The Three L's of Parenting

15:15
Learning Through Disappointment and Accountability

22:51
Teaching Responsibility Through Messes

24:54
Navigating Potty Training Challenges

27:29
Setting Boundaries and Accountability

30:21
The Three L's of Parenting

35:26
Self-Care and Mental Wellbeing for Parents

40:17
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This episode is part one of this engaging conversation between Molly Ryden and Martha Burich. Together we  explore the multifaceted challenges of parenting, including sibling rivalry, parental guilt, and the importance of empathy. Martha shares her personal journey and insights from her experiences as a special education teacher and child psychology professor, emphasizing that parenting is a continuous learning experience. They discuss the significance of understanding individual parenting styles, handling criticism, and fostering a sense of community and connection among parents.

takeaways

• Parenting is a continuous learning experience.
• It's normal to feel guilty as a parent.
• Sibling rivalry is a common issue that persists into adulthood.
• Every child is unique and requires different parenting approaches.
• Parental guilt often stems from societal expectations.
• Teaching empathy is crucial for raising decent human beings.
• Handling criticism gracefully can ease parenting stress.
• Community support is vital for parents.
• Understanding others' struggles can foster kindness.
• Embracing imperfection is key to enjoying the parenting journey.

titles

• Navigating the Chaos of Parenting
• Embracing the Learning Curve of Parenthood

00:00
Introduction to Parenting Challenges

03:38
Martha's Parenting Journey and Lessons Learned

06:24
Understanding Parental Guilt and Sibling Rivalry

09:13
The Impact of Birth Order on Parenting

12:02
Navigating Child Behavior and Expectations

14:54
Teaching Empathy and Contribution in Parenting

18:05
Handling Criticism and Embracing Imperfection

21:00
The Importance of Community and Connection

24:13
Final Thoughts on Parenting and Self-Reflection

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In this episode, Molly Ryden discusses the importance of communication for mothers, addressing the barriers that prevent them from expressing their needs. She emphasizes the significance of clear communication with partners, friends, family, and children, and how it can lead to better mental health and self-care. The episode encourages mothers to break down the stigma of asking for help and to create a supportive environment for themselves and their families.

takeaways

• If you are not communicating what you need, how is anyone supposed to help you?
• Keeping everything bottled up doesn't make you a better mom.
• You can't pour from an empty cup.
• If you want help, you have got to be specific.
• Asking for help doesn't mean you're weak, it means that you're human.
• When you start communicating your needs, amazing things are going to happen.
• You're not just doing this for yourself, you're setting an example.
• Communication is key to setting boundaries with your kids.
• The people who truly care about you want to help you.
• Happy wife, happy life didn't come out of nowhere.

titles

• Unlocking the Power of Communication for Moms
• Breaking Down Barriers: Moms and Communication

Sound Bites

• "You can't pour from an empty cup."
• "If you want help, you have got to be specific."
• "Happy wife, happy life didn't come out of nowhere."

Chapters

00:00
The Importance of Communication for Moms

06:30
Barriers to Effective Communication

11:52
Communicating Needs to Partners and Friends

17:20
Teaching Kids About Communication and Boundaries

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In this episode of Mama Needs Me Time, host Molly Ryden discusses the concept of a growth mindset, particularly in the context of motherhood. She explains the difference between a growth mindset and a fixed mindset, emphasizing the importance of resilience and self-improvement for moms. The episode provides practical applications for adopting a growth mindset, strategies for developing it, and ways to teach children the value of persistence and effort. Molly encourages listeners to embrace challenges and view setbacks as opportunities for growth, fostering a supportive community for moms.

takeaways

• A growth mindset is the belief that skills can improve through effort.
• Moms often have a natural growth mindset but can feel stuck.
• Shifting to a growth mindset helps reframe challenges as opportunities.
• Comparison on social media can trap moms in a fixed mindset.
• Overcoming mom guilt is essential for personal growth.
• Setbacks are stepping stones to learning and progress.
• Self-awareness is the first step in developing a growth mindset.
• Adding 'yet' to your self-talk can change your perspective.
• Surrounding yourself with growth-oriented people is crucial.
• Teaching kids to value effort over results fosters resilience.

titles

• Embracing the Growth Mindset in Motherhood
• Transforming Challenges into Opportunities for Moms

Sound Bites

• "You deserve it, girl!"
• "It's about progress, not perfection."
• "Praise effort, not just results."

Chapters

00:00
Welcome and Introduction to Growth Mindset

11:54
Developing a Growth Mindset: Self-Awareness and Gratitude

17:34
Teaching Growth Mindset to Our Children

21:45
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In this episode of Mama Needs Me Time, Molly Ryden discusses the journey of rediscovering one's ideal self after becoming a mom. She explores the difference between surviving and thriving in motherhood, emphasizing the importance of self-care, setting boundaries, and reconnecting with personal passions. Molly encourages moms to reflect on their identities outside of motherhood and offers practical techniques for self-discovery, while also addressing the pervasive issue of mom guilt and the need for community support.

Key Points

• Motherhood can shift us into survival mode.
• Thriving means feeling joy and being your true self.
• It's natural for moms to focus on their kids' needs.
• We often lose sight of our passions and interests after becoming a mom.
• Taking time for yourself is not selfish; it's essential.
• Setting boundaries helps protect your time and energy.
• Finding a supportive community can aid in rediscovery.
• Letting go of mom guilt is crucial for personal growth.
• Affirmations can help shift your mindset towards thriving.
• A fulfilled mom positively impacts her family and community.

Journaling Questions
What were my interests and passions before motherhood?

What parts of myself have I missed the most?

What activities made me feel most like me?

Chapters

00:00
Rediscovering Your Ideal Self as a Mom

06:32
Techniques for Reconnection

16:05
Letting Go of Mom Guilt and Affirmations

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In this episode of Mama Needs Me Time, Molly Ryden delves into the overwhelming stress that mothers often face and emphasizes the importance of coping skills. She shares practical techniques for managing stress, building resilience, and incorporating self-care into daily life. The conversation highlights the significance of community support and the necessity of prioritizing oneself amidst the demands of motherhood.

takeaways

• Every mom experiences overwhelming stress at times.
• Coping skills are essential for managing stress effectively.
• Breathing exercises can provide immediate relief in stressful moments.
• Grounding techniques help bring focus back to the present.
• Journaling can be a quick and freeing way to express thoughts.
• Mindfulness apps can assist in establishing a meditation practice.
• Affirmations can shift negative thought patterns.
• Small acts of self-care can significantly impact mental well-being.
• Setting boundaries is crucial to avoid burnout.
• Community support is vital for mothers navigating stress.

Chapters

00:00
Understanding Stress in Motherhood

06:01
Building a Resilience Toolkit

11:57
Embracing Self-Care and Community Support

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In this episode of Mama Needs Me Time, Molly Ryden discusses the essential skill of adaptability in motherhood. She emphasizes the unpredictability of parenting and shares practical strategies to help moms adjust to unexpected challenges. The conversation highlights the importance of flexibility, mindfulness, and building a supportive community while also addressing the need to let go of control and embrace the learning curve of parenting.

takeaways

• Being adaptable is essential for thriving in motherhood.
• Expect the unexpected; unpredictability is a part of parenting.
• Shift from perfectionism to flexibility in daily planning.
• Use micro plans to create a more adaptable schedule.
• Practice mindfulness and deep breathing to manage stress.
• Don't hesitate to ask for help from your community.
• Plan for time buffers to reduce stress and anxiety.
• Letting go of control can lead to a more peaceful mindset.
• Aim for presence in your parenting rather than control.
• Every day is a new opportunity to learn and adapt.

Sound Bites

• "Life happens, plan for it."
• "Letting go of control is hard."
• "Aim for presence, not control."

Chapters

00:00
Embracing Adaptability in Motherhood

05:53
The Importance of Letting Go of Control

11:55
Continuous Learning in Parenting

13:07
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In this episode of Mama Needs Me Time, Molly Ryden addresses the emotional challenges faced by empaths and highly sensitive individuals during election cycles. She discusses the overwhelming nature of absorbing emotions from various sources and offers practical strategies for managing stress, setting boundaries, and maintaining emotional wellbeing. The episode emphasizes the importance of community support and the practice of compassionate detachment to navigate intense emotional seasons while prioritizing self-care.

takeaways

• Election cycles are saturated with charged emotions.
• Empaths absorb not just their own feelings but others' too.
• Setting boundaries on news consumption is crucial.
• Grounding activities can help release emotional weight.
• Finding a supportive community is essential for empaths.
• Compassionate detachment allows empathy without absorption.
• It's okay to care deeply while protecting your mental space.
• Recognizing triggers can help manage emotional responses.
• Prioritizing self-care is not selfish, it's essential.
• You deserve to prioritize your emotional wellbeing.

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