Dear Diary (& Listeners),
I am stressed this week. 
I have so many things going at once. 
The holidays crept up and I feel like I am burning the candle at both ends. 
I've found myself in a strange lull because of the holidays. Everywhere I look someone is experiencing joy and new beginnings. 
I held space for myself for a moment, but didn't let it get the best of me. Between family, friends, and Italian Batman- there is so much potential, positivity, and love in my life right now. 
Thats why this week it's extra appropriate to introduce you to my Mom for the very first time. 
In Episode 8, you will get a first-hand, unfiltered (as always) view as to what Life with Dick looked like from a Mother's perspective. 
Join us as this delusional cross-country road trip takes us to Lake Geneva, WI & Huntsville, AL and takes Dick on a Farewell to FinDom Tour all along the East Coast. 
Prepare yourself for some SHOCKING confessions. 
Oh - and in this Episode, Dick leaves his precious computer unlocked while he goes on a day trip to see a "client" in Reno. 
Finally, you're never going to FUCKING guess who calls me... 
 
** One last thing. If you find yourself feeling down because of the holidays. Seriously- shoot me a message. I'll be the first to remind you that your presence in this World is not only important; it may be the very reason someone else exists...**
 
Forever Speaking My Truth, 
Amanda L. Arnier, MLS
 
 
If you have experienced anything similar and would like to be a guest on The Dichotomy Diaries, please email:
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Music: Ashley England
Production: Amanda L. Arnier, MLS
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Prepare to be captivated by The Dichotomy Diaries, an invitation to embark on an extraordinary journey through a web of eerily similar firsthand accounts. Brace yourself for tales of manipulation, domestic turmoil, narcissistic intrigue, and financial deceit—all driven by the intoxicating illusion of love.

In Season One, you’ll be introduced to nine remarkable women, each unaware of their shared connection: the enigmatic figure who upended their lives. Dive headfirst into their stories, commencing in the present day, as one courageous wife & host Amanda Arnier, navigates the treacherous waters of a chaotic divorce. Along the way, she unravels a trail of women left in her husband’s turbulent wake.

This is a narrative that delves deep, exposing the shadowy underbelly of financial domination, escorting, and compulsive gambling, all concealed beneath the veneer of a seemingly perfect partner. Join us on a journey that will both shock and inspire, as we explore the complexities of love’s dichotomy and the resilience of those who emerge from its depths.

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Dear Listeners, 
In this powerful and raw episode of The Dichotomy Diaries, Amanda sits down with Ambre to uncover the many layers of their toxic relationships. The conversation delves into several deeply personal themes, including:
Strained Family Dynamics: Amanda shares insights into the troubled relationship between her husband and his father, exposing the negative family dynamics and emotional abuse she endured.
Financial Control and Manipulation: Both Amanda and Ambre discuss the financial issues they faced, including how their partners used money as a tool for control and manipulation.
Emotional and Verbal Abuse: They recount the hurtful comments, derogatory language, and verbal attacks that characterized their relationships, highlighting the damaging impact on their mental health.
Gambling Addiction: The episode explores the significant role that Amanda's husband's gambling addiction played in their lives, adding another layer of complexity to the abuse.
Conflict Diffusion: Amanda and Ambre describe their roles as peacemakers in constant conflicts, often at the expense of their own well-being.
Suspicious Friendships: The conversation also touches on the suspicious and unhealthy relationship between Amanda's husband, Dick, and his friend Matt.
The episode continues with Ambre's experiences of manipulation, coercion, and financial abuse in her relationship. Key points include:
Broken Promises and Anxiety: Ambre recounts how her partner's broken promises left her feeling scared and anxious, a sentiment Amanda relates to deeply.
Self-Prioritization and Derogation: They discuss how their partners prioritized themselves, often putting Ambre down and making her feel insignificant.
Steroids and Hormone Therapy: Ambre shares how her partner's involvement with steroids and hormone therapy affected their relationship, including an incident of physical aggression.
Car Situation: They talk about the partner's procrastination in getting a new car, reflecting his overall lack of responsibility.
Finally, Amanda and Ambre discuss their experiences living with a narcissist, shedding light on:
Unstable Living Conditions: They share stories of being moved to different apartments without consent, contributing to financial instability.
Empty Promises: The narcissists' habit of making promises and failing to follow through, leaving them in precarious situations during trips and daily life.
Obsession with Fitness: The narcissists' fixation on gyms and fitness, and how it impacted their relationships.
Dangerous Behavior: Accounts of physically aggressive behavior during "play fights" and the narcissists' lack of remorse.
Through this candid conversation, Amanda and Ambre highlight the manipulative, unpredictable, and damaging nature of their relationships with narcissists. Tune in to hear their stories and gain a deeper understanding of the complex dynamics of abusive relationships.
Remember to share this episode if it resonates with you or someone you know, and follow The Dichotomy Diaries for more stories of strength and resilience.
 
Forever Speaking My Truth,
Amanda
 
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Music: Ashley England
Guest: Ambre McKee
Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier
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S1:E29 - [AMBRE'S STORY] Summer Solstice: Part 2

Dear Listeners, 
In today's episode, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Ambre to delve into the whirlwind of emotions and experiences that come with falling in love with a Wolf in Sheep's clothing. 
Ambre takes us through her journey of meeting our shared ex, where the sparks flew and the relationship progressed rapidly. She opens up about the initial attraction, the deepening of their feelings, and the shared belief that they had each found their soulmate. 
Our conversation also takes a personal turn as Ambre shares insights into her background, family life, and religious upbringing, providing a rich context to her part of this story. 
We navigate through my own experiences, recounting the excitement and connection I felt upon meeting Dick. I reveal the challenges and discoveries I faced, including the surprising revelations about his past engagements and financial behaviors that led to a stark realization of dishonesty and manipulation. 
Together, Ambre and I explore the intricate dynamics of our scarily similar relationships, from meeting significant family members to confronting the turmoil and uncertainties that emerged. It's a heartfelt and eye-opening discussion about love, trust, and the lessons we learn along the way. 
Thank you for tuning in, and I hope this episode resonates with you as much as it did with me. 
You can learn more about Ambre by checking out her socials below: 
Instagram: @AmbreFit
YouTube: @ambrefit
Twitter: @TheAmbreFit 
TikTok: @AmbreFit 
www.AmbreFit.com 
 
Stay tuned for PART 2 or this THREE part story next week! 
 
Forever Speaking My Truth, 
Amanda Arnier, MLS
 
We're taking submissions for SEASON TWO. If you have a CRAZY story that you would like to share and heal through on The Dichotomy Diaries, please email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com
Sound Production: Amanda Arnier
Guest: Ambre Mckee
Music: Ashley England
Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com
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S1:E28 - [AMBRE'S STORY] Summer Solstice: Part 1

Dear Listeners,
In this episode, Kylie opens up about what drove her to be part of The Dichotomy Diaries podcast as we reflect on our shared experiences with relationships.
Join me as Kylie Brocato bravely shares her story about dating Dick, a man with a violent criminal history. What started with attraction and compliments soon turned into a nightmare of verbal abuse, manipulation, and attempts to disrupt her co-parenting relationship.
Despite the chaos, Kylie’s strength shone through, and she ultimately ended the toxic relationship, leading to a much healthier co-parenting dynamic with her ex. We dive deep into the dynamics of Kylie's relationship with Dick, including his neglect of his own children while trying to claim hers, his financial instability and gambling, and his secret life as a sex worker for men!
Kylie’s revelation about being deceived by Dick's false narratives highlights the importance of setting boundaries and recognizing red flags. We also discuss how Dick used location sharing as a control tactic, the financial strain he caused, and his outrageous public behavior.
Join us for a heartfelt and insightful conversation that underscores the importance of resilience, boundaries, and self-awareness in relationships. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes every week! 

S1:E27 - [KYLIE'S STORY] All Bark. No Bite.

Dear Listeners,
In this deep and insightful conversation, Rohanna and I explore Rohanna’s multifaceted life experiences, touching on her early life on Whidbey Island, her journey through homeschooling, and her early marriage. Rohanna also shares about her collaborative natural body care business with her mom in the Pacific Northwest, and the beauty of living near the orcas.
The conversation shifts to more personal themes, delving into Rohanna’s past narcissistic relationship with you guessed it....Dick. The revelations of abuse begin to align with the healing power of storytelling as we both reflect on the importance of empathy, accountability, and reciprocity. We candidly discuss the dynamics of different relationships, from familial to romantic, highlighting the lessons learned about safety, trust, and maintaining one’s individuality.
Throughout, Rohanna hopes her openness helps others feel less alone, emphasizing the strength found in shared stories and the support of true friendship- an amazing byproduct of Dick's treacherous ways.
Please give Rohanna a follow and support her business:
https://www.sweetsistersbodycare.com 
Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sweetsistersbodycare 
Personal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wildonefit 
If you have experienced anything similar and would like to be a guest on The Dichotomy Diaries, please email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com 
Sound Production: Amanda Arnier
Guest: Rohanna Wildon
Music: Ashley England
Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com 
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S1:E26 - [ROHANNA'S STORY] Never Been Pro

Dear Listeners, 
In this segment of the conversation, Joanna and Amanda delve into the intricate dynamics of Joanna's relationship with her ex-partner, Dick.
They explore Dick's isolated lifestyle, his fixation on fitness and steroid use, as well as his troubling control over Joanna's diet and body image. Furthermore, they shed light on his neglectful behavior as a father to his daughter.
The discussion also touches upon Dick's manipulative tactics, including his skillful redirection during arguments and exploitation of Joanna's talents and creativity.
Joanna bravely shares her profound sense of entrapment and manipulation in the relationship, detailing the emotional and physical abuse she endured. She recounts harrowing experiences, including a violent incident where Dick attempted to suffocate her.
Amidst the darkness, Joanna opens up about her journey to healing and the pivotal role therapy played in her recovery process.
Follow Joanna and support her business ventures through the links below:
Personal Instagram: @_joannahans  Business Instagram: @livingbreadbakehouse  TikTok: @joanna.hans  Business Website: https://www.joannahans.com  
If you resonate with Joanna's story and would like to share your own experiences on "The Dichotomy Diaries," please reach out via email at TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com.
Sound Production: Amanda Arnier  Guest: Joanna Hans  Music: Ashley England  
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